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| Topic: TO GIVE UP OR TO MAKE UP | |
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I don't know if i am in the right track. I just want to hear people's opinion. Well, if you don't have anything nice to say, just shut up. Here it goes: i loved a man who is older than me. I loved him despite of our differences such as nationality, opinions, culture, etc. It was a perfect relationship and we even agreed to start building our lives together. He is a well of man while i am just a simple nurse. He has everything a guy would ask for. While i am simple and determine to live in simplicity. The problem is, the man broke up with me for a lousy reason. One month had passed, no emails nor phonecall, til i had confirmed that now, i am 1 month pregnant with our child. Is it worth to please him to take me back and be ok for the sake of our child or should i continue my life without him? You should try to reconcile if he is not an Abuser. Get married since you already was with him. Unless he does not want You anymore. If he doesn't then it is not an Option. |
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He does'nt like me touching my phone. He hates when my sisters check on me. He get upset when my mom asks where i am and if i am ok. He gets even more upset when i get messages from friends who are females aswell. When my phone beeps, he just stare at me like giving a mandate to forget about checking my messages. I hardly do the same. I don't touch his phone, not until he show it to me. Gosh! Its very unfair on my part. Did someone jusy say ", IF he's an abuser" , WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!  nobody needs a degree to recognize abuse patterns! 1) Controls the phone 2) Hates when her sister checks up on her.........hummmmm...I wonder why 3) This guy gets upset when her own mother asks where she is...cuz he's pissd off she's out!!! & no doubt Is kicking her pets at this time!!!...How does this guy talk to poor Mom?? 4) Gets even MORE upset when female friends message her!!!; HELLO 5) When her phone beeps, he looks at her, as to say dont you dare!!! Thats the one I like, their to the point that her can control her with a look!! That just shows me that its not something that happend with the family members once or twice!!! but infact it a way of an every day life. Apart from winlei, cynd, and rawrr for the woman I dont see others taking a real strong stance!! I'm hearing words like " sounds like" there is no " sounds like " people! these are the facts! our advice would hold more merit as a hole if people would state the blatinly obvious , she's not looking for chil support advice ! This shouldn't matter men or woman but I was expecting more of an outrage from the Ladies. Furthermore it doesn't mean this guy couldn't deal with an intervention & address these severe issues As it dosent make seens to send him out the door to turn him lose on to his next pray. Mental abuse is as bad as fisical aduse and can also be a lot worse in case's. With out a doubt, if this was 4 or 5 examples of fisical abuse all women would be livid as I . Ps if I mist a name, on a strong clear stance on the clear issue....I apologize |
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Ps if I mist a name, on a strong clear stance on the clear issue....I apologize "He sounds very controlling. Be the strong woman that you are, and don't go back with him if he treats you like that! You need someone who fully trusts you in all things, and who is trustworthy themselves." 
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I don't know if i am in the right track. I just want to hear people's opinion. Well, if you don't have anything nice to say, just shut up. Here it goes: i loved a man who is older than me. I loved him despite of our differences such as nationality, opinions, culture, etc. It was a perfect relationship and we even agreed to start building our lives together. He is a well of man while i am just a simple nurse. He has everything a guy would ask for. While i am simple and determine to live in simplicity. The problem is, the man broke up with me for a lousy reason. One month had passed, no emails nor phonecall, til i had confirmed that now, i am 1 month pregnant with our child. Is it worth to please him to take me back and be ok for the sake of our child or should i continue my life without him? let him go if he disappeared on you like that before he will do it again |
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