Its not wrong to dream. We are but human who seek comfort and love. I f i were on your shoe i will endure my pregnancy and be over with it. The father must know, yes, but if he do not intend to show up then your chase will be pointless. But who knows tomorrow, right? To dream doesnt always end up in good fortune but we should always be open to failure because without it we can never know how strong we are in the midst of difficulties.

I love him. But i am nervous and worried.

dont be nervous or worried, plz take a powerful action as soon as possible

Sighs!

If he love you he will come back. Dont expect too much that he will because he manange to keep hidden for a month. If you love him, love your child more.

I am determine to go on with my pregnancy. Its just sad that he is not here yet. Or if he will ever be around. I don't know if he have read my messages at all. He works in a site with no internet signals.

What a life!

You can do it. There is no turning back. Be well and your child.

Listen! I'm sure he didn't get the message yet , when I found out about my son
I called right away, then made the trip to see her with in a week.
This woman put me through h..ll, but I went back to start fresh, he's now 16 1/2 and doing great.

I really hope so. I know how much he wanted to have a child. Maybe he's under the bush and working. I just hope so. :-)

Well there you go...I work in the bush as a timber faller some jobs are like that

Not wanting you to have or use a phone is unreasonable in my opinion. I wouldn't give in to a demand like that if I was you. He wants to control you and he will probably want to control your child. Tell him that he needs to grow up and that if he wants to be with you then he needs to respect you as a woman and an adult. I don't care what culture that he comes from. If he loves you then he should respect you and trust you.

If he wants a child then that desire! will not go away, and he wont worry about the small stuff

And he will feel more secure as he nows your carring his babe

Yes!! this is perfect

This comes back to "if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything!

I really hope so. He always work in sites with no internet signals. Oh gosh,

He does'nt like me touching my phone. He hates when my sisters check on me. He get upset when my mom asks where i am and if i am ok. He gets even more upset when i get messages from friends who are females aswell. When my phone beeps, he just stare at me like giving a mandate to forget about checking my messages. I hardly do the same. I don't touch his phone, not until he show it to me. Gosh! Its very unfair on my part.

He often told me how he wanted us to be together, he said i was the ideal wife that he wants to spend the rest of his life. I loved him so i gave it a try, i accepted him. He said we are about to wed in no time so we must also concieve the baby. Now i do not know if he is still in the bush and did'nt get my message.

First of i'll address this and send;
Ok, he might of got your mes., but knowing looking at it one of two ways, obviously he's has severe
insecurity issues and is very jealous so he might not want to Think about you right now becauce he's
In a helpless situation and talking to you right now will mess with his head to much.

But this is what I think, this guy definitely needs help, he's mentally abusing you!!! because of the fact

Your pregnant, he no longer feels threatened as he feels secure that your not going to junp in bed with
Someone, and also knows that you wont terminate!!!
He thinks that if he ignores you your going to be fine but the longer he waits the more it plays in to
His hands, him thinking he will have uper hand to mold you (mental abuse you)

So having said that the quickest way to hear from him will be to not message anymore

He's controlling, he wont be able to stand not knowing

This guy needs professional help so infact he needs to seek this help first
If you except anything less your in a word of trouble.

He's already tried to isolate you......abuser! !!!.......sorry this is true!

He knows that he is the only guy that i have. I am tired of hoping and thinking.

Yes, he see's you as somebody that could be his perfect little wife's, somebody he can isolate

I've let this happen to me it doesn't just happen to woman.

If I wasn't doing everything directly for her and I, it was a

Fight!!......before you no it all your friends are gone distant with family purposely

she'd allways say she was the one thats going to be there when i'm 80 not then!!!

Ha! I've got friendships for 38 years, I haven't seen her since 2005 , couldn't tell you

IfI'm still married or not...