Topic: Curvy women question
GLrider's photo
Mon 04/29/13 10:00 PM
As a personal preference, I've liked the ladies that carry a few extra pounds. Many that I've met have personality to match their size, which I enjoy. Now, because I'm a tall, slim guy, a fair number of the women I've met, tend to think I'm only after one thing, which isn't the case.
Now, if you're wary about that, I can understand it. What would put you at ease? Or, is that possible?

afriQueen22's photo
Mon 04/29/13 10:23 PM
Well this screams self-esteem issues to me. U could be short and butch and they still wouldn't trust you, I think.
Let them get to know you. Show them that you're not just a lecherous old perv. Keep the chest ogling to a minimum. Only time and a little ordinary conversation will put them at ease I should think.

ArtGurl's photo
Tue 04/30/13 02:33 AM
All you can do is be you.

My guy is younger than I am and I had a similar thing come up. He just showed me who he was and stayed away from talk of sex until we got to know one another.

Any guy that is only after one thing, only has one thing to talk about. :wink:

Show them who you are. flowerforyou

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 04/30/13 07:28 AM
I have felt at ease when meeting any man because I talking a lot and ask all kinds of questions and communiction goes well, or there is not meet in person. It has worked well for me so far. I am meeting another man soon. All my Dates travel so they are serious about meeting a lady.

no photo
Tue 04/30/13 10:08 AM
Women have different preferences, so your best bet is just to be yourself. Not all curvy women will go for the same type of guy, just as not all skinny women will go for the same guy.