Why we cannot content the first one we love?

Because the grass is always greener on the other side, but still as hard to mow.

We don't cheat.

We love and we are loyal.

We are thankful for a good woman....and we hold on through good times and bad times....through thick and thin....we hold on to a good love.

Sucks that you are dealing with a bad situation....it always blows to try hard and just end up solo.

Keep trying sister.....good love is out there.

You dont walk out into your yard to find a diamond.....you gotta get dirty and work for it.

For a "white girl "......seems like you got some difficulties speaking English....no offence....you just don't look Zulu or Apache.

Its nt becoz they dnt love their partnerss
its just becoz theses r the peoples who r not loyal to themselves too.
..i hate these kind of peooles

It could be that some people have short memories where emotions are concerned?

It would be nice if that could be tested before you marry them.

There really isn't a simple answer for this question due to the fact that there are various reasons why cheating exists. Some "explanations" that I have heard are:

-I was bored as my husband/wife was never around.
-My partner just did not satisfy me sexually.
-Fell out of love with him/her.
-I needed to feel alive again and my partner was not doing that for me.
-My partner cheated on me so I gave him/her a dose of their own medicine.
-I really never truly "loved" my partner. I just thought I did.

I could go on and on with this. I don't think there is a "cheating" gene is a person's DNA code that makes them do it. I feel it all comes down to a choice. If you are unhappy with your partner, then why not work harder to fix things? If that doesn't work then get out of the relationship and then go bang away all you wanna. Sadly a ton of people take the path of no communication and then have an affair to feel good. If you aren't getting attention from your partner and then all of a sudden someone else comes along and gives you all the attention in the world, then you will be tempted rather strongly to cheat.

Some people are just idiots...there's also that.

It happens to male and female. I'd be content with a love. Aw heck, I'd be excited!

my top two answers

cowardice: to afraid to look at themselves and their part in their own unhappiness,

laziness: too lazy to put in the work with their partner to create together what they are looking to someone else to fulfill.

I think that a lot of the time it's just because it being an affair adds a certain excitement to it.

I am for to be not with the cheaty making.

Though I am to be for the wooings and sexiful making.

Cause I be pimp.

A cheater is a cheater is a cheater.
It can be card games, golf, taxes.
Cheaters cheat.
And they get real good at it.
I do not think anyone can change them.

I'm on board with this!!! Well said

As we are only human and are subject to change,

People commit to monogamy and are simply not ready or not been honest to themselves or partners.

Many people will commit to a monogamous relationships for various selfish reasons, having no

Intention of been exclusive themselves.

So my advice to anyone that my need to filter throught this smoke screen of deception is " buyer beware"

Be mindfull, your warranty is not werth the first 50FT OR 50 seconds, "actions WILL ALWAYS speak louder

than words"
,
I stayed single until I was ready ,at 29 years of age . In all my relationships, if thing or people change

I would just move on first but unfortunately not averyone " plays by the rules".

Respecting your loveone is respecting yourselve.

I agree with Pony up there. If you're not ready to do it. Then don't do it. If you do decide to be in a relationship? Then do your part, Stay true and keep your word. You can always get out of it, If it doesn't work. There is no need to cheat.

Thats deep!

♡★♧ push on cyn quote

It reads:

"Some people are just idiots...there's also that .: tongue:"

How appropriate, that gives us another one

Now thats deep!

We? I never cheated on my late wife.

I think you need to wipe those glasses sir. I don't know where she is from. She does not look like a white girl one bit.

I'm just plain confused here.....
First i see a thread that asks "is sex necessary in a relationship"
Then i see one that is asking why people cheat in their relationships ?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA !
I think the first one may be an answer to the second one as well !



At least in some cases...