Hey gang...

I'm new to this group and new to looking for some sort of relationship! I am 29 from Leeds in UK. Just over 4 weeks ago I actually told my family I'm gay it seems it was a massive shock and nobody actually knew so i hid it pretty well!!

the thing is even though I'm so happy that my family are now up to date and I have been ''accepted'' I still feel really lonely, Never had a gay relationship.... I'm now wondering will it ever actually happen?

the thing is I don't think guys find me attractive........... maybe because I'm not....

I am having the same problem. I have weight on me so I dont even question attraction anymore. But here its males want to contact me [ones with little english skills or the fear of god instilled "I can save you!"] and the females that show interest seem to be either not who they say they are or non-existent [create profile and take off]. It sucks. I just want to show my appreciation for the female form...

First of all....kudos for coming out and showing your family your true self. That's a big step. You are brand new to a whole new dating world dude. Take it easy and don't fret. Get out there and show the world who you are.

Well Said Goof!