Topic: How to be the jerk women love.
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Wed 04/24/13 10:23 AM

You can sum up women into pretty much 3 categories. When it comes to dating.
(1) attractive women with several options
(2) moderately attractive women with some options
(3) Bitter women, with no options. that turn to man hating.

The first 2 have to be approached completely differently, As I stated in my previous post.

However have you noticed that every woman bashing men in here either has no photo or fits my number 3 description?


I haven't seen any man hating. I've seen women disagreeing with specific things men in this thread have been saying. No one has been man hating, though.

Apparently my opinion matters less because I don't have a picture up at the moment laugh.

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Wed 04/24/13 10:24 AM

I have yet to see any Taylor swift or Brooklyn decker type attractive women raising any objections in here. If they do show up, Then well talk.


What celebrity do you feel you're on par with when it comes to attractiveness?

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Wed 04/24/13 10:25 AM

In fact I never want to be a jerk, was just in relationships thatI had to, just hold my own , not be steamrolled, not saying thats healthy!


If you have to be a jerk just to hold your own and not be steamrolled, something is wrong.

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Wed 04/24/13 10:33 AM


You can sum up women into pretty much 3 categories. When it comes to dating.
(1) attractive women with several options
(2) moderately attractive women with some options
(3) Bitter women, with no options. that turn to man hating.

The first 2 have to be approached completely differently, As I stated in my previous post.

However have you noticed that every woman bashing men in here either has no photo or fits my number 3 description?


I haven't seen any man hating. I've seen women disagreeing with specific things men in this thread have been saying. No one has been man hating, though.

Apparently my opinion matters less because I don't have a picture up at the moment laugh.


laugh really what I see there is some very serious projection - that statement portrays a good deal of women hating

it is also full of assumptions including the assumption that a person's worth is limited to their physical attractivenss. not many women are going to want to be objectified in that manner.

it also assumes only women are bitter. I see much bitterness coming frm men on here - including that post...it sounds very bitter to me

from what I read on here, it seems that some men call women bitter when a woman points out something that they do not wish to hear

many of us do not have photos because we are only here for the forums. some have photos on profiles but not on the threads...some of us are indeed attractive

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Wed 04/24/13 10:48 AM


I see much bitterness coming frm men on here - including that post...it sounds very bitter to me

from what I read on here, it seems that some men call women bitter when a woman points out something that they do not wish to hear

many of us do not have photos because we are only here for the forums. some have photos on profiles but not on the threads...some of us are indeed attractive


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: laugh

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Wed 04/24/13 10:58 AM

Certainly that was not the interaction I was looking for here.


That's usually the reaction you get in this place. I've rarely seen anyone reply with any kind of understanding or compassion. Just jump right in and start bashing. It's a shame really, but then wasn't that the point of your original post :)



Well, one thing I no for sure is that its a waste of time going to Sex Addition therapy,
Just tune in here, & that over active sex drive , will soon be sitting idle on the back burner. TRUE!!!

I even got "BOOTY CALLED" the other night in the middle of this and didn't give her the time of day.

I find her to be unreliable & dishonest, my decision was based on logic....opposed to emotions
.....well you know were i'm going with this one ...lol.. ( one to be posted)

Geuss she's realy going to want me now.....I'm going to keep "Bust'in her chops " if she's "dumb" enough
to call back.. (hey she stood me up twice n sucked 20 bucks out of me.)

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Wed 04/24/13 11:09 AM


all women say they want a nice guy, none of them actually do. my buddy is like the nicest guy you'll ever meet. he can never find a date. i tend to be a jerk and i'm proud of it. i never have a problem getting a date. it's simply survival of the species. the passive will die out. the agressive alpha male will mate and ensure the survival of the species. that's how it was with our primative ancestors, that's how it is today.

What a load of pretentious twaddle.

must have sruck a nerve. truth hurts babe. rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Wed 04/24/13 11:10 AM
Edited by Traumer on Wed 04/24/13 11:14 AM



You can sum up women into pretty much 3 categories. When it comes to dating.
(1) attractive women with several options
(2) moderately attractive women with some options
(3) Bitter women, with no options. that turn to man hating.

The first 2 have to be approached completely differently, As I stated in my previous post.

However have you noticed that every woman bashing men in here either has no photo or fits my number 3 description?


I haven't seen any man hating. I've seen women disagreeing with specific things men in this thread have been saying. No one has been man hating, though.

Apparently my opinion matters less because I don't have a picture


up at the moment laugh.




laugh really what I see there is some very serious projection - that statement portrays a good deal of women hating

it is also full of assumptions including the assumption that a person's worth is limited to their physical attractiveness. not many women are going to want to be objectified in that manner.

it also assumes only women are bitter. I see much bitterness coming frm men on here - including that post...it sounds very bitter to me

from what I read on here, it seems that some men call women bitter when a woman points out something that they do not wish to hear

many of us do not have photos because we are only here for the forums. some have photos on profiles but not on the threads...some of us are indeed attractive



As a matter of observation, many men and women will agree that physical features are not the only attribute(s) that appeal to other men or women. Many men admire a woman's brain in how it works, creates, debates, etc. etc. Yet I have not seen one woman post a photo of her or any brain. That is truly astonishing; brains matter more for many than their breasts. Photos of brains can't be all that difficult to obtain and then post with a number or name,
( and don't resort to using stills from the movie, 'Hitler's Brain' or one called 'Fiend Without A Face', which has flying brains dropping down on people!); I have one should the mood strike me to post it, just in case...laugh


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Wed 04/24/13 11:16 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Wed 04/24/13 11:16 AM
When you are mature enough, all you look for in a man is one who is respectful, polite and has a moderate degree of intelligence.

And grownups don't have time for those kind of mind games about when to be a 'jerk.'


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Wed 04/24/13 11:17 AM


In fact I never want to be a jerk, was just in relationships thatI had to, just hold my own , not be steamrolled, not saying thats healthy!


If you have to be a jerk just to hold your own and not be steamrolled, something is wrong.



U nailed it @singmetasleep....... hence the...."NOT SAYING THATS HEALTHY EITHER... Via got that,
Again its CLEARLY IN THERE!! .. take ur time , you can do it, just take a deep breath and try again.

Were all ruting for ya,

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Wed 04/24/13 11:18 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 04/24/13 11:21 AM

all women say they want a nice guy, none of them actually do. my buddy is like the nicest guy you'll ever meet. he can never find a date. i tend to be a jerk and i'm proud of it. i never have a problem getting a date. it's simply survival of the species. the passive will die out. the agressive alpha male will mate and ensure the survival of the species. that's how it was with our primative ancestors, that's how it is today.


What a load of pretentious twaddle.



:thumbsup: I do not date "Jerks".

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Wed 04/24/13 11:20 AM



In fact I never want to be a jerk, was just in relationships thatI had to, just hold my own , not be steamrolled, not saying thats healthy!


If you have to be a jerk just to hold your own and not be steamrolled, something is wrong.



U nailed it @singmetasleep....... hence the...."NOT SAYING THATS HEALTHY EITHER... Via got that,
Again its CLEARLY IN THERE!! .. take ur time , you can do it, just take a deep breath and try again.

Were all ruting for ya,


What does ruting mean?

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Wed 04/24/13 11:22 AM

Certainly that was not the interaction I was looking for here.


That's usually the reaction you get in this place. I've rarely seen anyone reply with any kind of understanding or compassion. Just jump right in and start bashing. It's a shame really, but then wasn't that the point of your original post :)


Go back and look at the way the men in this thread are talking about women. What kind of understanding did you expect from women?

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Wed 04/24/13 11:30 AM
A lot of people know about all the pick up artists who claim to know the secrets to getting women's attention and these are all tactics that make a guy look like a confident alpha male.

Yes women are attracted to true confident alpha males. But acting like one when you are not, will eventually catch up to you. You are what you are. You are either a confident adult alpha male or a pretender.

Pretenders will fool a lot of women, but what a man needs to do is grow up eventually and become what he is pretending to be.

Until then, try to be honest and not just a scam artist trying to get laid.


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Wed 04/24/13 11:32 AM

A lot of people know about all the pick up artists who claim to know the secrets to getting women's attention and these are all tactics that make a guy look like a confident alpha male.

Yes women are attracted to true confident alpha males. But acting like one when you are not, will eventually catch up to you. You are what you are. You are either a confident adult alpha male or a pretender.

Pretenders will fool a lot of women, but what a man needs to do is grow up eventually and become what he is pretending to be.

Until then, try to be honest and not just a scam artist trying to get laid.




Exactly. Pretending to be someone you're not isn't going to last long, as women are going to be able to figure it out. Also, confidence is sexy. Arrogance is a turn off.

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Wed 04/24/13 11:59 AM


A lot of people know about all the pick up artists who claim to know the secrets to getting women's attention and these are all tactics that make a guy look like a confident alpha male.

Yes women are attracted to true confident alpha males. But acting like one when you are not, will eventually catch up to you. You are what you are. You are either a confident adult alpha male or a pretender.

Pretenders will fool a lot of women, but what a man needs to do is grow up eventually and become what he is pretending to be.

Until then, try to be honest and not just a scam artist trying to get laid.




Exactly. Pretending to be someone you're not isn't going to last long, as women are going to be able to figure it out. Also, confidence is sexy. Arrogance is a turn off.


For some pretenders, all they want is a one night stand anyway so it doesn't matter to them if it lasts.

But if you want a real relationship, you have to be real.

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Wed 04/24/13 12:00 PM
Yeah, I'd imagine some of the stuff the guys are going on about in here are more geared toward one night stands anyway.

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Wed 04/24/13 02:16 PM
I don't have the time nor the inclination. To go back and repost every single angry comment made by the women in this thread. If you can't see it? Take your time, Go back and re read the whole thread. As I always say.. Think whatever you like, It's exactly what your going to do anyway.

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Wed 04/24/13 02:39 PM

I don't have the time nor the inclination. To go back and repost every single angry comment made by the women in this thread. If you can't see it? Take your time, Go back and re read the whole thread. As I always say.. Think whatever you like, It's exactly what your going to do anyway.


Dude, you know women—they never admit to anything. Take the other guy's advice; just smile and walk away.

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Wed 04/24/13 02:42 PM
That is exactly what I mean by "Think what you like"