I did a search and click on about 10 women and it said they were not online for over a month. What is up with that..... Oh well

Bill

The more you post in the forums, the more active members you'll find.

They must be active offline.

Ah, the great offlines

The ones you are shown 'that you may be interested in', about 80% have been gone for over a month; look at potential matches and over 90% have been gone for well over a month; it's a play on the boring 'bat an' switch' routine as for all we know, most could have been gone for over 6 months, if not longer.
Try to participate in the various forums and there you'll find quite a few. Many are not looking; just take part in forums; some are supposedly happily married but they have friends here. It's all hit and miss with the miss's leading whereas in real life, women who are looking and active, go to various places hoping, wanting, even dying to find someone compatible. Take your pick, it's your time...good luck.