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Topic: Genuine people?
CuteKittyKat's photo
Mon 03/25/13 05:20 PM
Just be clear with what you are looking for and what are you giving of yourself in your relationships. Don´t be with someone cause you want to fill a void in your life or solitude or something like that, because when you are doing some of those things you are settling. Choose someone that make you be the better version of yourself everyday and that keep you on your feet with good challenges. Remember, it takes two to tango.

Be authentic all the time, trust your gut and keep having faith that It could happen. I don´t know if love gonna happen here or with a friend of a friend or working or buying something, just be open to all the possibilities.

HeyIveDiedTwice's photo
Tue 03/26/13 11:40 AM


Exactly what I'm trying to say with this post I know I'm not the only one that's been lied to/betrayed. Life is a constant learning process and unfortunately you have to kiss a few frogs before you meet your prince.I used to be very trusting but holding back shows if the person cares enough to stay.


I met and dated my first girlfriend when I was twenty-one (she was sixteen). This was back in the early '80s. We were together about two years, then she left me for a guy who owned a restaurant and they got married. I have been with many women since, but I always harbored a secret love just for her.

On July 4th weekend, in 2011, we reunited again, after thirty years. We have lived in this same small town all this time, but we never once saw each other—not in the store, not even driving around. Kind of extraordinary, if you think about it.

Anyway, we got together again and what began was like this storybook romance (she was, after all, the love of my life). We planned to get married and live out the rest of our lives together, but happy endings only happen in fairy tales. Reality set in after only a few months and what I had thought was going to be Paradise turned out to be just a trailer park. We split up on Christmas day, 2012.

It was the worst heartbreak I've ever experienced. I was devastated and it took me about eight months to get myself back together. Now I can look back on it all with a much clearer mind (and heart) and say yes—life IS a learning experience, and you can learn and grow from those experiences, as long as you can heal and move on passed them.

Next time I, too, will be more cautious and not jump into the pond so fast.


I'm very sorry to hear that and hope you find the person you're really meant to be with.

HeyIveDiedTwice's photo
Tue 03/26/13 11:43 AM

Yeah, I think that's what I was saying. You're eighteen though and you are dating older men. I don't think that it's that surprising that you are atracting the sort of people you're talking about.


The oldest has been 24, 23 when I met him, I can't help if someone is attracted to me... I'm talking about men messaging me, especially with dirty things that are double my age, it's pretty much disgusting and disturbing...

HeyIveDiedTwice's photo
Tue 03/26/13 11:44 AM

Forget it !
asleep


Excuse me? forget what? ...

TawtStrat's photo
Tue 03/26/13 11:49 AM


Yeah, I think that's what I was saying. You're eighteen though and you are dating older men. I don't think that it's that surprising that you are atracting the sort of people you're talking about.


The oldest has been 24, 23 when I met him, I can't help if someone is attracted to me... I'm talking about men messaging me, especially with dirty things that are double my age, it's pretty much disgusting and disturbing...


Well, set your filters to block those dirty old men from contacting you then.

It goes with the territory. It's the internet. All the women seem to get those sorts of messages. They are just trolls. Ignore them. Trolls are just trying to get an emotional reaction and you are falling for it and taking it seriously.

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 03/26/13 12:25 PM
So where is the best place to hide; In the closet or under the rock?

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 03/26/13 01:03 PM
Ahhh!!

Oh ma gawd!! IS THAT A BATMAN BELT BUCKLE IN YOUR PICTURE?!?

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Tue 03/26/13 01:20 PM

Ahhh!!

Oh ma gawd!! IS THAT A BATMAN BELT BUCKLE IN YOUR PICTURE?!?


You scared another one off/

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 03/26/13 02:15 PM


Ahhh!!

Oh ma gawd!! IS THAT A BATMAN BELT BUCKLE IN YOUR PICTURE?!?


You scared another one off/


It's because I'm overeager, isn't it?

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Wed 03/27/13 03:32 PM
:tongue:



Ahhh!!

Oh ma gawd!! IS THAT A BATMAN BELT BUCKLE IN YOUR PICTURE?!?


You scared another one off/


It's because I'm overeager, isn't it?


well anyone can see there is no such thing as less than nothing:tongue:

plus yelling??....that's just not stooooop styleflowerforyou

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 03/27/13 05:44 PM

:tongue:



Ahhh!!

Oh ma gawd!! IS THAT A BATMAN BELT BUCKLE IN YOUR PICTURE?!?


You scared another one off/


It's because I'm overeager, isn't it?


well anyone can see there is no such thing as less than nothing:tongue:

plus yelling??....that's just not stooooop styleflowerforyou


I'll admit...I was a tad excited.

However, that said...I really can't figure out a better way to ask the question.smokin

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Wed 03/27/13 06:25 PM



Yeah, I think that's what I was saying. You're eighteen though and you are dating older men. I don't think that it's that surprising that you are atracting the sort of people you're talking about.


The oldest has been 24, 23 when I met him, I can't help if someone is attracted to me... I'm talking about men messaging me, especially with dirty things that are double my age, it's pretty much disgusting and disturbing...


Well, set your filters to block those dirty old men from contacting you then.

It goes with the territory. It's the internet. All the women seem to get those sorts of messages. They are just trolls. Ignore them. Trolls are just trying to get an emotional reaction and you are falling for it and taking it seriously.



So very true hun, and I couldnt have said it better.

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Wed 03/27/13 06:26 PM


:tongue:



Ahhh!!

Oh ma gawd!! IS THAT A BATMAN BELT BUCKLE IN YOUR PICTURE?!?


You scared another one off/


It's because I'm overeager, isn't it?


well anyone can see there is no such thing as less than nothing:tongue:

plus yelling??....that's just not stooooop styleflowerforyou


I'll admit...I was a tad excited.

However, that said...I really can't figure out a better way to ask the question.smokin


nice to see you excited about sumthin. so you have a thing for the caped crusader? I just love him for his car.

I defo want flame throwers on my next new vehicle....HA jusr try tailgatin' me now willya???? heh heh hehspock flowerforyou

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