I wake up one day and praise my ability to not want to fall balls deep in a relationship. I am able to enjoy my single life. The next day, I want to be held and be introduced to 'new experiences.' Is it worth it, when I will have to put my all on the line. I will have to step out of my comfort zone?

I think being in your comfort zone with or without a partner is a good place to be.

When I feel uncomfortable with someone I am seeing it's because I'm out of my "tune". That's what I call my place of happiness. It really has nothing to do with a relationship other than the one I'm having with me.

I'll tell you a secret. When you are comfortable with yourself there are tons of possible partners knocking on your door. Why? They can sense the peace in you. Personally I don't find it as hard to gel when two people are truly being themselves in any kind of relationship be it friends or lovers.

I've had friends in the past describe what your saying, but when I look at them it really has nothing to do with them being alone or with someone. It's more about them finding out what that little voice inside of them is trying to say.

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I can relate. Great topic by the way. Thanks for sharing. I am there right now. Being in the relationship was comfortable and being single was not comfortable. Then being out of the relationship was comfortable and being single was comfortable. Have you ever noticed that sometimes it is hard just to get comfortable?

Nothing ventured
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