Topic: Why do i attract men in their 30's and 60's?
Affectionisme's photo
Sun 03/17/13 12:28 AM
I don't know what i'm doing wrong but i'm just getting men who are too young or too old. Ideally i'd like someone in age range 42 to 51 roughly. Is my profile ok?. I don't know what to do?. Can anyone help?..............

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Sun 03/17/13 12:49 AM

I don't know what i'm doing wrong but i'm just getting men who are too young or too old. Ideally i'd like someone in age range 42 to 51 roughly. Is my profile ok?. I don't know what to do?. Can anyone help?..............

You could try specifying that in your profile too....telling them more of who you seek.
Otherwise,profile is ok.....well,and a few more (different)pics wont hurt either!
Goodluck in your search!

notsoincognito's photo
Sun 03/17/13 01:00 AM
Welcome

Well ur profile is good, ummm perhaps u could be a little more specific and state in ur profile an age preference...what u r looking for specifically/ideally.

Goodluck Affectionisme, hope u find what ur looking for

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Sun 03/17/13 01:38 PM
Have you ever thought that the one who respond to you might know what your needing, and not wanting? Have a little faith the the world will turn out as it should be. This includes your fate.

Having said that, look at my profile and see if I interest you.

G4love's photo
Sun 03/17/13 02:25 PM
Its a good profile.i think now that u have changed your interests,its gonna get better for u.good luck.

Mortman's photo
Mon 03/18/13 08:32 PM
Edited by Mortman on Mon 03/18/13 08:45 PM
Hi Areti,

Your profile is pretty good. The text is clear enough. I get your meaning. The problem is more likely that there aren't many good men, in your target group, very close to you.

Also, your profile pic isn't very well lit. Your face is all in shadow. You seem pretty, but better lighting and cropped more to your face would help. Also, you have two pictures that are almost identical. It'd be better if you had a face picture and then a picture of your whole body. Both well lit would be great. Maybe nicer clothes than a comfortable sweater might make you irresistible. A sexy dress, maybe? Just an idea.

Good luck!

Affectionisme's photo
Wed 03/20/13 05:44 PM
Thankyou alan for the honest reply. I'm going to put pics up between today and tomorrow:-)they will be much better. Check them then let me know what you think and if u want we can start chatting more:-) have a great day sexy! Hahaha

ViaMusica's photo
Wed 03/20/13 07:14 PM
Just a suggestion to improve your profile: Try rotating that photo so it isn't sideways. If you need help figuring out how to do that, feel free to PM me.

Affectionisme's photo
Wed 03/20/13 11:28 PM
Thankyou newbechick good suggestions. :-)

Affectionisme's photo
Wed 03/20/13 11:30 PM
Thankyou notsoincognito :-) great suggestions.

Mortman's photo
Thu 03/21/13 12:02 AM
Hey Areti,

Check your messages. I sent you a bunch, including feedback about your profile. Please let me know when you read them, because it looks like you're not getting anything.

Affectionisme's photo
Thu 03/21/13 04:12 AM
Hi alan. I've been messaging you like crazy. I thought u did'nt want 2 chat. Where have u been messaging me?. Could u chat to me via mail on mingle2 site?. Hope we can chat:-)

Mortman's photo
Thu 03/21/13 07:16 AM
Edited by Mortman on Thu 03/21/13 07:31 AM
Hi Areti,

I have now sent eight messages to you in the past 48 hours, via Mingle2 mail, and when I check my 'Sent' folder, it appears you haven't read anything in that time. Can you check your mail very carefully?

Maybe you can just send me your regular email address. Mingle2 seems broken for you.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Thu 03/21/13 09:02 AM
I think the best advice is, if you really want someone, choose from among the ones interested in you instead of wishing something better or different comes along.

Now, from the perspective of a 51 year old, single man; I wouldn't be interested in dating a woman in your age group. I prefer women in their late teens to early 20s.