So..here's a little of my story. I was with my sons dad for three years when he decided to up and leave without even saying good bye. My son is 2 and is my whole world. I work full time and go to school full time. (I work from home). SO now I am trying to get to know people again and hopefully find someone special but so far it isn't happening. I thought I had found them but then they found out I had a kid and they split too. It isn't easy for me to always go out somewhere so it is really hard for me to get to know anybody. Is it so hard to find a decent person out there? I don't mean to sound whiny at all.... I'm just tired of getting hurt.

Is there anyone out there that has had the same thing happen or can give me any advice?

Is there anyone out there that thinks that they could possibly be my someone special?

you probably need to get support, it's a very good idea to turn to the outside world, maybe it's a bit early to find a nice new partner, especially if you've still got to figure out what you don't want a man to treat you like while you're together , and why you did not see ahead of time that the father of your son was going to leave (I know, not easy, I may still not have understood myself..!!)

I mean, when your kid is still very young, sure it'd be nice to be 2 to raise him, but look what a man appreciating you can wish, probably rather to have a kid with you, or to bring his own, rather than to raise the other man's boy just to be supportive, don't you think? But maybe some are like this, and maybe you're the kind who'll find one that wants such a role.

SO , again, you're doing the right thing, reach out to the outside world, but get some face to face friends and support, counseling too.
do you have family's support at least ? can you talk to them? should not have them only but can be very important if you're lucky to have them around ..
hold tight, keep going! and good luck with studies and work and little boy

Aww i have 3 kids and their dad went to prison they gave him 10yrs. he never really spent time with them. now he regrets it but i told him they need a dad who wants to spend time with them and not do it when he feels like it. i wish u the best in life and for ur sonn as well :)

I have been a single parent since my son was born. I broke up with his father because he was abusive. Now I find it hard to trust any other man, I tried dating bt I've never been comrftble and I don't want any more kids. I wish I can get a man who does want children bt its hard to find that person.

Hey. . How u doin. It's a gøod idea. . .i'm also lookin for u type women who dn't wants child. .lets start to know each other . .text me if u agree

very sad story how a person doi this. u are a strong lady

I'm 18 and am the mother of twins(a boy and a girl) Their father took off as soon as I told him I was pregnant and won't talk to me. My "Christian" friends took off and other friends ignore me. Thankfully, my parents have been supporting me. I feel really bad for you but at the same time it is good to know I'm not the only one going through this....Friends?

you are not alone i am a single mom of 3 small kids and yes its hard to find someone

I hear all what has been said above me. it's hard but it is all worth it. because we no that our kids will always love us...so stand strong lovely lady...

Hi I did a parenting course. It was really quite interesting It was over several nights. They covered a lot of topics. One I found quite fun was when kids wont pick up their toys, everyone threatens to throw them outside but no one ever does it a psychiatrist live down the road from me and I saw all these pens and coloring books outside in the mud looks like some people do.

Was he gay?

Whats up every oneIim triste im a single dad my son is 5 months old ive also been looking just like everyone but now days its hard with a kid you know only a few people understand the sitiation well add me or message me if you would like to get to know me

Is it only single mums that get hurt? What about single dad's hun!
I have been a single dad,since my boy was a year old, can you believe a mother saying stuff like "oh ****! I can't do this,this was a mistake,i can't do this!" She kept on and on saying the same trash,i was there all the way. It got an extent,i couldn't stand it anymore. So i asked her if she would feel better if she left the child and just went on with her life? I was stoned by her reply, she said, "I really wish we hadn't done this" I got so mad and told her to getout, and she should forget she ever had a son.

Mom, dad, we are all human. We all make mistakes, and we all feel pain. Deep cuts require mending and time to heal. All my blessings go out to the full-time, single parents, doing their best to raise their little ones. I have spent so much time, crying and sulking, over not having that piece of me that was ripped out. Truth is, I am the only person that can fill that emptiness.

Stay strong. Keep your head up. Our time will come. Blessed Love.

Hi everyone i'm also a single mum,my son's dad left when he found out that i was 3months pregnant and dated another girl, so i struggled all along with the support of my parents,my son Junior is now 7 months,2weeks and 3days old and am still searching for someone to fill-in that missing space for me.

Hi everyone i'm also a single mum,my son's dad left when he found out that i was 3months pregnant and dated another girl, so i struggled all along with the support of my parents,my son Junior is now 7 months,2weeks and 3days old and am still searching for someone to fill-in that missing space for me.

Lisah1,

God bless you during your search.

Hi everyone! I am a single mom of two kids. I divorced their dad because of abuse. At first I thought I needed a man in my life. Then I thought I would not get married again. Now I have been divorced since 2006 and am ready to date again. I have taken many single and parenting classes and bible studies to heal.

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