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Hello, im a single mom. Also, my bf left me whem im 2 months pregnant,, yes it is hard to be a mom and dad at same time, but its all worth the pain, ny baby gives color to my life and happiness., I think thers still a good man that God reserve for me,, lets all think positive!
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Hi. I can relate wif u. I am a single mom as well. Its hard getting descent friends.
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oh. U face looking beautifull,than y u sad..its may all acts from nature may be this is better 4 your life.i hope
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 Learn how to pray my friend. Jesus will love and be all u need while u wait. for Him to introduce u to the right man u need. Trust Him!
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Learn how to pray my friend. Jesus will love and be all u need while u wait. for Him to introduce u to the right man u need. Trust Him!  trust yourself is more important... |
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I am a single mom also. If a man can not accept your children, then why would you want them? You child is an innocent person who got thrown into this mess. So if someone does not like kids..you do not need them!
One thing you need to learn quick is do not take any man around your children until you know it is going to work out between you two. You do not want your children to see you with a bunch of different men. My boys are not 25 and 19, I still do not bring anyone around them unless I know that we really like each other and I think the relationship is going somewhere. I want my boys to respect me and never be able to say that I had a bunch of men in and out of the home. Also you have to make sure that you are over your ex 100%. You can not compare a new boyfriend to the ex, its not fair to the new boyfriend. Plus you do not want to bring old baggage into a new relationship. You can tell the guy you are dating that you have children and if they have a problem with that...you do not want them any way. Good Luck |
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From the length of this thread you can quickly see that ending up a single parent is often how things go. It may be embarassing but using your situation to encourage others to prepare and prevent finding themselves in your situation can a should be a goal because eventually the numbers do over whelm the resources.
Taking the kids you do have as a reality check and preventing future pregnancies you can not afford and adding the education/job skills you need to get out of poverty (If that applies.) as fast a possible is essential. Other wise it will only get worse as the children get older and more expensive. But the good news is people can team up and help each other. Sharing daycare, coupons, tools, job skills, carpooling, exchanging kids clothes, furniture, getting group discounts even gardening together. I personally believe there are plenty of decent potential partners for single parents of either gender. And you are probably going to meet them through friends; someone's sibling, co-worker, neighbor, friends that are not good matches for one are perfect for another. Most people are not anti-children so if you are a good parent the good people are not going to run away. Many good people actually prefer someone who is proven they are family oriented. Many people can't have children and are more than glad to find someone who has them. I also believe the number of Single Dads that would if given a chance to participate would do so even if they are not full time custodial dads. There are many great Dad's out there that share custody and face the same issues of trying to sucessfully co-parent as are Moms. Many parents that "abandon" children can be brought back around with encouragement and intervention where their skills are lacking. Being angry and attacking them publiclly when they run away only amplifys the "failure" rather than abate it. Is it easy to forgive? No but if getting court ordered drug treatment means an abandoning parent can rehabilitate or education in parenting skills or marital skills some marriages actually recover. |
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From the length of this thread you can quickly see that ending up a single parent is often how things go. It may be embarassing but using your situation to encourage others to prepare and prevent finding themselves in your situation can a should be a goal because eventually the numbers do over whelm the resources. Taking the kids you do have as a reality check and preventing future pregnancies you can not afford and adding the education/job skills you need to get out of poverty (If that applies.) as fast a possible is essential. Other wise it will only get worse as the children get older and more expensive. But the good news is people can team up and help each other. Sharing daycare, coupons, tools, job skills, carpooling, exchanging kids clothes, furniture, getting group discounts even gardening together. I personally believe there are plenty of decent potential partners for single parents of either gender. And you are probably going to meet them through friends; someone's sibling, co-worker, neighbor, friends that are not good matches for one are perfect for another. Most people are not anti-children so if you are a good parent the good people are not going to run away. Many good people actually prefer someone who is proven they are family oriented. Many people can't have children and are more than glad to find someone who has them. I also believe the number of Single Dads that would if given a chance to participate would do so even if they are not full time custodial dads. There are many great Dad's out there that share custody and face the same issues of trying to sucessfully co-parent as are Moms. Many parents that "abandon" children can be brought back around with encouragement and intervention where their skills are lacking. Being angry and attacking them publiclly when they run away only amplifys the "failure" rather than abate it. Is it easy to forgive? No but if getting court ordered drug treatment means an abandoning parent can rehabilitate or education in parenting skills or marital skills some marriages actually recover. Hi ya Pacific, How is ya !!!!!! |
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Need a divorced sweet and sincere woman
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im 24 and im looking for a mature woman age between 26 to 35...if any one interested then knock me..
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Am here for you ready to change ur story,only wht i need from u is trust and faithfulness,though am working but low income but ready to make u happy
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i wil like to know first if u are working bcos i have a low income bt am ready to@bring out the beauty in you if you are ready to be faithful to me
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Just have to calm down and love will find you ok. Its hard to live single because you will pass through many things like stressing your self much but don't worry someone will come for you ok
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After studying above stories,I wanna kicked those dad who do damn care about their children and wife.How moms are struggling,I used to proud myself as i was born as a man.feeling guilty any way I will be a better dad .
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Sorry sweetie,I really understand what u ARE going through as single mum.i feel so lonely that I get depressed but when I look at my boy I feel proud and I know one day I will meet a good man to love and respect me for who I Am.
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