Topic: Advice needed
fullmetal_alchemist's photo
Mon 02/25/13 06:07 AM
Hi guys,
I'm in a bit of a fix.
I was seeing this girl for last couple of months.I'm bit of an introvert and shy.She knows this.
So she says she's serious but I've got to woo her and win her.
And I guess she wants me to get out my comfort zone.
P.S:currently she's in some other city.We will only get to meet in person during our summer breaks.So for now it's all online
What should I do? tears

no photo
Mon 02/25/13 07:00 AM
Find someone else closer to home, AND get out of the box you've built about yourself.

RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 02/25/13 07:02 AM
Getting out of your comfort zone will make you uncomfortable.

mikaxel80's photo
Mon 02/25/13 07:12 AM

Hi guys,
I'm in a bit of a fix.
I was seeing this girl for last couple of months.I'm bit of an introvert and shy.She knows this.
So she says she's serious but I've got to woo her and win her.
And I guess she wants me to get out my comfort zone.
P.S:currently she's in some other city.We will only get to meet in person during our summer breaks.So for now it's all online
What should I do? tears

If you really want her, try very hard to win her meaning without leaving your comfort zone you can. Remember relationship is about compromise. All the things you do when you are single dont apply when you enter a relationship. You have to dig deep within yourself.
If you dont want her then without going further end whatever you started and leave your self made world if you want to have a crack at another.
Good luck!

Kennee77's photo
Mon 02/25/13 09:55 AM

Hi guys,
I'm in a bit of a fix.
I was seeing this girl for last couple of months.I'm bit of an introvert and shy.She knows this.
So she says she's serious but I've got to woo her and win her.
And I guess she wants me to get out my comfort zone.
P.S:currently she's in some other city.We will only get to meet in person during our summer breaks.So for now it's all online
What should I do? tears


Don't get too into it, just take things as they Come

fullmetal_alchemist's photo
Mon 02/25/13 11:23 AM
thanks guys... :-)

Tater42's photo
Tue 02/26/13 02:04 AM
Honestly just in my opinion, I'm not sure how far she does live away but if y'all have actually never met in person, nothin is really serious cause seeing that person could change anything. I've seen it happen, I'd try to find someone a little closer to home to where it dont costs extra money just to go visit someone for let's say for a day or so. You still look young man so enjoy the youth while you can! Plus we only have this life once, get out a lil but slowly work your way there. When you look back at your life when your older and remember you and buddy's being the life of the party or the shy guy in the corner. Just work your way up to going out from time to time, hope this helps!