Topic: Love or Lust
Georgiapeaches69's photo
Mon 02/18/13 09:41 AM
Too many men and women these days are just looking for FWB. What's up with that. I want love not just sex. Sex is supposed to an extra benefit of being in love.

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Mon 02/18/13 09:43 AM
drinker

kabeer1703's photo
Mon 02/18/13 09:47 AM
LOVE MAKING CAN NOT BE WITHOUT LOVE :)

Kennee77's photo
Mon 02/18/13 09:47 AM
New Generation New Style

Movie07's photo
Mon 02/18/13 09:50 AM
slaphead :wink: :banana:

Georgiapeaches69's photo
Mon 02/18/13 09:51 AM
That sucks to me though. I've never been to be in it just for sex

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Mon 02/18/13 10:08 AM
Peoples friendships are indeed more important than having relations.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 02/18/13 10:54 AM
Love can be a very hard thing to find. It doesn't come along every day. Why should anyone deny themselves the pleasure that comes from sex simply because they aren't in love?

Sex is fun! Sure, it's better with someone you're in love with, but so is going to the movies. Should a person stop doing everything they enjoy doing with partner simply because they are without a partner? If not, what makes sex different?

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 02/18/13 02:46 PM

Too many men and women these days are just looking for FWB. What's up with that. I want love not just sex. Sex is supposed to an extra benefit of being in love.


I totally agree with you! :thumbsup:

Traumer's photo
Mon 02/18/13 03:31 PM
Love or Lust? Both serve a purpose, but many find lust much more 'adventurous and stimulating'.
What was medically found about lustful emotions at Whitechurch Hospital in Cardiff, Wales however may surprise some. Biochemist Abdulla Badawy has shown that alcohol, our usual beverage of choice, which 'puts us in the mood',also depletes serotonin in the brain. Low levels of serotonin dissolve inhibitions and create an illusion that the ordinary- looking person at the other end of the bar is absolutely, unbelievably attractive; they become for the drinker hot, hot hot!laugh
This research shouts a clear message to those looking for long term 'love': wait a couple of years before making a long term emotional or financial commitment to someone and definitely, choose your bars carefully...laugh

thewaterbearer's photo
Mon 02/18/13 03:38 PM
Definetly Love, I used to be into the Fwb thing, not anymore, all that did, was complicate things, besides, I sure as hell dont want to end up pregnant or end up with some sex disease, dont know where there ding dong has beensick

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Mon 02/18/13 03:42 PM
I lust for love and want sex to be a part of my girl and I to express or love.

navygirl's photo
Mon 02/18/13 04:58 PM
Edited by navygirl on Mon 02/18/13 04:59 PM


Too many men and women these days are just looking for FWB. What's up with that. I want love not just sex. Sex is supposed to an extra benefit of being in love.


I totally agree with you! :thumbsup:


Yep; I agree too. :thumbsup: Seems people want instant gratification and could care less about the other person's feelings.

burgundybry's photo
Mon 02/18/13 06:45 PM
http://youtu.be/UFR1AKtJ1t4

drinker laugh drinker laugh

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Wed 02/20/13 07:11 PM
hi any1 here,

bastet126's photo
Wed 02/20/13 07:15 PM
we can lust without love, but hardly anything compares to lust in love. the perfect storm! :)

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Wed 02/20/13 07:19 PM

New Generation New Style


no....just a new "guy line" to try to con the ladies so he can have his cake and eat it toolaugh

1Cynderella's photo
Wed 02/20/13 07:37 PM
I’m not so bothered by others choices...whether they get what they can one night at a time, maintain a special kind of buddy, only engage with one person they care about, or hold out for their one and only true love.

It’s persisting in trying to convince someone else to change their choices to suit the others agenda that truly baffles me. If it’s not one persons preference to lift their skirt/drop their drawers for a perfect stranger, what makes someone think that pestering them will change their standards? Has anyone ever been worn down to the point they just say...fine...just use me already!