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Topic: Do age does matters?
sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 04/03/13 06:45 PM
age definitely matters. I am not at all interested in much younger men for many reasons but mainly because of lifestyle preferences and personality compatibility issues. Most much younger men were also not raised up at a time where boys were still taught to treat a lady with respect, so alot of their behavior is a total turn off anyway just because they haven't been taught gentlemanly behavior. I am sure there are some out there that have been, but many I've met are pretty immature and often disrespectful...and usually just want casual sex that I am not interested in. jmho being friends is cool tho

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Wed 04/03/13 07:21 PM Edited by kissablekiss on Wed 04/03/13 07:33 PM
Age does not matter but stage of life does. If one person wants to focus on their career while the other person wants to party - this is a problem. If one person is in the stage of life where they want to travel and the other person wants to buy a house and settle down - this is a problem. If you want the same things - at the same time- then no I do not think age is a problem at all. Yes some people will look at you funny, maybe even treat you differently but just know that at the end of the day you have found the right person for you and be happy

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 04/03/13 07:27 PM
I really like your comment and take on this kissable. I doubt a much younger man is going to be right for me, but certainly you make some good points.

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Wed 04/03/13 07:34 PM
I really like your comment and take on this kissable. I doubt a much younger man is going to be right for me, but certainly you make some good points. Well we all have our preferences thats what make us unique ...do whatever make you happy .

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 04/03/13 07:39 PM
I really like your comment and take on this kissable. I doubt a much younger man is going to be right for me, but certainly you make some good points. Well we all have our preferences thats what make us unique ...do whatever make you happy . I agree - right now tickets and a hotel in Jamaica sounds good....lol truth is I do not have a problem with an age difference if the right person comes along and he is a little older or younger than me it's fine. I just don't see many real young guys who really know how to approach an older woman and maybe they really just prefer their own age for dating. I think tht's OK too

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Wed 04/03/13 07:51 PM
I really like your comment and take on this kissable. I doubt a much younger man is going to be right for me, but certainly you make some good points. Well we all have our preferences thats what make us unique ...do whatever make you happy . I agree - right now tickets and a hotel in Jamaica sounds good....lol truth is I do not have a problem with an age difference if the right person comes along and he is a little older or younger than me it's fine. I just don't see many real young guys who really know how to approach an older woman and maybe they really just prefer their own age for dating. I think tht's OK too I share your sentiments lol Hotel in Jamaica sounds really good! well for me when it come to a relationship MATURITY is at the top of my list .... you have alot of older guys who are worse than 20 year old whilst you have some who act way beyond their years .

Mondolush Joined Tue 04/02/13 Posts: 2	Wed 04/03/13 08:04 PM
More than real age, what's important is the mind age. Some people can be 60 and still be pretty inmature and there are some really mature young people. Anyhow, above all, what really matters, is being right for each other....

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Wed 04/03/13 08:07 PM
More than real age, what's important is the mind age. Some people can be 60 and still be pretty inmature and there are some really mature young people. Anyhow, above all, what really matters, is being right for each other.... agree .

afriQueen22 Joined Tue 10/25/11 Posts: 527	Wed 04/03/13 08:39 PM
Age matters to me simply because I will not date a guy my age, even ten years older than me. I am emotionally, physically and intellectually attracted to much older men. But only the MATURE ones. I emphasize mature because, I have come across many a 40 year old who act 20, that is a huge turn off for me. For a brief time, I did try fitting in with my friends and dating someone in my own age group, I was bored senseless. They do not appeal to me. As to the question of sexual attraction, I am still attracted to much older males, maybe because I've never been attracted to so-called "pretty boys". There's just something about a body that tells of a life lived... At the risk of over-sharing, quite a few months ago I was with a who did experience a bit of an uhmm, erection issue but I did not huff out of there or whatever even though it was at quite a crucial moment... We spent the rest of the night talking, we still slept in the same bed and we still see each other at times... I find his mind and his company equally as fascinating as the rest of him. This is the case with all of the older men I've been with. So age does matter to me. Now am worried!! Could THIS be ME from another mother and a totaly different location!!?? I know i didnt authro this,Afri,BUT,wooooooweeeee..... Exactly my double!! Jumps up and down with glee Finally, someone who does not think I'm weird!! I think everybody has their preferences and as they say, "to each his own".

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 04/03/13 08:51 PM
More than real age, what's important is the mind age. Some people can be 60 and still be pretty inmature and there are some really mature young people. Anyhow, above all, what really matters, is being right for each other.... thee has said something that is true. I think it is the exception you describe, though I agree that an open mind and an open heart finds all :)

rindamin666 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 222	Wed 04/03/13 08:57 PM
No i dnt agre with mis julieMP,?coz i think age dsnt mater with other relation also. The only thing that maters is the feeling and thought that you share with the other person.

jmbernardino Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 16	Wed 04/03/13 10:10 PM
Age doesnt matter to me, as long as you love each other there will be no haindrance for ages,

jmbernardino Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 16	Wed 04/03/13 10:16 PM
For me it doesnt matter if you are old or young, being happy doesnt depend on ages we have, but rather we must understand each other and live happy, thats the essence of life.

jmbernardino Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 16	Tue 12/10/13 10:14 PM
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jmbernardino Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 16	Tue 12/10/13 10:15 PM
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jmbernardino Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 16	Tue 12/10/13 10:16 PM
yes youre right in your comment thanks :)

jmbernardino Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 16	Tue 12/10/13 10:17 PM
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ian_ian11 Joined Tue 12/10/13 Posts: 20	Tue 12/10/13 11:26 PM
Definitely agree that age can play a role in a relationship. Physical age can be a hinderance but also mental age. I have a buddy who is 33, his gf is 23 and she is great. Not like some of her other friends whom I have gotten to meet. His gf is very mature A girl I knew and liked not too long ago, she is 30, all of a sudden texts me she is in trouble cause she got plastered at a bar and for whatever reason(I never really got one) she beat the crap out of another chick and spent the night in jail. THAT was an instant turn off. Plus she has an 8 month old kid at home. Thankfully she has a great roommate to take care of the kid whilst she is off in jail. She clearly has some growing up to do. Albeit being actually a fairly book smart girl. I don't care for things like that. Not even in my clubbing days was I ever to start scrapping cause someone called me a name of what have you. It's embarrassing.

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Wed 12/11/13 06:49 AM
Age matters a little bit, yes. I don't care if a man is older than me, but I certainly care if he is too much younger than me! If I reference something from the 90's I don't want him to look at me as if I've grown a 3rd eye!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 12/11/13 07:15 AM
More than real age, what's important is the mind age. Some people can be 60 and still be pretty inmature and there are some really mature young people. Anyhow, above all, what really matters, is being right for each other.... agree . True. But how come young guys think if you even so much as smile you want to jump in tha sack????