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Topic: Can you live without it?
oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 02/10/13 10:32 AM
You know, sex? It is a primeval drive after all. As for me, yes, but I don't want to. And to complicate matters it has to have love involved. How about you?

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 02/10/13 10:37 AM
You know, sex? It is a primeval drive after all. As for me, yes, but I don't want to. And to complicate matters it has to have love involved. How about you? Sex and intimacy are not necessarily the same thing. Either/both are better when they come with a real connection... Sex doesn't make a relationship. Happiness isn't contingent up on sex, even if sex can make you happy.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 02/10/13 10:40 AM
You know, sex? It is a primeval drive after all. As for me, yes, but I don't want to. And to complicate matters it has to have love involved. How about you? Sex and intimacy are not necessarily the same thing. Either/both are better when they come with a real connection... Sex doesn't make a relationship. Happiness isn't contingent up on sex, even if sex can make you happy. Well, for me I have to be romantically inclined.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 02/10/13 10:53 AM
I'd prefer not to live without sex.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 02/10/13 11:27 AM
You know, sex? It is a primeval drive after all. As for me, yes, but I don't want to. And to complicate matters it has to have love involved. How about you? yes, there are definitely more substantially satisfying things in life

Truncated Joined Fri 07/22/11 Posts: 81	Sun 02/10/13 11:53 AM
I'm a loner so I have to " adapt" , but I'm attracted to women with dimension of thought. I'm fine with being the dumb one. Being a man is a comedy of drive and culture. Sex is the elephant in the room that we each deal with in different ways. I'm a little perplexed women find the number of us worth a damn that you do. I'm good at faithful, bad at clingy.

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Sun 02/10/13 12:25 PM
You know, sex? It is a primeval drive after all. As for me, yes, but I don't want to. And to complicate matters it has to have love involved. How about you? Me too... an established emotional bond prior to physical commitment brings both more sharply into focus once consummated... but sex is not the be all, end all of a relationship, to me, it only enhances the overall connection. And of course is an excellent stress reducer...

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 02/10/13 01:16 PM
I always sleep soundly afterwards.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15046	Sun 02/10/13 04:55 PM
Sex is very important in a "committed" relationship. Hopefully, the couple is compatible in that area. So many people are not and that often is the breakdown of that relationship.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 02/10/13 04:56 PM
Sex is very important in a "committed" relationship. Hopefully, the couple is compatible in that area. So many people are not and that often is the breakdown of that relationship. Agreed

shortfire8521 Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 865	Sun 02/10/13 05:00 PM
Well...I suppose sex doesn't fall in the category of basic needs. Food, clothing, shelter. The three big ones. So...that being said...I guess I could physically live without it. Do I want to...HELL NO!!

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21862	Sun 02/10/13 05:01 PM
Sometimes I think I'd rather just have a nice corned beef sandwich instead.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/10/13 05:54 PM
Sometimes I think I'd rather just have a nice corned beef sandwich instead. too high in sodium content sex is better for your health

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15046	Sun 02/10/13 06:04 PM
Sometimes I think I'd rather just have a nice corned beef sandwich instead. What!!!

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sun 02/10/13 06:36 PM
Can "LIVE" without alot of things, quality of life just might not be at the level a person wants.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 02/10/13 06:38 PM
You know, sex? It is a primeval drive after all. As for me, yes, but I don't want to. And to complicate matters it has to have love involved. How about you? yes, there are definitely more substantially satisfying things in life This is so true.

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Sun 02/10/13 10:43 PM
You know, sex? It is a primeval drive after all. As for me, yes, but I don't want to. And to complicate matters it has to have love involved. How about you? We all have incompatible lifestyle choices to make; I feel metabolically incompetent...

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sun 02/10/13 10:47 PM
Apparently I can. Whether I want to is a different story!

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sun 02/10/13 11:13 PM
To a certain extent. If he isn't in my mind, then he definitely won't be in my..........body. I have to really want the man, before doing that. It's hard to win me over, physically, as I like to get a feel of their personality. Physical isn't enough for me to want someone very much.

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Sun 02/10/13 11:22 PM
Apparently I can. Whether I want to is a different story! DITTO :)