alexia, you could be right. possibly what I am seeing as bitterness is not!! it is just possible you are getting a better picture than I am, it may be disgust and concern, after reading what you posted I think it is advisable to ask all to forgive me. I would say what I have been reading has been misinterpated (sp) by me in the way I read it.

No need for forgiveness, widowerseeker. You showed concern for your fellow human being. That is very commendable.

Take Care - Alexia.

Well I'm bitter because of the fact that I even have to use a dang dating site to find somebody.

Lot of bitter men on here too.

If you keep getting the same results from all partners you're with, maybe it's time to figure out what you're doing wrong. That's been my experience anyway, learn from my mistakes, quit blaming them on others.

What's the point in being bitter? It's not hurting anybody but me if I am.

Your too funny Angelsing!

angelsing, you say you are bitter having to use a dating site to find somebody. well I am using the site and finding nobody...

angelsing, you say you are bitter having to use a dating site to find somebody. well I am using the site and finding nobody...

Hmmmm Im just here for the free food and drinks!!!

Is that Beer???? Please pass me A Miller Lite.

yeah i agree people need to give other people a chance its not always about looks its about personality

Widower -- I'm in the same boat. I was hoping Mutual Match might open some doors, but zippo....

awwwwww man I have to put my claws away? Darn...
Just Joking...

my baggage was lost a few years ago.
now i carry nothing at all.

- and i recommend it highly -

and now some words from H G Wells:

“Some people bear three kinds of trouble - the ones they've had, the ones they have, and the ones they expect to have.”

“We were making the future, he said, and hardly any of us troubled to think what future we were making. And here it is."

“The past is the beginning of the beginning and all that is and has been is but the twilight of the dawn.”

“The crisis of today is the joke of tomorrow.”

“Beauty is in the heart of the beholder.”

and

“If we don't end war, war will end us.”

ty H G Wells

I must agree with alexiateigra on the way they put it that is the way I see things too.

For me I have no knives to throw or bury into anyones backs here

The ones in my past I have dealt with those and came to an understanding about each and do not reget being with a single one.

Ones in the future are yet to come and I hope that each time I can still see the things the way I do now.

I wish no bad upon anyone in this life , no matter what happen on the road that we crossed. It was not meant to be or it would still be.

I wish all the happiness they deserve and hope that each finds the strength that is needed to move on in life and find that one true long lasting love.

But if it is not long lasting to be able to have the understanding it was not meant to be and to be able to get back on that road and follow lifes journey that is for them.

I may joke around and throw in a bit of humor but it is always in fun and no ill intentions ment For if I was serious about anything that I say that is a sexualy nature in here towards someone and I was not joking believe me it would not make these forum pages. But now my words of the way I see life and what I do or how I would do things are very true to heart as the poems I write.

I may like a person but I don't have to love them, I may dislike someone but I don't literally hate anyone.

I never wish bad upon anyone no matter what they have done to me for What goes around comes around I'm a true believer of that statement. Have seen it happen many times and again just here lately have seen it again to the point it also brought a closer in a matter that I had left in the past but was still at the back of my mind why. Now that why is gone and now they understand how I felt and realized what they did and actually came back and told me they were truly sorry.

So you see to carry your knives and hate along the way never gets you far go into the future with your minds and hearts open. And a smile upon your face

Good luck and best wishes to all in finding what it is you seek in life.

YOU can "STAB" me anyday TX, you know how I like spankings!!!!

I thought I was always a frickin happy camper?

I love your new pic!

what's the or??


i think dating sites are more like a real life version of SAW.
as you navigate the site you have to complete each new excruciating torture obstacle with every new person you meet.... just kidding.


i don't use this site to date but i have been able to talk to a few people here and they really don't seem any different than the people on the street. some have more issues than others and some deal with their issues better than others but all in all most everyone is here because they truly want to find someone.

Bite my bitter ass

I am not bitter but content and will not rush headlong into a relationship based on 2 -mails and a 3 min phone call.no way.

In my opinion, it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.