Yes, I love foreplay, especially verbal foreplay ...Sometimes I start by reciting a poem to my love, usually one written by Slowhand or Mig

To me foreplay a is smile-invoking word and concept. When I was younger, it was merely a multifaceted chore akin to watering a fruit-producing plant with future hopes of plucking (pun!) and receiving a reward for my efforts.

As I am now older, foreplay is as much (if not more) for me than for my partner. Remember the old car that needed to idle for a while before you drove it? Yeah, I'm a classic 1977 Ford Granada.

In 2013: Both mentally & physically, I CAN'T just "get in it to win it" any more. This is a really good thing, a little bad, and a little sad. Mostly good. Foreplay is good for the mind, body, and soul. I couldn't imagine lovemaking without it. Sometimes it's okay to skip it, but it's ALWAYS better doing it. Think Granada.

I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls.

For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding?

If so, various forms of foreplay could be:

1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche.
2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts.
3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction.

I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it?

The only 'foreplay" I would require (and this is after I got to know the person via conversation etc.) ..would be something like a bath or hot tub, then maybe a body massage with oil or lotion, and the hope that something interesting might pop up. LOL

Yes, I love foreplay, especially verbal foreplay ...Sometimes I start by reciting a poem to my love, usually one written by Slowhand or Mig

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Actually that is kind of hot that someone has used some of my poetry
as aural stimulation.

The only 'foreplay" I would require (and this is after I got to know the person via conversation etc.) ..would be something like a bath or hot tub, then maybe a body massage with oil or lotion, and the hope that something interesting might pop up. LOL

To be honest, I feel that foreplay can be more fun than what everyone is driving toward, the sex. I love feeling, seeing and hearing a woman respond to my touch, my words and generally showing an interest in me.

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this post!!





Actually that is kind of hot that someone has used some of my poetry
as aural stimulation.

To be honest, I feel that foreplay can be more fun than what everyone is driving toward, the sex. I love feeling, seeing and hearing a woman respond to my touch, my words and generally showing an interest in me.

yes foreplay is FABULOUS,whether u r Gay or straight! I am openly 52 yr old,looking great and yes,loves forplay.