Topic: Do you get off on foreplay?
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Thu 02/07/13 03:07 PM
Edited by AthenaRose2 on Thu 02/07/13 03:07 PM

HELL YES !
I am a sexual creature and a Libra on top of that !
Foreplay in ALL forms is the build up to great sex together !
And to put it totally honest the reason why i AM a great lover
{No brag...just fact}
I am a PLEASER !
I want the lady i am with to climb the wall literally
From the deep satisfaction of sexual interaction with me !
{Gee it sure isn't because i am hung like a stallion}
But i can LICK my eyebrows down....
{snicker}
...THAT and i have ROMAN hands and RUSSIAN fingers


:wink:

KiK


laugh laugh nice one, KiK... we can always depend on you to bring the life to the party... and from what you describe... do you mind if I tell you, "I like you, just a little"? hehehe :wink:

Teditis's photo
Thu 02/07/13 03:07 PM



I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls.

For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding?

If so, various forms of foreplay could be:

1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche.
2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts.
3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction.

I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it?



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No... I just use it as a way to expend energy in order to fall asleep faster.

Giving pleasure to others is my greedy way of getting what I want.
Er... no, that doesn't make a bit of sense does it? NM.


that's okay Ted, we know how you like to analyze things... until you get totally confused... or we do... hehehe what you said sounds good to me... depending on the depth of your greed, the pleasure you give to receive could be all that's needed before a restful sleep... :wink:

Aww, see now that's just hurtful.
Entendre squared.
I give to give... love to give, love to love, and love to give love.
But none of that matters if "she" ain't the right one.

But all "she" needs to be... is one who loves. (a tough find)
Then we'll both sleep peacefully... a much deserved rest too, I might add.

bastet126's photo
Thu 02/07/13 03:23 PM
i was gonna say can i get a hell yes, but KiK already beat me too it. it's a must in a healthy, active
sexual relationship between two loving partners. period.

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Thu 02/07/13 03:30 PM




I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls.

For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding?

If so, various forms of foreplay could be:

1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche.
2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts.
3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction.

I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it?



??

No... I just use it as a way to expend energy in order to fall asleep faster.

Giving pleasure to others is my greedy way of getting what I want.
Er... no, that doesn't make a bit of sense does it? NM.


that's okay Ted, we know how you like to analyze things... until you get totally confused... or we do... hehehe what you said sounds good to me... depending on the depth of your greed, the pleasure you give to receive could be all that's needed before a restful sleep... :wink:

Aww, see now that's just hurtful.
Entendre squared.
I give to give... love to give, love to love, and love to give love.
But none of that matters if "she" ain't the right one.

But all "she" needs to be... is one who loves. (a tough find)
Then we'll both sleep peacefully... a much deserved rest too, I might add.


apologies... I intended to send no pain your way... sad2 ... when we give all that we have we know it will come back to us naturally... the circle of life is how I mean it.. still friends? blushing I like your ending too... sleeping peacefully surrounded by love... yes.. that's nice... flowerforyou

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Thu 02/07/13 03:36 PM

i was gonna say can i get a hell yes, but KiK already beat me too it. it's a must in a healthy, active
sexual relationship between two loving partners. period.


aah yes, bastet... KiK allowed his free spirit expression to flow easily... I agree with you too... foreplay is the magic we use to keep us wanting more... :wink: flowerforyou

whattheheywastaken's photo
Thu 02/07/13 03:45 PM
1. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?
2. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?
3. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?

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Thu 02/07/13 03:48 PM

1. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?
2. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?
3. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?


cute nickname, whattheywastaken... even more clever response... :wink:

whattheheywastaken's photo
Thu 02/07/13 04:11 PM


1. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?
2. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?
3. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?


cute nickname, whattheywastaken... even more clever response... :wink:


Thanky. I tried whatthehey, but you know.

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Thu 02/07/13 04:15 PM


HELL YES !
I am a sexual creature and a Libra on top of that !
Foreplay in ALL forms is the build up to great sex together !
And to put it totally honest the reason why i AM a great lover
{No brag...just fact}
I am a PLEASER !
I want the lady i am with to climb the wall literally
From the deep satisfaction of sexual interaction with me !
{Gee it sure isn't because i am hung like a stallion}
But i can LICK my eyebrows down....
{snicker}
...THAT and i have ROMAN hands and RUSSIAN fingers


:wink:

KiK


laugh laugh nice one, KiK... we can always depend on you to bring the life to the party... and from what you describe... do you mind if I tell you, "I like you, just a little"? hehehe :wink:


flowerforyou

You so sweet !

chuckle...

KiK

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Thu 02/07/13 04:30 PM



HELL YES !
I am a sexual creature and a Libra on top of that !
Foreplay in ALL forms is the build up to great sex together !
And to put it totally honest the reason why i AM a great lover
{No brag...just fact}
I am a PLEASER !
I want the lady i am with to climb the wall literally
From the deep satisfaction of sexual interaction with me !
{Gee it sure isn't because i am hung like a stallion}
But i can LICK my eyebrows down....
{snicker}
...THAT and i have ROMAN hands and RUSSIAN fingers


:wink:

KiK


laugh laugh nice one, KiK... we can always depend on you to bring the life to the party... and from what you describe... do you mind if I tell you, "I like you, just a little"? hehehe :wink:


flowerforyou

You so sweet !

chuckle...

KiK


happy

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Thu 02/07/13 04:31 PM



1. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?
2. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?
3. Sounds good. Where do I sign up?


cute nickname, whattheywastaken... even more clever response... :wink:


Thanky. I tried whatthehey, but you know.


laugh

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Thu 02/07/13 04:33 PM

i was gonna say can i get a hell yes, but KiK already beat me too it. it's a must in a healthy, active
sexual relationship between two loving partners. period.


HELL YES !
:wink:


shortfire8521's photo
Thu 02/07/13 04:53 PM
Okay I'm gonna ride the fence on this one and say, it depends on the situation.

In my limited experience, sometimes a ride home from the grocery store is enough and once you get through the door it's just a mad dash for any surface you believe will hold you both without crumbling.

On the other side, if I met someone that was well versed in the "art" of foreplay, I'd probably be sold. It might be nice to have someone actually want to spend the time to get us both in the mood. I know I've tried. Apparently I'm not very good at it.

Anyone know of a correspondence course?

madmim's photo
Thu 02/07/13 05:10 PM

Okay I'm gonna ride the fence on this one and say, it depends on the situation.

In my limited experience, sometimes a ride home from the grocery store is enough and once you get through the door it's just a mad dash for any surface you believe will hold you both without crumbling.

On the other side, if I met someone that was well versed in the "art" of foreplay, I'd probably be sold. It might be nice to have someone actually want to spend the time to get us both in the mood. I know I've tried. Apparently I'm not very good at it.

Anyone know of a correspondence course?


I'm gonna agree.
It definitely depends on the situation.

Teditis's photo
Thu 02/07/13 05:27 PM
Edited by Teditis on Thu 02/07/13 05:27 PM

HELL YES !
I am a sexual creature and a Libra on top of that !
Foreplay in ALL forms is the build up to great sex together !
And to put it totally honest the reason why i AM a great lover
{No brag...just fact}
I am a PLEASER !
I want the lady i am with to climb the wall literally
From the deep satisfaction of sexual interaction with me !
{Gee it sure isn't because i am hung like a stallion}
But i can LICK my eyebrows down....
{snicker}
...THAT and i have ROMAN hands and RUSSIAN fingers


:wink:

KiK

That's awesome... well said! drinker
"healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners." is so vague that, to me, it's meaningless.

Might as well be two adults who met in a bar one night... groping in the dark, just not me.
But hey, all glory goes to those that like it that way though.drinker

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Fri 02/08/13 02:10 AM

Okay I'm gonna ride the fence on this one and say, it depends on the situation.

In my limited experience, sometimes a ride home from the grocery store is enough and once you get through the door it's just a mad dash for any surface you believe will hold you both without crumbling.

On the other side, if I met someone that was well versed in the "art" of foreplay, I'd probably be sold. It might be nice to have someone actually want to spend the time to get us both in the mood. I know I've tried. Apparently I'm not very good at it.

Anyone know of a correspondence course?


I like the way you think, shortfire... to me there's nothing more exciting than someone that knows how to manipulate my feelings, my passion, via using my own mind to do it... that takes skill.. and an intimate knowledge of the person of interest...

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Fri 02/08/13 02:10 AM


Okay I'm gonna ride the fence on this one and say, it depends on the situation.

In my limited experience, sometimes a ride home from the grocery store is enough and once you get through the door it's just a mad dash for any surface you believe will hold you both without crumbling.

On the other side, if I met someone that was well versed in the "art" of foreplay, I'd probably be sold. It might be nice to have someone actually want to spend the time to get us both in the mood. I know I've tried. Apparently I'm not very good at it.

Anyone know of a correspondence course?


I'm gonna agree.
It definitely depends on the situation.


flowerforyou

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Fri 02/08/13 02:19 AM


HELL YES !
I am a sexual creature and a Libra on top of that !
Foreplay in ALL forms is the build up to great sex together !
And to put it totally honest the reason why i AM a great lover
{No brag...just fact}
I am a PLEASER !
I want the lady i am with to climb the wall literally
From the deep satisfaction of sexual interaction with me !
{Gee it sure isn't because i am hung like a stallion}
But i can LICK my eyebrows down....
{snicker}
...THAT and i have ROMAN hands and RUSSIAN fingers

:wink:

KiK

That's awesome... well said! drinker
"healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners." is so vague that, to me, it's meaningless.

Might as well be two adults who met in a bar one night... groping in the dark, just not me.
But hey, all glory goes to those that like it that way though.drinker


frustrated Okay, Ted... you've finally stumped me... slaphead how did you get two adults groping in the dark bumpin uglies in a bar, from, "healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners"? I must have missed something in translation... slaphead

But here's more sincere kudos for KiK... who let it all hang out... his spirit for play is infectious... :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

s1owhand's photo
Fri 02/08/13 02:34 AM
Survey says....

"You are a sexual athlete. You are in the 99th percentile in terms of desire
and sexual frequency. And when you are in that bracket, the best thing ever is massage and tantra. Your last sexual encounter lasted approximately 2 hours."

laugh

So, I suggest tantric massage, eyegazing and soothing music. But anything
can be foreplay.

laugh

Painting for example...plus you also make visual artwork!

no photo
Fri 02/08/13 02:59 AM

Survey says....

"You are a sexual athlete. You are in the 99th percentile in terms of desire
and sexual frequency. And when you are in that bracket, the best thing ever is massage and tantra. Your last sexual encounter lasted approximately 2 hours."

laugh

So, I suggest tantric massage, eyegazing and soothing music. But anything
can be foreplay.

laugh

Painting for example...plus you also make visual artwork!


wow, slowhand, how did you know... that gives me a serious case of the creepsters... yeah, new word... almost like you were listening... :wink:
after two hours all I want is sleep, no more hands on for me, til I've caught my breath... visual artwork... aaaahh yes... I can see that... very stimulating... :tongue: