is it alright?

I think its perfectly fine as long as it comes off the right way.

Not too desperate and with class and confidence.

sometimes a girl doesnt even realize she just busted the first move..
it can be a gesture as slightly
, but then the man will reply with the real. first move if you mean
sexual first move

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Yes, it is.

I wish that more women would make the first move.

its like as if you are courting a guy or just letting the guy know that you like him

Yep. Done it a few times, haven't always been successful, but hey that's life. Can't always get what you want. Some people spend too much time thinking about what move to make, or even to make a stinkin' move. I say do it like it's nobody's biz.

Nothing wrong with it whatsoever :) If he tries to run off, you know what to do. Get the rope. Tie him to the damn chair. And take it from there ;)

I like tactile outgoing women, so yeah, it's cool and the trick is to make them think that it's their idea, so waiting for them to initiate actual forplay or just saying that they are up for it can work better than doing it the other way but I have already flirted with them by that point and made it clear that I fancy them, so hard to say who makes the first move really. They know that I'm a guy and that I am never going to say that I'm not in the mood....

It's hot!

if you're looking for trouble you make the first move...if you want to say out of trouble allow her to plead the fifth...oops I meant the first

I think it's great when a woman makes the first move! And in my dating experiences I think the guy likes it too!

It's good-to-go. I don't see it (personally - sigh) as much as I did when I was in my 20's though. In this day-n-age, post women's revolution (?) it SHOULD BE acceptable, but again, to each his/her own.

Tangent again: I remember California in 1990, my bunkmate and I were out and about in the Carlsbad Mall, and the ladies were NOT shy! Again in 1991, I was in Jacksonville, N.C. The ladies there, and in Kinston; Greensboro; Rocky Mount; and other places stepped right up to a brother as was like, "What cho doin'?" It was on like donkey kong after that. I actually met some really good people. It seemed like everybody in N.C had kids though...Baby-daddy for the night! (j/k?)

Those were the days. Now I am in Japan around the world's most utterly reserved women on the planet. DOH!



With all that, yes, I feel that it is perfectly acceptable. Just be ready for the "traditional thinkers" whom might think it's crass. I ain't one of 'em.

Are you kidding me? I love it when a girl is first to break out the robot on the dance floor. EPIC!

I think most men are fine with women making the first move. Some actually prefer it. Of course, there are still old fashioned men who would rather make the first move. So, I guess it depends on the kind of guy you're going for.

Nothing wrong with it.

I never thought about it as wrong or right!!
I just DO IT!

If I like it... I give a ring to it! ( phone ring, people)

Depends on how you move and in what direction. But be careful, us men tend to hear a different message.

What kind of messages do you feel men hear differently?

more women? i was hoping for any woman....