who cries more after breakup boy or girl and why ?

Why would this be gender specific? Brilliant. More questions to seperate both sex's. Though, I think men do. As I've seen so many tell their sob story of a break up, and then using their heartbreak to try get sympathy sex from women. Not particularly in my own life, on THIS site, and other sites, also other social settings of course. If some women, or men, are silly enough to believe they aren't after sympathy sex, not anyone else's fault. I just have a hard time buying their boo hoo stories. Some I believe, but you know exaggeration when you see it.

Boys don't cry. They just listen to The Cure and cut themselves after a breakup.

Crying is a choice.

Usually, I'd imagine, the person that didn't initiate the breakup is more broken up about it though. That sounded cute.

The one who got dumped!...And why is self explanatory... Now cheer up, you are young, you are handsome, and soon you will be horny again!!

Oh yeah. Well hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.


mingle must be about to crash, it is taking minutes to refresh my page...

Really??!!?!?!!!

Just kidding Hippy ....Happy New Year!!

Happy New Year to you too, and everyone else!

Important stuff here, so everyone listen up!!

In my case; its usually the guy that cries instead of me. I just get pissed off.

I have never seen a guy cry after a break up.
I think I'd pay to see that!

right - I really don't know what guys do. sometimes I cry even if I am the one doing the dumping....I do not like good byes

I don't know the answer to this question.

thank u all

Damn; I should have video taped my last break up. I could be collecting cash from you right now.

Females cry more because they are more emotional than Most males are.

^^^^^^^^^ THIS^^^^^ I thoroughly agree

In terms of pain, men feel it more than women. Biologically, women have a higher threshold for physical and emotional pain than men. During a bad breakup, three times more men than women commit suicide. Men feel pain on a deeper level. In many ways, women are really the stronger sex. We also are great at multitasking and taking on many different roles on the job and in the family, i.e., caregiver for child as well as elderly parents, housework, household finances, groceries, cooking. The woman can do it all. The man in today's society can feel like the woman really doesn't need him. Then there is the emasculation issue where men live by generally female standards in civilized society and they have to control their violent, slovenly urges for kinder, gentler and cleaner ones. Again, this is generally speaking, not to categorize all men as such.

To add to my point, generally speaking, when an elderly man loses his wife after many years of marriage, he follows right after her. An elderly woman usually lives on many years after the loss of her husband. She tolerates the pain of loss better.

The one that was dumped care more. The one that did the dumping has already moved on.

The OP may mean if the relationship doesn't work out but both still care for each other. Simplistically stated but not necessarily true. If someone initiates the rejection, that person can still care and suffer over the breakup.