The fingernail thing is basic hygiene. I expect that from anyone I might be interested in. Getting regular manicures is going farther than what is needed. If it makes you feel good, though, do it.

The not shaving thing? It's a preference. Some prefer facial hair and some don't.

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if you knew anything about maintaining a nice fluffy beard you'd know the lazy way out would be to just shave everything off.
it's way more work to actually keep a beard.
don't call my bearded men lazy because i'll cut you.
as for the scratching;
some of us like it rough.
if you're being all gentle,
you're doing it wrong.

Yeah... don't mess with b when it comes to the beard topic. Noted.

Maintaining a well groomed beard is at least as much work as shaving. But, I was referring to stubble.

Filed nails are smother than nails that are simply clipped.

I didn't really do anything that changed who I am. But, I did change a lot of what I do. I'm the same old product, but in a new package.

You can file nails without getting manicures. It sounds like you enjoy manicures, which is fine. Maybe some women really want their dates to get manicures, though and that's who you're trying to impress.

I do my own manicures.

Ok

I've gat one thing missing... but don't mind cos it's personal.

I think we all have things we could work on. For me it's my weight. Although I'm changing my lifestyle, eating habits for me, so that I will be healthier, and happier. It's also making me more active, and more attractive to others. I'm finding that feeling good about myself as I make positive changes for me, effects how others see me too.

I maintain my weight and workout because I like to sweat. I read, play music and photograph not becoz I wanna appear more deep n attractive to men, it is part of who I am. I want to become better every single day becoz I love myself, and all the things I do for me make me feel good as a person. In the process I might become more attractive, but I didn't do all those becoz I thought men will fall for me, that was not my motivation. But I guess as long as you're becoming a better person (in ur regard), then whatever motivates you is fine.

ditto............

I have everything I think I need...and if he is who I desire...he'll see it

Yeah, that's pretty much the point. I know a lot of men that think they're not tall enough or rich enough or they lost their hair or they're too fat or whatever.

I always tell them that no one is perfect and that imperfections are what make us all unique. Perfect is dull. All they really lack is confidence.

I think most of them would be happy to just get laid without having to pay for it.

A woman lecturing men about beards is like a man lecturing women about bras.

would you like to suck my dick, dodo?

I took the elevator down here and it stopped on the way down and asked if I had forgotten my glass of ice water...