My husband and I were married for 17 long years. and Yes, 12 of those years were absolutely wonderful! but the last 5...I'd rather have been somewhere else.

He's a good man, but He is lacking in a lot of areas that are too numerous to list. which is why it was time to end our marrriage.

He was hurt and angry, which I totally understand. Now, 6 months later he has come around to my way of thinking. We are NOT reconciliing... We are simply staying " Legally" married until we can sell our house ..THAT'S IT.
My question to the group: WHY aren't my eventual ex husband and I free to date? We are no longer intimate... and I don't want to see him alone.

i thought I just read a post where you are sleeping with your husband and also being with an ex boyfriend?

that's why I never mess with separated women. According to statistics, 25% don't break up with their husbands. Dysfunctional I think but it doesnt' matter to me. Things dont happen for a reason, they happen because of our actions.


No dear...that is not my situation. Separated 6 mos...celebate a whole year!