Topic: How interesting
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Thu 12/13/12 12:12 PM


The real people are right here responding to you. If you want people to think you're real, put some effort into your profile, add clear pictures that show exactly what you look like and start getting to know people. Viewing people's profiles in hopes that they view you back and waiting around for them to contact you isn't going to work well, especially when you have no picture.


I totally agree with this statement.. but what really cheeze's me is constantly having to defend the fact that I'm a REAL.. LIVE... PERSON.. as are MANY others on this site, including those responding.. and like Torgo said.. no mod's on THIS thread YET.. check out the thread under 'general' titled "Pictures of people you've met on mingle" and see just how many are REAL and those that have already connected with others on this site..

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Thu 12/13/12 12:32 PM
Edited by HeadnHeart on Thu 12/13/12 12:33 PM
Well sonnyyy, your sounding a bit cloudy with a chance of rain....

We are as real as our smallest violins playing just for you...

So next time bring something positive, instead of the cheese and whine...for your welcoming party.

You'll most likely have much better responses.




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Thu 12/13/12 12:34 PM
Edited by Kahurangi on Thu 12/13/12 12:45 PM
I agree!...the least he could do was bring a cracker or two.

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Thu 12/13/12 12:36 PM
AND some chips 'n dip grumble

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Thu 12/13/12 12:39 PM
Wow .. 23 replies to this thread, i have achieved ,, there is some out there with a pulse.

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Thu 12/13/12 12:46 PM

Wow .. 23 replies to this thread, i have achieved ,, there is some out there with a pulse.


dUHHHHH..frustrated no chit sherlock!spock

Kahurangi's photo
Thu 12/13/12 12:47 PM
So then...about that picture...

I kinda like putting a face to the whine...ya know? :-)

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Thu 12/13/12 12:47 PM
oops.. laugh forgot a part slaphead

that's what we been trying to TELL you!

there.. bigsmile

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Thu 12/13/12 12:51 PM

I'm not implying it is the sites problem and knowing that i wrote a short, would like to echange pics and have a coffee does not fall under "lurk" but it was pleasant to see someone reply who i might consider new to my post rathern then the conventional "dozen" i wrote about with 10 and 20 thousand posts.


I will also not bother with profiles with no photo & if a profile or message says they want to exchange pictures, I assume you are a scammer or a porn freak

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Thu 12/13/12 12:51 PM
Ok i'll put my picture in but i want to be rated, (whatever that means) i see it here all the time and for those with a sensitive heart, stare away i'm hidious

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Thu 12/13/12 12:55 PM

Ok i'll put my picture in but i want to be rated, (whatever that means) i see it here all the time and for those with a sensitive heart, stare away i'm hidious


aHA.. admission of LURKING!!! BUSTED... laugh

we ALL have different perceptions of ourselves.. obviously you are NOT hidious but COULD just be saying that to get a higher count on a RATE ME thread :tongue:

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Thu 12/13/12 12:59 PM
Well thanx alot posters,you made me put my picture up and i just got replies from all 25 ladies i viewed and they are all saying they would rather be raped by 12 Arabs then to go out on a date with me.

Kahurangi's photo
Thu 12/13/12 01:03 PM
Welllll...you can always change your name to Sahib.

HeadnHeart's photo
Thu 12/13/12 01:09 PM

Well thanx alot posters,you made me put my picture up and i just got replies from all 25 ladies i viewed and they are all saying they would rather be raped by 12 Arabs then to go out on a date with me.


IF...that is true. Its most likely from your negativity, not your photo.

When you are positive and confident to name a few attributes many women seek after, the world will start to spin in the opposite direction for ya...

Good luck Sir.

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Thu 12/13/12 01:10 PM
Thank you for the laughs and the humour ,, have a nice evening folks..

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Thu 12/13/12 01:31 PM
Beepityboobop.

Okay, now that is out of the way. I'm sure they are finding all of this whining absolutely attractive, throw in your stellar profile and majestic picture...How can you not find success?

I hope you catch my irony.

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Thu 12/13/12 01:43 PM
Edited by Dodo_David on Thu 12/13/12 01:44 PM
Here is something to go with the OP:



Seriously, the complaint in the OP is that others aren't abiding by rules created by the author of the OP.

Members of this site have every right not to read the profile of someone who read theirs, have every right not to respond to messaging that they have received.

Dismissing these rights that members have is bad form.


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Thu 12/13/12 04:20 PM
You got 25 replies?

Who cares if you got rejected... that, alone, is pretty impressive.

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Thu 12/13/12 04:20 PM

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Thu 12/13/12 04:21 PM
Heavy drinking may be a solution.