Topic: Friends with benefits
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Sat 02/09/13 07:18 AM
Think its a great idea and who knows what a friendship like that could lead to but some of us ar tired of the B.S. that comes with a relationship..... Id be down

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Sat 02/09/13 09:55 PM
Hey, it's better than having an enemy with benefits. Or is it?

I'm so confused. Or am I?

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Sun 02/10/13 06:16 AM
I have had great friendships with lady's I call fwb .
And are still good friends years later . In this case I want to use and be used by a fwb my fellings are'nt hurt .

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Sun 02/10/13 06:31 AM
If your lucky your fwb is one of the sexiest person alive and everything you would like to find in your soul mate. Use and be used it is what it is I would be willing to be used by you and tell me what your thinking.:wink: noway

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Sun 02/10/13 06:35 AM
Good call.
No confusion just TCB.and have let lose

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Sun 02/10/13 06:45 AM
My fwb are the ladys I have know either coworkers or ladys that I was interested in and hungout with.and realized you can have friends that are always there to make you fell like a pornstar.

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Sun 02/10/13 10:03 AM
FWB is not necessarily a bad thing and not limited to male thinking only. A woman can initiate a FWB relationship just as well as a man can. A fwb is someone you enjoy spending time with, talking to and going out with on a very non-sexual level. That's the Friends part. The benefits part is when that same person can subdue your hormones in a safe sex environment. It happens often when you are stressed out, hurting, need comforting, or just want a passionate night of unadulterated sex without the emotional committment or baggage. If the person is already your friend you know that you can enjoy yourself without being label as a one-night stand or a slut. I agree there is a risk of developing an emotional attachment that is deeper than friends. If that happens you stop the sex and continue to remain friends.

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Sun 02/10/13 10:16 PM
oh

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Mon 02/11/13 12:49 AM
friends with benifits can means 2 thinks a one night hook up but mostly used as we meet and have sex with understanding that it is just a sex hook up and nothing will come out of it like a relationship or dating

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Mon 02/11/13 09:01 PM
Love idea, but. Itscares me

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Tue 02/12/13 12:36 AM

FWB is not necessarily a bad thing and not limited to male thinking only. A woman can initiate a FWB relationship just as well as a man can. A fwb is someone you enjoy spending time with, talking to and going out with on a very non-sexual level. That's the Friends part. The benefits part is when that same person can subdue your hormones in a safe sex environment. It happens often when you are stressed out, hurting, need comforting, or just want a passionate night of unadulterated sex without the emotional committment or baggage. If the person is already your friend you know that you can enjoy yourself without being label as a one-night stand or a slut. I agree there is a risk of developing an emotional attachment that is deeper than friends. If that happens you stop the sex and continue to remain friends.


Does it come with a disclaimer?? spock

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Tue 02/12/13 08:59 AM
I agree with teebee79. If both people are for it have fun just don't disrespect the other person if you don't want it anymore just be honest until that happens enjoy eachother to the fullest.

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Tue 02/12/13 11:13 AM

Hi. Anyone ever been interested in the idea of a friend with benefits. No ties but lots of no-tie fun. Look forward to hearing others opinions

You know what? It is the most disgusting thing one can do. Females are to be respected. They are jewels in our life. So why disrespect them? After all they are human beings like us. What if we switch places? Does anybody want that? Exactly!!Thats how they feel

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Tue 02/12/13 11:28 AM
Edited by DragonFlame1966 on Tue 02/12/13 11:29 AM

You know what? It is the most disgusting thing one can do. Females are to be respected. They are jewels in our life. So why disrespect them? After all they are human beings like us. What if we switch places? Does anybody want that? Exactly!!Thats how they feel


Ok so what is disgusting about FWB? And since when do you have to disrespect a woman to agree to be in an FWB relationship with them. Yes women are human beings and have the same urges and desires as a man, so why can't we express our desires? Having an FWB is not disgusting or dirty. The two consenting adults are fulfilling a natural biological urge without fear of reperucssions or disease which is better than trying to pick someone up from a bar to satisfy your urges when you have no idea where the other person has been or who with. Last point, when did you turn into a woman and have the ability to know exactly how they feel?

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Tue 02/12/13 12:06 PM
I have never done the fwb until resently l dont think its totally me but l can say l hav given it ago

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Tue 02/12/13 12:06 PM
I have never done the fwb until resently l dont think its totally me but l can say l hav given it ago

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Thu 02/14/13 02:11 AM


You know what? It is the most disgusting thing one can do. Females are to be respected. They are jewels in our life. So why disrespect them? After all they are human beings like us. What if we switch places? Does anybody want that? Exactly!!Thats how they feel


Ok so what is disgusting about FWB? And since when do you have to disrespect a woman to agree to be in an FWB relationship with them. Yes women are human beings and have the same urges and desires as a man, so why can't we express our desires? Having an FWB is not disgusting or dirty. The two consenting adults are fulfilling a natural biological urge without fear of reperucssions or disease which is better than trying to pick someone up from a bar to satisfy your urges when you have no idea where the other person has been or who with. Last point, when did you turn into a woman and have the ability to know exactly how they feel?

Yeah you are right. We all have urges and desires. I dont deny that. But why dont we do it with our sexual partners? After all that's what they are for, among other things. If there is no partner, why not with a prostitute? Btw, since the priority is to solve our urges, why not use a male or female prostitute? FWB, you never know where you might meet him/her again or what damage is to be caused when u r in a relationship in the future

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Thu 02/14/13 09:17 AM
A prostitute? I understand a lot of them take really good care of themselves but you are always running a risk that you might catch an STD or a disease there is no cure for. I would rather have an FWB that I have know for a while and have been friends with where I know how many past relationships they have been in rather than someone who has been with hundreds of total strangers every month. I am not talking about having an FWB when you're already in a relationship. An FWB comes in when you have no partner. A good FWB is a Friend first and if you do get in a relationship the person who most wants to see you happy so there would be no interference in future relationships.

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Thu 02/14/13 09:41 AM
i need a friend with benifts un tampa;)@ny1?

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Thu 02/14/13 09:42 AM
ive had those too..believe me ya dnt wanna go there;(