some people don't have the patience for that stranger

Then they can only blame themselves. You are faced with obstacles for a reason. I have learned to be patient, and even though at times it is hard, I learned to never settle for less. You get what you put in. If you make haste, then your mate comes in haste, your relationship goes in haste, and meanwhile, you are left with a bitter taste.

Random: very well put.....i see it as a friendly reminder....thank you.... :-)

:-D

Patiece bro,Patience

i have patience, but am starting to wonder if i should just give up.

maybe you're looking to hard. don't look and when it's time it'll come.

kayd, oh i agree, i haven't been looking, i decided that it's just too much work and i dont have the time or the energy for all that mess. i'd rather focus on my kids.

Stop seeking so hard and just BE the love you want to attract.

Artgurl, my dear, a wise input, as usual. With all due respect, however, how do we know that the gentleman is not being the the love he wants to receive??

There someone out there for you. You just haven't found her yet. Keep hope.

i think the more people you meet the more of a chance there is to find someone, i have been in the lower 48 and parts of canada and meet counttless people and have not found her yet but im not waiting im trying to meet as many people as i can and increase the odds!!!but to each their own!!! i like making friends and some of the conversations have been worth it alone!!! so i say dont be patient, be a little agressive!!! thats my opinion!!! of course i have been eyeing the mail order bride sites!!!lol j/k..

Just learn to love yourself and learn how to live life well. The "right" person will come along in the process.

I agree with the chick on the sailboat.

Be patient,it will happen.