Topic: How long ?
pennyg281's photo
Tue 10/23/12 11:40 PM
I know their isnt a spacific rule or time limit and that every relationship moves at its own pace. But im jysy curious . .On average how long would you date someone before comitting to an exclusive relationship?

TexasScoundrel's photo
Wed 10/24/12 09:05 AM
I don't have a time line for this. When I'm dating, I'm usually seeing 3 or 4 or more women at once. But, I spend the most time with the one that's the most fun and available. Eventually, I'm spending all my free time with just one.

But, it's hard to find a perfect match. Maybe I like going to see Jazz with one, but she doesn't like action films. So, I do that with another.

I don't think about it too much. I just let things unfold of their own accord.

pyxxie13's photo
Wed 10/24/12 06:11 PM
When I do not feel like I'm suffocating from them. bigsmile

TexasScoundrel's photo
Thu 10/25/12 05:50 AM

When I do not feel like I'm suffocating from them. bigsmile


Is this an oral sex joke?

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Thu 10/25/12 06:29 PM

I don't have a time line for this. When I'm dating, I'm usually seeing 3 or 4 or more women at once. But, I spend the most time with the one that's the most fun and available. Eventually, I'm spending all my free time with just one.

But, it's hard to find a perfect match. Maybe I like going to see Jazz with one, but she doesn't like action films. So, I do that with another.

I don't think about it too much. I just let things unfold of their own accord.



Lucky you, you get to pick and choose happy

Duttoneer's photo
Fri 10/26/12 04:13 AM

I know their isnt a spacific rule or time limit and that every relationship moves at its own pace. But im jysy curious . .On average how long would you date someone before comitting to an exclusive relationship?



Right from the first date it is exclusive for me, hopefully it would be mutually so, I only believe in dating one person at a time. I guess it all depends on how you see dating. How long it would take to commit to a more permanent relationship I am not sure, it is something I would expect to discuss with my girl friend as time went on, a decision we both would need to arrive at.

pyxxie13's photo
Fri 10/26/12 09:46 AM


When I do not feel like I'm suffocating from them. bigsmile


Is this an oral sex joke?

Gosh I hope not! I don't want to have a relationship every time that ...
Um.. I'll hold that thought!

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 10/26/12 09:55 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Fri 10/26/12 09:57 AM
it depends on the people
has to be a mutual agreement there

i guess when it feels right

:heart:

Goofball73's photo
Fri 10/26/12 10:09 AM
If I decide (and she also decides) that I want to be completely exclusive to her, then I will talk to her about it. Can't say how it happens. It just does ya know. You just feel it.

no photo
Fri 10/26/12 12:06 PM
Exclusivity is good. Keeps you honest, and disease free. It allows you to grow as a person and as a lover because you delve into the intimate corners of her soul not just her body. But never, never ASSuME. Make sure it is stated that the two of you are going to be exclusive