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charles28 Joined Sun 10/07/12 Posts: 7	Mon 10/08/12 10:37 PM
Hi everyone,im new to this site.I recently decided to get on here and see if i could find a friend or someone to talk to or hang out with and maybe down the road get serious with depending on how everything goes.I just recently lost my wife of 12 years from cancer.She fought for 2 years before it took her recently.She had the worst kind i was told.Meliguant melinoma.I probably spelt it wrong lol but oh well.Anyways i thought id get on here and maybe see if anyone wants to talk or maybe hangout or might be in a similar situation as me.Ive always been a one woman man and yes i am a genuine nice guy and one of the few real guys left if that makes any sense.Thanks everyone for taking the time to read my post. Sincerly, Charles Deckard

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Mon 10/08/12 11:19 PM
So sorry for your loss Charles. Welcome to Mingle.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Mon 10/08/12 11:31 PM
welcome to the family and join in the and the and have a

charles28 Joined Sun 10/07/12 Posts: 7	Tue 10/09/12 12:03 AM
Thank you :)

Emilistic Joined Tue 04/03/12 Posts: 1	Tue 10/09/12 12:59 AM
Hi,so sorry about the demise of your wife.once again,am sorry.well,my name is ememobong john,from nigeria.we can be friends id you dont mind.

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Tue 10/09/12 04:47 AM
Hello Charles; Lost my wife seven years ago to cancer. Wishing you the very best of luck to you.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Tue 10/09/12 07:51 AM
Hi,so sorry about the demise of your wife.once again,am sorry.well,my name is ememobong john,from nigeria.we can be friends id you dont mind.you can reach me through facebook: ememobong john thomas,or +2347035358420.ve a good day. its not a wise idea to post your phone number i guess you dont care who calls you

Lizajane_thatsme Joined Fri 05/13/11 Posts: 1950	Tue 10/09/12 09:29 AM
Welcome to mingle Charles

charles28 Joined Sun 10/07/12 Posts: 7	Tue 10/09/12 10:10 AM
Thank you everyone for your kind words

charles28 Joined Sun 10/07/12 Posts: 7	Tue 10/09/12 10:13 AM
I feel dirty sometimes like i shouldnt be on here lol.It hasent been very long but im already finding myself getting despressed and lonely.This is something we talked about often before she passed and she told me that she dont want me being by myself for the rest of my life.I told her that i wouldnt want that for her either if something like that happened to me.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Tue 10/09/12 12:48 PM
I feel dirty sometimes like i shouldnt be on here lol.It hasent been very long but im already finding myself getting despressed and lonely.This is something we talked about often before she passed and she told me that she dont want me being by myself for the rest of my life.I told her that i wouldnt want that for her either if something like that happened to me. i kinda know how it feels i had a ex bf that died a little over 5yrs ago we had broken up several months prior after 3yrs it was just that there were issue and i didnt want to deal with it any more he went in the hospitol for exploritary surgery and he died a few days later the autopsy showed he had cancer of the privates but what killed him was a blood clot in his heart (that explains why he was getting dizzy alot) he never told his doc that his legs were hurting or he was getting dizzy it took 3plus yrs and his death to find out why he knew he was going to die he told his mom he felt he had 5yrs left he made a mp3 so everytime i want to hear his voice and him singing.. all i have to do is track it down

charles28 Joined Sun 10/07/12 Posts: 7	Tue 10/09/12 01:21 PM
Its funny you say that because i call my own voicemail sometimes so i can hear my wifes voice

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Tue 10/09/12 03:48 PM Edited by Queene123 on Tue 10/09/12 03:49 PM
Its funny you say that because i call my own voicemail sometimes so i can hear my wifes voice his mom kept the answering machine with his voice on it for along time and all of a sudden one day the machine died so she ended up having to get a new one she said something like it was a message it was ok now his brother made a video with his song. so if i want to see his face and listen to his music i just go into his brother profile on fb and listen and look at it but remember your wife is so very much around you in spirit she not suffering anymore and its ok

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Tue 10/09/12 04:01 PM Edited by Queene123 on Tue 10/09/12 04:04 PM
i wrote a poem for you http://mingle2.com/topic/show/337919 click on this link its the forum post of the poem i wrote

charles28 Joined Sun 10/07/12 Posts: 7	Tue 10/09/12 07:17 PM
Thank you that was nice of you :)

DurtySoufMofo Joined Tue 10/09/12 Posts: 7	Tue 10/09/12 08:13 PM Edited by DurtySoufMofo on Tue 10/09/12 08:15 PM
What's good people? How's the crew doing? I'm new to this site and it seems quite familiar. I can't put my finger on it except to say this. I hope it can keep up to the standards that I'm used to from the other site. Other than that.... Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!