All great posts... except the stalker one. Yikes. Unless she's into that kinda stuff... she's all yours, dude.

I already asked her out, and she gave me her number but hasn't called back. Me and my friends go there all the time and when I saw her again, I asked her if she really wanted to go out and she said she did but still hasn't called. I just wanted to make sure I didn't commit some faux pas by asking her out at work and she was just trying to be polite or keep me coming to the bar.

Thanks everybody! I've got some dining out to do this week; there are quite a few cute nice waitresses in the area that'll be getting napkins from me. Maybe one of 'em might even call back.

good luck :)

darn this sounds like STALKER class 101 lol.

why are you waiting on her to call.......... she might be tooo nerves to call

lmao hey go wait in the parking lot for her.....

I have to wait for her to call 'cause I already called her three times; the initial call, a follow-up to make sure she got the first one, and the third...

We were all hanging out again and she was there, very busy. I respected that she was busy, shot her a couple of smiles to let her know I was there and she smiled back. She never broke free, so I left my number with the hostess as we were leaving. Before I even got home, she called me from work to say that she was still interested. I called the third time and left a message and haven't heard anything since.

My opinion is that if we have communication problems before we even go on our first date, it is SO not meant to be. I just wanted to know if it's actually ok to ask your waitress out, and now I see that it is. That one's obviously a lost cause, but you never know when those tight jeans and cute accent will come bustling out the kitchen and up to my table.

Wait till she is driving home from work and have someone drive you in your car. You hang out the window,waving your arms and shout "Hey Mama, we're having a party, want to come?"

If that doesn't work you could try it like Donnasic suggested and just stalk her in the parking lot where she works.

Shakes me haid n rollz me eyez.

Waitresses are hit on all the time. Take your chances. If she likes you she will let you know. Just keep in mind she probably gets chances every day and maybe several times a day, so saying no is something she may have practiced quite a lot.

LOLZ I got told I scared her because I called her like4 times within a 4 day period

screw it I'll have another

Yeah, those 3 day rules and such are pretty vague and undocumented... maybe the subject for a new thread.

lol I agree!!!