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Topic: what is the hardest
Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Wed 09/05/12 07:09 PM
one of the hardest things i think i ever done was to ask my dad at the time i needed to come back home cause of the way things were in the past lucky enough i had one of my sisters to help me with that part

rambill79 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 5780	Wed 09/05/12 07:14 PM
one of the hardest things i think i ever done was to ask my dad at the time i needed to come back home cause of the way things were in the past lucky enough i had one of my sisters to help me with that part that would not be fun.

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Wed 09/05/12 07:15 PM
may i ask why are u double posting lol

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 09/05/12 08:01 PM
One of the greatest things has been stumbling on this silly date site and meeting more genuine people than I have In the last decade. Cool and pathetic at the same time. How was that a hard thing to do and why was it pathetic?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 09/05/12 08:02 PM
hint... this is a test to see if you are a positive person... Why are you testing people? life is a test, gf. this is a dating site is it not? so i am shopping for women ( and mabe men) and i like positive people. positive equals sucessful equals happy.. i dont do drama or negative, or always stuck in the mud or in a crisis. you either love life or you dont. Does that make sense? Does my spelling and grammer need work? Many of your threads are full of drama and negativity, though. So no, what you said does not make sense, as you're contradicting yourself.

Vaporz70 Joined Wed 09/05/12 Posts: 16	Wed 09/05/12 11:10 PM
The hardest thing I had to do was know my mother was dying. I'm not sure if I would have wanted to watch but was unable to regardless. I ended up not being able to see my mother in person again after hearing the news she had terminal cancer. I never got to really say goodbye. I have read all your posts and can share many of your pains and losses for I have suffered some of them too. To add a positive note to this thread nobody is alone. It's seems us humans were meant to suffer at times through life. Mabey there is a purpose for this. What is important is how we handle it. Keep your head up and look for the bright side. There always is one. Sometimes it's just hard to find.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Thu 09/06/12 08:24 AM Edited by msharmony on Thu 09/06/12 08:24 AM
... thing you have ever done? in a G rated way. lol Fire school was easy, except for the "practical exam." There is a written test which was not very hard, But the Practical test, or the physical part was Brutal. Would have kilt an ordinary man. lol leaving my first husband watching my potential second husband leave me,,,, starting over with nothing after working for twenty years,,,

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 09/06/12 08:35 AM
Putting my past behind me....ditching pretty much everything I own...moving 2200 miles and starting over with my mingle woman. It seemed hard as I prepared for the changes ....but now, it is easy ....wish I did it sooner.

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Thu 09/06/12 08:40 AM
War and the loss of my Brothers.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 09/06/12 08:46 AM
... thing you have ever done? in a G rated way. lol Fire school was easy, except for the "practical exam." There is a written test which was not very hard, But the Practical test, or the physical part was Brutal. Would have kilt an ordinary man. lol Hmm, I don't know if this was the hardest thing I ever done as there are too many to list but off the top of my head was climbing underneath cars and checking for bombs as we were under a bomb threat when I was in Germany. I was a tad nervous but figured what the heck; if my time was up; then its up. That's interesting. That's how I used to feel when faced with similar situations as a cop. Nervous, but kind of resigned to whatever happened, too. I think in my case too that if I were to die; it wouldn't really affect anything. Its not like I would be leaving a child or a husband behind; or a family member that I was supporting. I was and still feel like I am dispensable.

Loy822 Joined Mon 07/26/10 Posts: 7174	Thu 09/06/12 08:55 AM
I've done many really hard things in life. Multiple surgeries and recoveries, caring for 3 loved through cancer treatments, 2 resulting in death, watching my children make errors that they have to live with but I think the hardest thing is not being able to help the ones I love as much as I'd like.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 09/06/12 01:23 PM
Surviving a 3-day coma in a Chicago hospital. Still can't believe I am alive to this day. I always carry that with me.

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Thu 09/06/12 01:44 PM Edited by mssilverfox on Thu 09/06/12 01:45 PM
One of two hardest things for me was moving across country after my divorce and leaving my oldest behind.. She wanted to do her senior yr where she was... The other was holding my moms hand and telling her all the family was there for her and she could let go when she was ready.. she took one breath and was gone.. she had struggled sooo long.. Hugs to all of you that have suffered a loss..