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Edited by
wux
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Gee you'd think your 20 or 40 and looking to start a new,or a renewed life and family again... Sorry.. But it's not going to happen at my age group... being retired or close to it.... When were together for the most part don't you think it should be about us....???? Thoughts on the above: These ads and profiles are not written with a specific person in mind as audience. Your statement here seems to imply that you believe their profile is aimed at you. They are twenty or forty, they want to start a new life, but you are near retirement. Well, then they won't start a new life with you, period. It's not always about you, you narcissitic goon. Another thing: Like dogs,and most pets ..had them....like them more than most humans.... "Like dogs," what you mean? That you do like dogs, or you are like dogs? "....like them more than most humans..." You mean you like them more than you like most humans, or you like them more than most humans like them? And why do you appear so superior in intelligence? You can't punctuate, you don't have the first idea how to capitalize properly and why. You are full of yourself, is my opinion and MY THOUGHTS ONLY. But it is possible that others also think my thoughts, which are theirs, not mine, but they are identical in color and in smell. Goodness gracious. Just "MY THOUGHTS ONLY" |
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UNCLE..... Never click ( rate my profile ) silly... And was ranting in general all profiles ..... Not yours or any one profile.... So....who's button was pushed.... Hummmm! BTW..... GOOD MORNING TO YA ! You sound like a stroke victim who is trying to re-acclimatize himself with using the language. |
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How true....
Yep...do see your point.... Mostly it's about reading between the lines... |
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Edited by
wux
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How true.... Yep...do see your point.... Mostly it's about reading between the lines... Reading between the lines spells not any better opinon about you at all, either. Sorry. I calls them as I sees them. Nothing personal. I just go by your thread here, nothing else. I could be wrong, but my opinion is based on the only reality available to me about you that is in this thread. ------------ Edit: "not any better opinon about you at all, either" is a euphemism. I put it much more succinctly in the first version of my post here, but that would not have been accepted by the editors (MODs). |
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Thanks....
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. It does go both ways..... |
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. It does go both ways..... Some people know when to STFU and GTFOOH. |
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. The thing about pets is that I wouldn't give mine up just because someone I was dating didn't like them, or just didn't want them. So in that sense, they are more important. But, they're easy to care for, so they won't take any time away from dating. |
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attitude can be changed if only u really want to and am sure there is somebody out there who can help u do so,open up and all shall be well
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. The thing about pets is that I wouldn't give mine up just because someone I was dating didn't like them, or just didn't want them. So in that sense, they are more important. But, they're easy to care for, so they won't take any time away from dating. Actually; I found that pets did indeed take away from the dating and ruined vacations. We couldn't go any where without the dog in tow. Couldn't sit in a restaurant and relax as you can't and shouldn't leave a pet in a vehicle because of heat and cold; couldn't leave the dog alone at the house and go for a walk because of barking and whining. Couldn't afford to put the dog in a Kennel so we were stuck with the pet and no outside life. I also itch quite bad from pet fur. So, for me it did interfere with dating. Also the guy was more upset about his dog being sick than me being tested for cancer. |
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. The thing about pets is that I wouldn't give mine up just because someone I was dating didn't like them, or just didn't want them. So in that sense, they are more important. But, they're easy to care for, so they won't take any time away from dating. Actually; I found that pets did indeed take away from the dating and ruined vacations. We couldn't go any where without the dog in tow. Couldn't sit in a restaurant and relax as you can't and shouldn't leave a pet in a vehicle because of heat and cold; couldn't leave the dog alone at the house and go for a walk because of barking and whining. Couldn't afford to put the dog in a Kennel so we were stuck with the pet and no outside life. I also itch quite bad from pet fur. So, for me it did interfere with dating. Also the guy was more upset about his dog being sick than me being tested for cancer. He just sounds like an azzhole to me NavyGirl.... 
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I wouldn't get serious with someone who didn't like cats. And I probably wouldn't go out with a "cat hater."...My husband died. My older son died. And my younger son may die soon due to a brain tumor...My cats have kept me going and give me a reason to wake-up each morning. (Even if I'm depressed.)...I have 4 cats right now. (My 2 cats and my son's 2 cats because my son is in an acute care facility.)...Anyway nobody better complain about my cats. They are the only "family" I have left besides my younger son...The cats have been loyal to me and I plan to stay loyal to them!..And I'm not dating anyway...But if I ever decide to date I'll bypass men who hate cats. It just wouldn't work out very well.
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. The thing about pets is that I wouldn't give mine up just because someone I was dating didn't like them, or just didn't want them. So in that sense, they are more important. But, they're easy to care for, so they won't take any time away from dating. Actually; I found that pets did indeed take away from the dating and ruined vacations. We couldn't go any where without the dog in tow. Couldn't sit in a restaurant and relax as you can't and shouldn't leave a pet in a vehicle because of heat and cold; couldn't leave the dog alone at the house and go for a walk because of barking and whining. Couldn't afford to put the dog in a Kennel so we were stuck with the pet and no outside life. I also itch quite bad from pet fur. So, for me it did interfere with dating. Also the guy was more upset about his dog being sick than me being tested for cancer. Yes, some pets do take a lot of time. I was specifically talking about mine, though. |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Tue 09/04/12 06:16 PM
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I think that a picture with a really nice fish might help.
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Oooo....noice!
Looks similar to barramundi....what is it? |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Tue 09/04/12 06:31 PM
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Largemouth Bass I think...
 
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. The thing about pets is that I wouldn't give mine up just because someone I was dating didn't like them, or just didn't want them. So in that sense, they are more important. But, they're easy to care for, so they won't take any time away from dating. Actually; I found that pets did indeed take away from the dating and ruined vacations. We couldn't go any where without the dog in tow. Couldn't sit in a restaurant and relax as you can't and shouldn't leave a pet in a vehicle because of heat and cold; couldn't leave the dog alone at the house and go for a walk because of barking and whining. Couldn't afford to put the dog in a Kennel so we were stuck with the pet and no outside life. I also itch quite bad from pet fur. So, for me it did interfere with dating. Also the guy was more upset about his dog being sick than me being tested for cancer. He just sounds like an azzhole to me NavyGirl.... Yep, I agree especially when he put his dog's mild sickness to my very serious cancer scare. That put me off dating guys with pets for good. |
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. The thing about pets is that I wouldn't give mine up just because someone I was dating didn't like them, or just didn't want them. So in that sense, they are more important. But, they're easy to care for, so they won't take any time away from dating. Actually; I found that pets did indeed take away from the dating and ruined vacations. We couldn't go any where without the dog in tow. Couldn't sit in a restaurant and relax as you can't and shouldn't leave a pet in a vehicle because of heat and cold; couldn't leave the dog alone at the house and go for a walk because of barking and whining. Couldn't afford to put the dog in a Kennel so we were stuck with the pet and no outside life. I also itch quite bad from pet fur. So, for me it did interfere with dating. Also the guy was more upset about his dog being sick than me being tested for cancer. Yes, some pets do take a lot of time. I was specifically talking about mine, though. Of course for each person; its different. A friend of mine has 3 cats and two dogs. She treated her boyfriend as though he didn't exist so of course he had enough and broke up with her. I just find it hard to be treated like a second class citizen to someone's pet. Feels very insulting actually. |
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So is it fair to say you men should grow up. When I bothered to date; all I heard was about their kids and grandkids and they made me feel like I wasn't worth the time. Also; had to contend with pet owners who cared more for their pets than me. So, just wanted to point out; it goes both ways. The thing about pets is that I wouldn't give mine up just because someone I was dating didn't like them, or just didn't want them. So in that sense, they are more important. But, they're easy to care for, so they won't take any time away from dating. Actually; I found that pets did indeed take away from the dating and ruined vacations. We couldn't go any where without the dog in tow. Couldn't sit in a restaurant and relax as you can't and shouldn't leave a pet in a vehicle because of heat and cold; couldn't leave the dog alone at the house and go for a walk because of barking and whining. Couldn't afford to put the dog in a Kennel so we were stuck with the pet and no outside life. I also itch quite bad from pet fur. So, for me it did interfere with dating. Also the guy was more upset about his dog being sick than me being tested for cancer. Yes, some pets do take a lot of time. I was specifically talking about mine, though. Of course for each person; its different. A friend of mine has 3 cats and two dogs. She treated her boyfriend as though he didn't exist so of course he had enough and broke up with her. I just find it hard to be treated like a second class citizen to someone's pet. Feels very insulting actually. Yeah, I'm sure it does. Pets are a big responsibility. I have two cats, which are easy to take care of. I don't have to stop what I'm doing or come home early. I can only imagine how it is to try to date someone who has to go home all the time to take care of their pets. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. |
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I wouldn't get serious with someone who didn't like cats. And I probably wouldn't go out with a "cat hater."...My husband died. My older son died. And my younger son may die soon due to a brain tumor...My cats have kept me going and give me a reason to wake-up each morning. (Even if I'm depressed.)...I have 4 cats right now. (My 2 cats and my son's 2 cats because my son is in an acute care facility.)...Anyway nobody better complain about my cats. They are the only "family" I have left besides my younger son...The cats have been loyal to me and I plan to stay loyal to them!..And I'm not dating anyway...But if I ever decide to date I'll bypass men who hate cats. It just wouldn't work out very well. I am sorry to hear about the difficult time that you are going through. I can understand what you are saying. After my brother divorced; all he had was his dogs. He was lonely and they kept him company. I think also some people are just care givers and once their children are grown; they need the pets to care for. Myself; I am not close to most of my family but I have very close friends that I call my family who are there for me in my worse times. I also keep busy with community volunteering as well as staying active in meet ups; so for me there simply is no time to care for pets. |
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