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Topic: Have you ever regreted loving someone?
ShugahBee's photo
Thu 08/23/12 09:05 PM

I myself have fought with this question alot I was in a three year relationship with this guy who I loved very much but he would put me down and hit me and would leave brusis on me he broke up with me twice and it was a month ago he broke up with me again and then txts me saying he found someone else trying to hurt me on perpose but I dont hurt i feel cold towards him and feel bad for the girl he is with now... So I was wondering what everyone thought about this question.



is just my opinion but shouldnt
regret loving someone
even if it ended badly
because life is full of
little moments that make the
best memories.

If we spent our time focusing on
all the bad things that happen
to us all the time ,no one
would ever smile .

we can not control other people
we can though control how we react
to them .There is never a reason
to hit,I hope you stay away from
anyone that hits you ever .

to answer your question ...
even though didnt work out no
i dont regret it because the good times
i can smile on for years to come
the bad times has made me stronger


msharmony's photo
Thu 08/23/12 11:03 PM

You should never regret love... only the bad choices you made in the name of love.



THIS, I never regret positive feelings,, I do regret actions and choices made 'in the name of love' though

Rasmus916's photo
Thu 08/23/12 11:37 PM
Honestly the only regret I have is trying to prove I am not like the other guys my age in my town. After many mistakes made on my side by trying to prove (financially speaking) I learned that whoever the next "she" is simply should know who I am by how I act. I shouldn't have to prove I am not only trying to get into a girls pants. They should simply know that is the last thing on my mind if I am trying to catch their eye.

Mended1's photo
Fri 08/24/12 05:40 AM
yes.. I do regret loving one man in my life.. Up till date i do..

ashryn's photo
Tue 08/28/12 03:46 AM
i do sometimes...i dated a guy for five/six years. we were engaged adn then he disappeared...turns out he ran away because he was gay and didn't know how to tell me...we are still great friends but sometimes it sucks to look back and see all the plans we made were for not.

MommyKayla's photo
Wed 08/29/12 05:16 PM
You should never regret loving someone. Even if they treated you that way, it is a natural feeling. May have been good or bad, but its still nothing to regret. Cherish all of them because at some point they were good to you

msharmony's photo
Wed 08/29/12 05:51 PM
Edited by msharmony on Wed 08/29/12 05:53 PM
my moment of ZIN:

I dont think I can regret 'love',


I think my regrets have to do with 'time' (and not being able to get it back)

it would be awesome if after each relationship that didnt work, there was a machine that took us back to the moment it started, but let us still retain every memory and every feeling we had


its the feeling that I could have maybe passed that non refundable time with someone who loved me BACK, is whats so awful

the fact that I loved,, is an asset and a good thing,,,

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