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whatitis1 Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62	Thu 08/16/12 10:51 AM
Do find it easy to talk to people on this site? Seems like its easy to add and nudge, but nobody has sent me a message yet...

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45395	Thu 08/16/12 11:02 AM
The gals here are like they are everywhere, they want to get to know you before investing too much time in you. That is the purpose of the forums, to promote communication. You will find it exceptionally easy to chat with people when you put in some time in the forums, which are so easy to use. Flash the charm, they will come :-)

whatitis1 Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62	Thu 08/16/12 11:05 AM
The only way to get to know someone is to at least respond to a greeting. But thanks Ill try out the forums for awhile.=)

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Thu 08/16/12 11:26 AM
some can jibber-jabber quite well.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Thu 08/16/12 11:36 AM
How about you message people? Welcome :-) You may strike a chatter.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/16/12 11:49 AM
The gals here are like they are everywhere, they want to get to know you before investing too much time in you. That is the purpose of the forums, to promote communication. You will find it exceptionally easy to chat with people when you put in some time in the forums, which are so easy to use. Flash the charm, they will come :-) So true.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Thu 08/16/12 11:56 AM
I would say the best way to get to know someone is to post in the forums. That way people can get a general idea of who you are. Good luck in your search

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 08/16/12 12:02 PM Edited by singmesweet on Thu 08/16/12 12:03 PM
Do find it easy to talk to people on this site? Seems like its easy to add and nudge, but nobody has sent me a message yet... You have to put in effort to talk to people. If you just add and nudge, that's all you'll get in return.

whatitis1 Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62	Thu 08/16/12 12:11 PM
Exactly!

whatitis1 Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62	Thu 08/16/12 12:11 PM
I have thats the problem...

whatitis1 Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62	Thu 08/16/12 12:12 PM
Ok thanks!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/16/12 12:12 PM
I don't respond to the following: Nudges Adds Favorites IM's Hello Hey What's up? You're hot, your hot or any variation thereof I read your profile and I think we were meant for each other From those I've never chatted with in the forums first.

whatitis1 Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62	Thu 08/16/12 12:20 PM
I don't respond to the following: Nudges Adds Favorites IM's Hello Hey What's up? You're hot, your hot or any variation thereof I read your profile and I think we were meant for each other From those I've never chatted with in the forums first. Thats all I get is friend request and nudges..No messages

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Thu 08/16/12 12:22 PM
I dont respond to the above either. Or 'whats your phone number and I will ring you for a chat'. Just be polite, friendly, non sleazy and you will do fine.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 08/16/12 12:44 PM
I don't respond to the following: Nudges Adds Favorites IM's Hello Hey What's up? You're hot, your hot or any variation thereof I read your profile and I think we were meant for each other From those I've never chatted with in the forums first. Thats all I get is friend request and nudges..No messages Start sending messages rather than waiting for them.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Thu 08/16/12 01:07 PM
I don't respond to the following: Nudges Adds Favorites IM's Hello Hey What's up? You're hot, your hot or any variation thereof I read your profile and I think we were meant for each other From those I've never chatted with in the forums first. Yep...me too.

hiker1313 Joined Tue 07/10/12 Posts: 19	Mon 08/20/12 08:21 AM
I message women all the time and they will match with me, but when i send them a message i never hear back. If someone messages me i always respond even if it is to say no thank you, only seems common courtesy.

whatitis1 Joined Mon 07/30/12 Posts: 62	Mon 08/20/12 10:19 AM
I message women all the time and they will match with me, but when i send them a message i never hear back. If someone messages me i always respond even if it is to say no thank you, only seems common courtesy. Thats exactly what Im talking about!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 08/20/12 11:28 AM
First of all, don't take it personally if someone does not respond back to your message. Ya just have to accept that MOST people will look at your photo, make a quick decision based on the photo, and then you either receive a response or you don't. Just have to accept this fact. Yeah....it is common courtesy to respond. However, for some people, it is also hard for them to be mean, or negative.....basically it is hard for some to be the one doing the rejecting. Guess the feeling is that if they don't respond you will get the message and life goes on. Also, I might add that if you email a woman talking about your HUGE penis size? Well, that tactic is usually unsuccessful.

hiker1313 Joined Tue 07/10/12 Posts: 19	Mon 08/20/12 01:37 PM
I would never email a woman and talk about my manhood, i am and always will be a gentleman. My Mom raised me right. Ladies you all ask for someone who knows how to treat a lady, well there are a few of left in this world. Also when i email someone i always let them know its Ok if they are not interested, but it would be nice for them to at least say no thank you.