ok maybe this thread should be why "young" guys cheat and not men!!!!

ok look i may be only 22 but i have been married twice i know a lil more about life then my age may tell i know what it is about my first wife i left her cuz she was cheating on me cuz i wouldnt give her sex cuz she refused to take birth control and i wasnt ready for kids yet so tell me is that a good excause to cheat on someone no its not so not all men are dogs im not going to say there are not men out there that arent dogs cuz there is but women are dogs to there is no reason to cheat if ur not happy walk away easy as that

its not all young guys that cheat but yes the population is higher in young tennage males to cheat other then a grown man to cheat i dont know what it is like to to but i do know what it is like to be cheated on

I have to agree with the women on this...most men are like dogs- if a woman looks at them and bats her eyes - he's right there. He doesn't think about his wife or what it could do to the relationship- ohh nooo....he has his mind on that next notch on his belt. The men are more like animals and most just don't have any feelings except in that little head they scratch constantly.

Cheating is not a male/female thing. There are many reasons for it. It is NEVER right & that is a fact.
The young man has a lot to learn, as we all did at 18.

oldsage i have nothing 2 learn. common sense if cheating was not a male and woman then we would not have cheaters..u right their are many reasons why ppl cheat BUT its allways because they missing something...im mad that you old ppl with more exp cant see dat....NOW i asked da ppl that been cheated on why did dat person cheat on you?

men are not dogs...and if u read NEVER SATISFIED. by micheal baisden you would see why i say what i say. how can u agree with women about men being dogs when they cheat more than men. if u have a comment read all of this thread because you telling me i dont know anything is vulgar..

It is not that we are OLD PEOPLE, we are just more mature and have more experience.
My first husband cheated while he was away at school for the military. He says it was because she was there and I wasn't.
My second husband said he cheated because we were separated and thought it was ok (we were separated because he had a thing about hitting.....me). I wouldn't have found out but he was talking about his kids and mentioned one that I didn't know about. She is the same age as our daughter.
I have never cheated on anyone. I won't cheat on anyone. If I am in a relationship, I am there 100%. If it isn't working then, hey, I will either try to fix what is wrong or end it.
It is not necessarily a problem with the person that is being cheated on, it is a problem with the person who is doing the cheating. They are lacking in something morally or ethically that tells their brain, "It's ok, she/he won't ever find out". They always end up getting caught in the end.

exactly your ex husband cheated because u wasnt there that is what was missing.so he went to someonehe could have at dat time i wish yall would see my point. men and women cheat mainly cheat because they missing something now about your age..i was rasied different i wont explian it but its why im more mature then otha 18 year olds note that i have been with many women and have many women friends so really i have enough exp..i may not have been married. but i have exp

He was sent by the military to go to school. He was to be gone for only 3 months, we talked daily, we had a new baby at home. This was not like he had a choice in going or me staying at home, this was an ORDER to go. I was in CA and he was in FL. The way I look at it, if he had truely loved me, he wouldn't have cheated in the first place, regardless.

Ive got a great example for you. I personally dated someone for two years, we had a child together after a one night stand, so I did right thing and took her in and tried to make relationship work.

Before We recently split up, I cheated on her a few times. Reason? Because we had grown so far apart, our sexual relationship had come to a Army Routine , we argued alot, so getting turned on by someone u are always arguing with wasnt happening either.

I was lacking something I wanted in that relationship. For the first two years, I never even thought about cheating on her, or being with another woman. After things changed so bad at home, I started thinking about it, especially after i started going out without her, and women started hitting on me like crazy....

But honestly, All men are not Dogs...and call me one if you want, but I was Faithful for over 2 years, physically and Mentally. But when your woman will swallow, and be really passionate in bed when you first meet her, then after only a few months wont do any of it again...you kinda wonder, was she just doing all that stuff in the beggining to lock me in, then once she knew she had me cause she was pregnant she stopped and changed.

thank you jay for sharing that all the things i said go along with his story. thank you

you sure you got this all figured out thatplayer??? I am still asking are you old enough to be here at this site?

barbie..im 18 thats all you have to be to be here i think

People cheat because they are able to when the opportunity comes about.
In the moment they are horny and give into their basic animal instinctive self the ego.

However in my opinion all cheaters are dumb because they hurt their selves.
They place a thought in their mind that if they are doing so is their partner and trust goes out the door and they never truly have happiness nor love.

I only skimmed through the posts on this topic so forgive me in advance if I repeat anything said...but BOTH MEN AND WOMEN cheat.....and it doesnt seem to be one MORE than the OTHER...YES people cheat because they are lacking something..but I have to say that MEN WILL cheat EVEN when they ARE HAVING SEX EVERYDAY WTIH THEIR wives or girlfriends....I have known men to cheat on BOTH their WIVES and GIRLFRIENDS at the same time...so I m not sure what they could be LACKING there...but whatevers...CHEATING IS WRONG no matter what the circumstances are....If the relationship is not fufilling...the wise thing for that person to do is HAVE RESPECT to leave the realtionship FIRST...

why would any man try to keep more than one woman at a time happy.....