Topic: why nice guys neva get any and why da alpha male gets it
HolyCrapItsJason's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:29 PM
Most guys like that are essentially weak, and to compensate they seek out women even weaker.

HolyCrapItsJason's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:31 PM
I notice the guy who originally posted this was driven away by all the people opposed to his "alpha male" philosophy.

HolyCrapItsJason's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:31 PM
bout 80% of them women...

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:31 PM
jason, buddy, power corrupts, never seek out the weak, always go after fatter and juicier prey...i never troll for woemn at walmart, or at starbucks; you gotta go after bigger game, go after what you feel is right and know in your heart and mind, it is what you want...

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:33 PM
i was about to tell you, if you noticed, a few women are watching this post, and when they can get a coffee clatch together, they'll pounce, it is that gang mentality thing they have...

HolyCrapItsJason's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:33 PM
So you want the mini-skirted, glitter wearing, Appletini-drinking kind?

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:33 PM
i am just waiting...waiting waiting,,,,they'll bite

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:34 PM
maybe, sans the skirt...bit drafty for me, gotta keep the boys close

HolyCrapItsJason's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:34 PM
Sigh

ArtGurl's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:34 PM
I had a friend with a similar attitude Bob ... until he found the one he couldn't be without ...the shapes that boy isn't trying to contort himself into to fit into her life now...

Don't you suppose that it is possible that this is not an either/or type of thing. It is a continuum with hell raiser bad boy on one end and your idea of wuss on the other ... look at all the shades in the middle ...

Same for women.

The truth is we are all the colours, all the textures, light and shadow.

Confidence, strength, self assured ... those are always qualities that both sexes find attractive. In the mix what is wrong with respect and caring enough about the other person to treat them as a person and not a game or a large mouthed bass.

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:36 PM
ah, art gurl, my savior...i have beeen waiting for this nibble...tell me sweet lass, what turns your toes up at nite...a soft sonet or a hard tail thrumping your butt sore?

HolyCrapItsJason's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:37 PM
Why can't a real man do both?

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:38 PM
ask a woman...we can't multitask romance...

HolyCrapItsJason's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:39 PM
Pfft, a man who can't whisper poetry to his girl while satisfying her carnal needs is no man.

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:39 PM
unless you believe hollywood, most women want to be saved, by the white knight, throbbing pecs, stallion rocking them thru the wind, not some poet boy weeping on a podium

no photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:40 PM
because it is perceived as weak or soft by some men and women. look at the animal kindom and you might start to understand. most of the mating is strarted bt posturing.

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:41 PM
come on art gurl, i need your prose, wet my soul, wrest the calming melody of my aching heart

ArtGurl's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:41 PM
Oh Bobby did you miss the boat on that one laugh

HolyCrapItsJason's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:42 PM
Look at Shakespeare's Romeo, he courted Juliet with words AND killed people with a sword, it's not exclusive. And he's the consummate ladies' man!

Puffins1958's photo
Sat 08/11/07 04:42 PM
still sitting here....shaking my head

noway noway noway