Alanna. Please explanin what ducks have to do with this topic if you don't mind? or were you just starting a conversation

sorry just saying things that come to my head

ducks are notoriously all talk.

NP Hm if I did that at times I get in trouble on here lol

Hey forgot to say hi King. Good to see you around again

thanks shadow, hope everything is well with you.

If a man tells you he loves maybe you should believe him.

Yeah king things are looking up for me. hope things are good as well for you. Well I'm off of this for a little while ill see you around.

take it easy man

bee...

I agree with Native Girl, if he loved you he would not say things and then not follow through with them. Words mean nothing unless, he says what he means and then does it.

"Let us not love in word, neither in tongue...but in deed and in truth."

that's a great quote nusalor and very truthful

Tell you what I'd do. Now he obviously knows you care about him but for some reason he's straight playin you. Why he wants to do this I don't know. But I do know you care about him. If you want him real real bad, act like you don't give a ****, and he'll be all over you. Men like a challenge, so challenge his butt, then turn the tables and see how he likes gettin played.

i went and seein him like 2 months ago and he held and kissed my and kissed my forehead.hes a man of few words and held me all nite long while we slept.

his actions are random his acffections come with random acts that once wold never expect.hes a strong silent type

I do truly believe that actions speak so much louder than words....You can say you love someone but treat them like crap.....When you say something and back itup with actions thats what makes poeple true believers...well thats my opinion

Wise words jayboy07..totally agree!

Talk is cheap without action to follow through...

YES actions speak louder

Actions Speak MUCH louder than Words. In My mind what one says is worthless without ACTION behind it......

well he called i was in the other room when he called but he called from a buddies phone phone so is that a good sign?

I am sorry, but I think he is using you. He says he loves you to get what he wants, he does not follow through with any kind of niceness and caring, no telephone calls, no contact in between, he is not that far away. Yeah he held you the night you were together, but that was one night and he had accomplished what he wanted - I am sorry - that sounds harsh.

Actions do speak louder than words - look at how he is treating you - not calling, giving you the silent treatment, etc. If he truly loved you he would be contacting you, not ignoring you.

I would be concerned that if you were to ever get together, how would he treat you then??? Heck if he treats you this way now, how would he treat you then???? Leave you home alone all the time, not talk to you, disappear for days at a time???

I really think you would be better off cutting your losses and finding someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, not settling for the scraps he throws you every once in awhile.