Topic: do actions speak louder then words?
TheShadow's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:17 PM
Yeah southern_bee. You do know the answer. Hell if you have to chase someone,then it's time to move on.

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:20 PM
yeah i know i mean lord..i just cant figure out why even put the time into hurt somone like this?

im just pissed off i see what hes doing but he reminds me hes a busy man and i should know better!

uggh so i put my foot down!

no photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:23 PM
alot of people do this kind of crap. then the other person spends the whole time tryin to please them for some reason.

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:26 PM
i know i mean i know its a cycle and he claims he loves me but i know he checkes his voicemail b.c ill call his phone and sometime his voicemail box is empty sometimes!

i told him one time,it should be that ****in hard to remove the phone outta yur ass and call me!

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:28 PM
move on and do not look back
he is using you

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:29 PM
girl i know im epecting a fight when he read the message.but its so much drama!

TheShadow's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:32 PM
southern_bee sorry this is happening to you. what i do know is it don't matter how busy someone is. they will always find sometime if they are really interested in you. Hell men need alot attention. Maybe not like most would think but knowing a women is interested in them and being on the internet will make them do things they normally wouldn't lol

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:35 PM
i agree shadow i mean if you love somebody your gonna move mountains to let them know you love them and in todays technology driven word theres no excuse!explode grumble

TheShadow's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:44 PM
Hang in there. I have been through this before on the net. I know it's hard now but in time you will see things on the outside and be able to spot things out before it goes to far or you will see something in someone that you would be interested in. I know i'm repeating myself but it took a year to find this young lady that I'm in a relationship with. So I kinda know how you feel.

tarts333's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:48 PM
The question to ask is do you love yourself enough not to be treated this way????

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:48 PM
well sence we have been broken up ive seen the signs and ive told em where to go!but with him i let myself get sucked back into it until tonite!happy

tarts333's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:55 PM
Why do we allow that? Too lonley, too hungery, too tired, too needy or we feel like we dont deserve happiness unworthy somehow not good enough I call bull**** (can I swear here) but I know that when I feel better than or less than in any situation I need to step away and take a look at me not them.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:55 PM
Well the first step was tonight to a new start:wink:

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:58 PM
well he just sent me a reply...wow its a long one and i dont wanna post it on here
but i do want someone to read it!

TheShadow's photo
Thu 08/02/07 07:58 PM
I agree with you tarts. In order to see things we have to step back at times. It's not easy sometimes but when we do it's like saying OH now I see and follow what we feel is right for us

TheShadow's photo
Thu 08/02/07 08:00 PM
yeah not a good idea to post emails on here. Well southern if I were you id find a friend you you feel comfortable with and share it with them and maybe get some feedback

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/02/07 08:02 PM
yeah one of my friends that i trust are on

TheShadow's photo
Thu 08/02/07 08:02 PM
:wink:

no photo
Thu 08/02/07 08:04 PM
i just love ducks

Native_Grl39's photo
Thu 08/02/07 08:09 PM
Actions tell the truth..words are just words...There is nothing confusing...If he loved you...you would know it because he would show you and there wouldn't be any question!!!!!!!!!



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