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Topic: I need an opinion
David052365's photo
Sun 08/05/12 10:51 AM
I have read many profiles from many different sites and all I see is the same old same old cliche of frosting on a distasteful cake. I try to be unlike what I see and read. I'm not a player and am kind of shy with initial approach. I guess I would like to have some feed back of my profile and what I have written please. Thanks

soufiehere's photo
Sun 08/05/12 11:55 AM
It is a decent profile, can't really complain.
The only thing that occurs to me is, it is
the internet, instant gratification is what
the masses seek.

Like a commercial, you get just the one chance
to grab someone's attention, before they are
on to the next.

With that in mind, may be a bit wordy with the
likes and dislikes, might be read more negative
than positive.

But it is pleasant :-)

David052365's photo
Sun 08/05/12 01:03 PM
Edited by David052365 on Sun 08/05/12 01:05 PM
See, that is my point. My likes are a mystery. Other profiles are nothing BUT all the glamour. a month or 2 later one finds out the bad and that they wasted time finding them out. OR, they put a bunch of nice trimmings in there and make themselves "look" great or like they really think someone wants. One thing I think 99% of the people want is honesty. If my profile is anything, it is honest. I left allot of stuff open for conversation, there are allot of good attributes to being "me" and if someone is interested in a honest relationship then they will get it from the start. My bad does not rule over my good. I'm interested in honest relations, not buffed and shined failures.

Oh, I'm also not interested in "the masses" only the one.

GreenEyes48's photo
Sun 08/05/12 03:44 PM
I enjoyed reading your profile. Good luck to you!..Sounds like you know yourself pretty well. Good to be honest and upfront!

wux's photo
Sun 08/05/12 04:41 PM
For a profile picture, a head shot would be better than a headless shot.

Raise the camera high.

David052365's photo
Sun 08/05/12 04:51 PM
Well, I don't know why my pic is headless here in the forum, it's not on the profile. you would have known that if you looked at the profile

blueeyes2000's photo
Mon 08/06/12 03:58 AM
Why'd you even ask for any opinions? Doesn't look like you really care what anyone's opinion is.

David052365's photo
Mon 08/06/12 04:21 AM
actually, I do. But to give an oppinion you should read what I want an opinion about. mot just comment here.


Here's a REAL opinion from someone who actually read my profile:

Hi, David. Your profile is perfect. Don't change a thing. Anyone worth a chance with you will read it and understand your personal thoughts and views on life, love, etc... I actually agree with most of your thoughts and respect you for all of it. So, David, leave it just the way it is...you!

soufiehere's photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:00 AM

Why'd you even ask for any opinions? Doesn't look like you really care what anyone's opinion is.

Ahhh, the beauty of the forums..where you
begin to get the real picture, eh?

no photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:50 AM


Why'd you even ask for any opinions? Doesn't look like you really care what anyone's opinion is.

Ahhh, the beauty of the forums..where you
begin to get the real picture, eh?


Agree.

Here's a REAL opinion from someone who actually read my profile:

Hi, David. Your profile is perfect. Don't change a thing. Anyone worth a chance with you will read it and understand your personal thoughts and views on life, love, etc... I actually agree with most of your thoughts and respect you for all of it. So, David, leave it just the way it is...you!


So the only "REAL" opinion for you is one who agrees with what you wrote.

The people who gave you the opinions you asked for were giving you some sound advice. You didn't have to be rude about it.

If you're not interested in what "the masses" think, then don't ask for their feedback.

no photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:57 AM



Why'd you even ask for any opinions? Doesn't look like you really care what anyone's opinion is.

Ahhh, the beauty of the forums..where you
begin to get the real picture, eh?


Agree.

Here's a REAL opinion from someone who actually read my profile:

Hi, David. Your profile is perfect. Don't change a thing. Anyone worth a chance with you will read it and understand your personal thoughts and views on life, love, etc... I actually agree with most of your thoughts and respect you for all of it. So, David, leave it just the way it is...you!


So the only "REAL" opinion for you is one who agrees with what you wrote.

The people who gave you the opinions you asked for were giving you some sound advice. You didn't have to be rude about it.

If you're not interested in what "the masses" think, then don't ask for their feedback.


Where's the damn LIKE button.

no photo
Mon 08/06/12 06:01 AM


Why'd you even ask for any opinions? Doesn't look like you really care what anyone's opinion is.

Ahhh, the beauty of the forums..where you
begin to get the real picture, eh?



Soufie! flowerforyou

I didn't know you were taking Canadian English classes eh!

Excellent!

blueeyes2000's photo
Mon 08/06/12 01:07 PM


Why'd you even ask for any opinions? Doesn't look like you really care what anyone's opinion is.

Ahhh, the beauty of the forums..where you
begin to get the real picture, eh?


yup yup


blueeyes2000's photo
Mon 08/06/12 01:07 PM


Why'd you even ask for any opinions? Doesn't look like you really care what anyone's opinion is.

Ahhh, the beauty of the forums..where you
begin to get the real picture, eh?


yup yup


blueeyes2000's photo
Mon 08/06/12 01:08 PM

actually, I do. But to give an oppinion you should read what I want an opinion about. mot just comment here.


Here's a REAL opinion from someone who actually read my profile:

Hi, David. Your profile is perfect. Don't change a thing. Anyone worth a chance with you will read it and understand your personal thoughts and views on life, love, etc... I actually agree with most of your thoughts and respect you for all of it. So, David, leave it just the way it is...you!



Ok, well let me try then. You are sooooo perfect, any woman would be soooo lucky to be with you. I can't imagine you not having 1000 women fighting over you!

krupa's photo
Mon 08/06/12 02:04 PM
Mystery and glamour work...

That being said...

I am a dude and I am not gonna go check your profile...you say your pic has the head shot in your profile...but, obviously it ain't showing here. Fix your pic brother. I ain't competition...I bagged my gal. Crop your pic and try again my good man...these ladies like to know who they are talking to.

Take it or leave it....just trying to help. But, as long as the chicks got zero idea what you look like in these forums....you got no chance.

David052365's photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:33 PM
wow, really? laugh Funny how I don't see the people on my "who viewed me" list. smokin laugh laugh laugh laugh

#1: The pic on my profile has my head. ALSO, there's OTHER pictures of me posted ON my profile. One is even JUST a head shot. :tongue:

#2 What I posted was a note sent to me by a real lady. It's not that I only care about "good" opinions. I asked for opinions of people who ACTUALLY read my profile. NOT from people trying to start an argument. yawn yawn yawn

#3spock (YES, I like to use smileys) To the lady who thinks I think I'm perfect, what what what READ my profile before you sarcastically accuse me of being perfect. rofl rofl rofl I'm beyond getting into anything, including an argument, with you. Not doing it, and not going another step into ANY direction with you.

#4 If you can't be an adult and give constructive opinions and stop acting like a child, don't bother. You will be ignored.tongue2

David052365's photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:39 PM
There, now you have a head shot showing the inner me. shades rofl shades

krupa's photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:42 PM
What?

All I said was show your face. Chicks like it.

You can't do that...no one gotta pick a fight...you will lose your own fight.

Only amatures come in here with that "arguement" crap

Good luck brother.

You will need it.

You got all of 5 posts....you may be right...I probably got no clue what I am saying even though I am happily attatched to a wonderful Mingle woman that I have spent years developing a relationship with along with many other friends.

I back away and simply watch this train wreck in silence.

David052365's photo
Mon 08/06/12 06:16 PM
I'm not picking a fight. I asked for an opinion of my "profile". people are picking me apart because they don't, can't or won't look at my profile as I asked. Where's the problem????? I don't know why the pic came up in the forum headless, but if people would actually do what is asked of them instead of making assumptions based on a headless photo and of my inpatients with unsolicited advice (unsolicited = NOT reading my profile but having an opinion). If one reads my profile then one would better understand me AND see a pic with my head. BUT, hey, if you want to give your opinion w/o going to my profile. NP, I could care less. That opinion is only worth the effort put into forming it.

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