Well, judging by the e-mails I get, it's fine and I don;t need to worry about immature opinions from people who who are to ignorant to do as asked. Who try to egg a person into an argument form an opinion about a person without even trying to get to know them. Pathetic, ignorant losers who deserve exactly what they get. And if that is also what I deserve, then I'll remain alone and marginally happy instead of with any of you losers and miserable.....

Well, I read your profile and it's amazing what you say about not wanting men to contact you about sex. Well, you may as well go for it because women like you are a penny for 50. A real man doesn't write women asking for sex or e-mailing nude pics like you "SAY" you're getting. Well, you sure don't want an honest man because men like me are a dime a dozen, as you say.

Fine, here's the "REAL" picture:

I'm 7 years out of a 20 year relationship with the mother of ALL 4 of the only children I have. I went 4+ of the 7 years in a drunken and drugged haze then the next 2.5 years both in rehab (6 mo.) and have been clean and sober since March 2010 . Since then I refuse to let anyone bring me down. I refuse to settle for anything less than I deserve. (That and it's reason are in my profile) I'm not perfect and I also refuse to white wash who I am just to satisfy what I "think" someone else wants. I am who I am and I'm not going to butter it up, PERIOD. I've looked at a few profiles and what I see allot of is "I want honesty" or "no lies" or "no games". You no what else I see? guys in relationships surfing dating sites claiming "friendships" Please, are you for real? Another thing about me, I'm NOT looking for a hook-up or a new notch on my bed post. I'm looking for a relationship, a real bonafied relationship. I've been single for the last 4 years for the reasons of MY choosing, waiting to be ready. I am NOT a smooth talker or a player. And that's another thing, why is it that when a player says all of the right things and smooth talks his way into a lady's bed she believes the lies and eats it all up like jelly beans. But when a man comes out with the truth, showing his quirks right off the bat, then he's ridiculed? I know what I want and I want a woman who also knows what she wants. Be careful of what you ask for because you may just get it. I'm not going to paint the grass red just because a woman wants it to be red. Grass is green, water is wet and I am who I am. If you can't handle the truth then don't ask for it.

I'm not picking a fight. I asked for an opinion of my "profile". people are picking me apart because they don't, can't or won't look at my profile as I asked. Where's the problem????? I don't know why the pic came up in the forum headless, but if people would actually do what is asked of them instead of making assumptions based on a headless photo and of my inpatients with unsolicited advice (unsolicited = NOT reading my profile but having an opinion). If one reads my profile then one would better understand me AND see a pic with my head. BUT, hey, if you want to give your opinion w/o going to my profile. NP, I could care less. That opinion is only worth the effort put into forming it.

There, now you have a head shot showing the inner me.

wow, really? Funny how I don't see the people on my "who viewed me" list.

#1: The pic on my profile has my head. ALSO, there's OTHER pictures of me posted ON my profile. One is even JUST a head shot.

#2 What I posted was a note sent to me by a real lady. It's not that I only care about "good" opinions. I asked for opinions of people who ACTUALLY read my profile. NOT from people trying to start an argument.

#3 (YES, I like to use smileys) To the lady who thinks I think I'm perfect, READ my profile before you sarcastically accuse me of being perfect. I'm beyond getting into anything, including an argument, with you. Not doing it, and not going another step into ANY direction with you.

#4 If you can't be an adult and give constructive opinions and stop acting like a child, don't bother. You will be ignored.

actually, I do. But to give an oppinion you should read what I want an opinion about. mot just comment here.


Here's a REAL opinion from someone who actually read my profile:

Hi, David. Your profile is perfect. Don't change a thing. Anyone worth a chance with you will read it and understand your personal thoughts and views on life, love, etc... I actually agree with most of your thoughts and respect you for all of it. So, David, leave it just the way it is...you!

Well, I don't know why my pic is headless here in the forum, it's not on the profile. you would have known that if you looked at the profile

See, that is my point. My likes are a mystery. Other profiles are nothing BUT all the glamour. a month or 2 later one finds out the bad and that they wasted time finding them out. OR, they put a bunch of nice trimmings in there and make themselves "look" great or like they really think someone wants. One thing I think 99% of the people want is honesty. If my profile is anything, it is honest. I left allot of stuff open for conversation, there are allot of good attributes to being "me" and if someone is interested in a honest relationship then they will get it from the start. My bad does not rule over my good. I'm interested in honest relations, not buffed and shined failures.

Oh, I'm also not interested in "the masses" only the one.

I have read many profiles from many different sites and all I see is the same old same old cliche of frosting on a distasteful cake. I try to be unlike what I see and read. I'm not a player and am kind of shy with initial approach. I guess I would like to have some feed back of my profile and what I have written please. Thanks