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Topic: What things you miss the most about being in a relationship
Tatilove Joined Fri 10/01/10 Posts: 243	Sun 07/29/12 02:44 PM
I miss absolutely nothing about my ex's. Why would I even bother putting myself through such torture? I chose to dump them for a reason. I've moved on. The question is "what are the things you miss about being in a relationship?" Not what you miss about your exes. You might miss having someone to share with, the closeness, etc...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Sun 07/29/12 03:01 PM
For me, I miss the closeness, the intimacy, being able to communicate with the person without even using words. I miss holding hands, kissing, soft caresses. Having a person to count on, knowing that someone thinks you're special, cooking with the person. Just hanging out sitting on the sofa. How about you guys, what do you miss the most? Why did you have to ask that question? I was feeling fine until I read the question. Now, I am crying. It isn't easy being a widower.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Sun 07/29/12 03:01 PM Edited by Dodo_David on Sun 07/29/12 03:02 PM
Double post deleted.

Tatilove Joined Fri 10/01/10 Posts: 243	Sun 07/29/12 03:24 PM
For me, I miss the closeness, the intimacy, being able to communicate with the person without even using words. I miss holding hands, kissing, soft caresses. Having a person to count on, knowing that someone thinks you're special, cooking with the person. Just hanging out sitting on the sofa. How about you guys, what do you miss the most? Why did you have to ask that question? I was feeling fine until I read the question. Now, I am crying. It isn't easy being a widower. I'm sorry this question caused you heartache. I asked this question because I was thinking about the things I missed the most about having someone in my life. I'm sorry Dodo David! :(

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 07/29/12 03:25 PM
being on the 'receiving' end of things, instead of just the 'giving' having a partnership/companion/peer

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Sun 07/29/12 09:05 PM
For me, I miss the closeness, the intimacy, being able to communicate with the person without even using words. I miss holding hands, kissing, soft caresses. Having a person to count on, knowing that someone thinks you're special, cooking with the person. Just hanging out sitting on the sofa. How about you guys, what do you miss the most? Why did you have to ask that question? I was feeling fine until I read the question. Now, I am crying. It isn't easy being a widower. I'm sorry this question caused you heartache. I asked this question because I was thinking about the things I missed the most about having someone in my life. I'm sorry Dodo David! :( I'm feeling better now. The first time that I read your question, I was exhausted and experiencing significant physical pain. Thus, I was too weak to keep my composure. I took some pain pills and slept for awhile. How much you miss a person can depend on why the person is no longer in your life.

Kaleijoscope Joined Fri 10/15/10 Posts: 3319	Sun 07/29/12 09:30 PM
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm............... I miss........... everything........... But......... HER!!!!!!!!!! Im sorry but i was drinking coffee and spit it out laughed when i read this ...i had to smile but liked how that was said what?!!! you wasted some coffee? thats unforgivable!

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sun 07/29/12 09:37 PM
I miss absolutely nothing about my ex's. Why would I even bother putting myself through such torture? I chose to dump them for a reason. I've moved on. The question is "what are the things you miss about being in a relationship?" Not what you miss about your exes. You might miss having someone to share with, the closeness, etc... Sorry OP :) I thought you meant it in another way. Sorry about that.

Tatilove Joined Fri 10/01/10 Posts: 243	Mon 07/30/12 02:27 PM
I miss absolutely nothing about my ex's. Why would I even bother putting myself through such torture? I chose to dump them for a reason. I've moved on. The question is "what are the things you miss about being in a relationship?" Not what you miss about your exes. You might miss having someone to share with, the closeness, etc... Sorry OP :) I thought you meant it in another way. Sorry about that. It's all good girlie :)

elaina2010 Joined Mon 07/16/12 Posts: 1	Mon 07/30/12 06:25 PM
I would say I miss having someone there to help raise my little girl, but he was never there to begin with. So in honesty, I suppose I miss knowing I have someone that loves me and will be there through everything.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Tue 07/31/12 09:21 AM
Private moments that only the two of you share and nobody hears about.

salemo Joined Sat 09/17/11 Posts: 29	Tue 07/31/12 03:16 PM
tatilove i just want to thank u for asking that question ,makes me dreaming and hoping ,because when u do have hope u have beautiful thing & beautiful things never dies.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Tue 07/31/12 03:18 PM
Private moments that only the two of you share and nobody hears about. I miss those too

misswright Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 1893	Tue 07/31/12 04:08 PM
I miss my head on his chest, his arm draped around me, listening to his heart beat and the sound of his breathing as he sleeps peacefully beside me. Waking up in the morning to a kiss, a soft touch, making love and then collapsing in exhaustion! I miss saying "I love you" and meaning it with all my heart.