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Topic: Serious Question
kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sat 07/28/12 03:30 PM
If a guy is too busy to have sex with a hot chick is he gay? no.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 07/28/12 03:31 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 07/28/12 03:32 PM
P.S. And he need not worry about the woman he said no to, he needs to worry about the one he had sex with. Have you seen the movie "Play misty for me." or "Fatal attraction." All men should watch both of those movies. I have seen both....I have seen the light. Is that why you won't go to bed with me?

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sat 07/28/12 03:32 PM
I have a lot of interests that keep me from things in life. But they are things that mean something to me. If the "Hot" lady and I are in a relationship.... I would drop any of these to spend intimate time with her. If I am in the middle of an engine rebuild and a strange hot chick wants to lay me....... I'm gonna finish the engine, clean up and go home to my own hot lady. hehehe So.....If she is my hot lady...I would Never be too busy!!! Just the way I roll.......

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sat 07/28/12 03:47 PM
What makes you think that's all straight men care about? Are there other things? Besides sports... Oh yes, there's loads of things......like Jersey Shore,hahaha

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sat 07/28/12 03:49 PM
I don't seek out anyone, they should come to me. And they do! What's your secret? do tell, I need some tips!

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sat 07/28/12 03:56 PM
If a guy is too busy to have sex with a hot chick is he gay? No, he could be playing World Of Warcraft. Duh!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 07/28/12 04:09 PM
I don't seek out anyone, they should come to me. And they do! What's your secret? do tell, I need some tips! Yeah I have no secrets here...being yourself works fine.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 07/28/12 04:11 PM
What makes you think that's all straight men care about? Are there other things? Besides sports... I hate sports. You can like golf, it doesn't count.

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sat 07/28/12 04:22 PM
You can like golf, it doesn't count. Golf may be the one sport you can pull a man away from sex for though.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sat 07/28/12 04:23 PM Edited by AndyBgood on Sat 07/28/12 04:28 PM
If a guy is too busy to have sex with a hot chick is he gay? It depends. I would turn down Brittany Spears because I don't like her and likewise worry about what I would not be able to wash off. To me she is a known quantity for Math sake. But now to the more core issue with the question. Now as long as she does not emanate a horrid odor, have a vicious personality, or teeth down below he would most certainly have to be gay! There could be no other explanation. Right now if a real hot woman asked me to go out I would be all over that! If she winked at me and said let's do it, well, the only exception to the rule is Religious guys who really do tow the line. But for me... Now here is one conditional... If I made a promise to be exclusive to one woman and another real hot one made me the offer, HAVE TO SAY NO GOD DAMN IT !!! But then again if I was involved with the woman I am holding out for, one who is head and shoulders better than the rest the answer would be a real no-brainer, NO! Why step down in quality? Since at this moment I am a bachelor, as long as none of my danger senses are tripped I would be all over dat like Scarface on a Pile of Peruvian Flake! WOOHOO! I did think of one thing, If I was really busy, and I mean I am doing something that I stand to make a PILE of cash on, she can wait!

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sat 07/28/12 04:39 PM
Many guys (especially those who have a choice of several hot chicks) will not find good looks enough all on their own. For many, the girl has to be both very attractive and also a good match intellectually and emotionally before they are going to really want to have sex with them. There are a lot of attractive people out there...but not every one is a great sex match. But if the girl is awesome hot and also a great match intellectually and emotionally and he turns her down. He's probably gay.

ezas123 Joined Thu 07/05/12 Posts: 271	Sat 07/28/12 04:43 PM
yep or to drunk ...

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 07/28/12 04:45 PM
Many guys (especially those who have a choice of several hot chicks) will not find good looks enough all on their own. For many, the girl has to be both very attractive and also a good match intellectually and emotionally before they are going to really want to have sex with them. There are a lot of attractive people out there...but not every one is a great sex match. But if the girl is awesome hot and also a great match intellectually and emotionally and he turns her down. He's probably gay. This.

Teri11215 Joined Sun 07/22/12 Posts: 65	Sat 07/28/12 04:47 PM
This shouldn't just be targeted toward men with hot women. I have known women that do the same. that have what some would call a "hot guy." I don't think it is because they are gay, I think it is because they have little to no self confidence, and need to feel they are attractive to others. Personally if I am in a relationship, I would not put up with a man having sex with anyone else. In order to get respect that you want and deserve, you have to respect yourself also. Good luck to you.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 07/28/12 04:49 PM
No it doesn't mean he's gay. Men may be somewhat simpler in their needs than women, but they're still human being with a wide range of emotions. It could be any number of things. Don't take it personally. Although I understand rejection is never fun.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Sat 07/28/12 05:04 PM Edited by Optomistic69 on Sat 07/28/12 05:08 PM
P.S. And he need not worry about the woman he said no to, he needs to worry about the one he had sex with. Have you seen the movie "Play misty for me." or "Fatal attraction." All men should watch both of those movies. I have seen both....I have seen the light. Is that why you won't go to bed with me? Why Have I got My Glasses on? Off to my bed alone now Good Night

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sat 07/28/12 06:44 PM
Is he having sex with another hot chick? This was the first thought that popped into my head. the second thought was perhaps he requires a mental connection as well. Whether we believe it or not, there are some men left with values and sometimes just being hot, isnt enough to get them in the sack.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21823	Sat 07/28/12 06:50 PM
If a guy is too busy to have sex with a hot chick is he gay? Nope. It could be that she is not as hot as she thinks she is, and he is just not that into her.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Sat 07/28/12 06:52 PM
Why I passed some up the other night at 3:30am because I was tired. I just dont like anybody coming over in the middle of the night.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 07/28/12 08:58 PM
I would turn down Brittany Spears because I don't like her and likewise worry about what I would not be able to wash off. WHAT? You leave my fwb alone. Dammnit. ):