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xXkatyXx Joined Mon 06/11/12 Posts: 59	Wed 07/18/12 01:31 PM
why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site

Peter_Pan69 Joined Sun 08/23/09 Posts: 2781	Wed 07/18/12 01:32 PM
That's a good question.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 07/18/12 01:37 PM
A compliment is a gift. You dont have any rights to it once you have given it. Appreciation? If people dont appreciate your compliments, that is their problem, dont make it yours. :-) Btw, you look gorgeous in your pic.

xXkatyXx Joined Mon 06/11/12 Posts: 59	Wed 07/18/12 01:38 PM Edited by xXkatyXx on Wed 07/18/12 01:39 PM
A compliment is a gift. You dont have any rights to it once you have given it. Appreciation? If people dont appreciate your compliments, that is their problem, dont make it yours. :-) Btw, you look gorgeous in your pic. thanks :) you too

Christinacospgs Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 6376	Wed 07/18/12 01:40 PM
If only more did this...

ThomasBW Joined Mon 06/18/12 Posts: 26	Wed 07/18/12 01:43 PM
Probable Because they don't say it a lot or their not use-st to hearing it.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45405	Wed 07/18/12 01:45 PM
I agree with Ladywind, a compliment is a gift requiring no feedback. It is simply a truth that is shared, that should stand on its own. Otherwise, tis flattery, and pandering is easy to ignore. You simply cannot take personally, a lack of response from someone you have approached in some way with your compliment. It in no way alters the value of your gift.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 07/18/12 01:48 PM
well said.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 07/18/12 01:53 PM
Thank you xxkatyxx. I appreciate your compliment.

Peter_Pan69 Joined Sun 08/23/09 Posts: 2781	Wed 07/18/12 01:57 PM
That's a good question. ^^^^^^^^^ That was a compliment too...

xXkatyXx Joined Mon 06/11/12 Posts: 59	Wed 07/18/12 02:01 PM Edited by xXkatyXx on Wed 07/18/12 02:01 PM
That's a good question. ^^^^^^^^^ That was a compliment too... sorry lol thanks, i scrolled past it and didn't see it

xXkatyXx Joined Mon 06/11/12 Posts: 59	Wed 07/18/12 02:02 PM
Thank you xxkatyxx. I appreciate your compliment. and i yours

Tane_T Joined Wed 07/18/12 Posts: 6	Wed 07/18/12 03:21 PM
They may also be shy and may not be able to say anything back. But yeah I do agree with you

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Wed 07/18/12 03:30 PM
why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site I dunno, it is happening everywhere though. I think a lot of it is in this ever growing fast moving world, a lot of the common courtesies are being forgotten and left behind. Rudeness in many forms has just become a vice for a great many people, whether intentionally or unconsciously. You can't let it get to you though. You are a good person and that is what matters.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Wed 07/18/12 03:41 PM
why are some people unappreciative? Well, Katy, I appreciate you being here. Then again, I am a bit biased because you are Scottish.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Thu 07/19/12 03:02 AM
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xXkatyXx Joined Mon 06/11/12 Posts: 59	Thu 07/19/12 04:53 AM
why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site I dunno, it is happening everywhere though. I think a lot of it is in this ever growing fast moving world, a lot of the common courtesies are being forgotten and left behind. Rudeness in many forms has just become a vice for a great many people, whether intentionally or unconsciously. You can't let it get to you though. You are a good person and that is what matters. thanks kartagane

xXkatyXx Joined Mon 06/11/12 Posts: 59	Thu 07/19/12 04:54 AM
why are some people unappreciative? Well, Katy, I appreciate you being here. Then again, I am a bit biased because you are Scottish. thanks david

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Thu 07/19/12 06:55 AM
why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site I don't know. But, then again, I don't worry too much about what other people do anymore.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 5012	Sat 07/21/12 12:16 PM
why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site I believe any compliment does require an acknowledgement to be polite, and not to respond displays ignorance, in the same way as not returning a greeting when meeting somone would be ignorant. Unfortunately, there are ignorant people around, their loss, good manners costs nothing.