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Topic: No kissing b4 marriage
Chuuma Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 32	Fri 07/13/12 10:43 PM
Many christians think that it's ok to kiss so longer as u don't do fornication.I think that's wrong, one way of getting intimate with some one is through kissin(apart from sex and touches).I believe ,as a christian, that any thing intimate is spared for the married.....Does any one think the same way.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 07/13/12 11:38 PM
Honestly, I have no clue. Why would kissing be wrong if you both have self control?

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Fri 07/13/12 11:40 PM
Many christians think that it's ok to kiss so longer as u don't do fornication.I think that's wrong, one way of getting intimate with some one is through kissin(apart from sex and touches).I believe ,as a christian, that any thing intimate is spared for the married.....Does any one think the same way. Would depend on the intentions of the kiss. If kissing in general is wrong and related to fornication, then why do people kiss their mom's or other family members?

Aislinn49 Joined Mon 06/25/12 Posts: 1	Sat 07/14/12 03:42 AM
I agree I want my first kiss to be with my husband on our wedding day, I would hold hands and hug but that's it. I can't say really.

Chuuma Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 32	Sat 07/14/12 10:25 AM
Many christians think that it's ok to kiss so longer as u don't do fornication.I think that's wrong, one way of getting intimate with some one is through kissin(apart from sex and touches).I believe ,as a christian, that any thing intimate is spared for the married.....Does any one think the same way. Would depend on the intentions of the kiss. If kissing in general is wrong and related to fornication, then why do people kiss their mom's or other family members? Sorry i did not specify, i meant this mouth to mouth(french whatever ) kiss. I c it as an easy way to fornication and one way of lusting after some one which is wrong.

Chuuma Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 32	Sat 07/14/12 10:28 AM
Honestly, I have no clue. Why would kissing be wrong if you both have self control? That's true.But it is normally not good to test the strength of your self control.It's like listening to love songs with ur boyfriend while on her bed!Think abt it.

Chuuma Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 32	Sat 07/14/12 10:31 AM
I agree I want my first kiss to be with my husband on our wedding day, I would hold hands and hug but that's it. I can't say really. That's the right

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Sat 07/14/12 10:31 AM
Many christians think that it's ok to kiss so longer as u don't do fornication.I think that's wrong, one way of getting intimate with some one is through kissin(apart from sex and touches).I believe ,as a christian, that any thing intimate is spared for the married.....Does any one think the same way. Would depend on the intentions of the kiss. If kissing in general is wrong and related to fornication, then why do people kiss their mom's or other family members? Sorry i did not specify, i meant this mouth to mouth(french whatever ) kiss. I c it as an easy way to fornication and one way of lusting after some one which is wrong. Ah, yes. And again it would depend on the intentions of the kiss. Of course you wouldn't kiss a family member like this, but nevertheless a french kiss is a closer form of kissing, as in it makes the two feel closer. United so to speak for the time being. And on top of that, that is why it's so "special" because it's a way of kissing that the other person doesn't do with anyone else again like a family member or possibly friends.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 07/14/12 01:50 PM
Why do the 'French' always think they discovered intimate kissing? I think it was around before then lol. So I cant 'try before I buy' ya think? Just thinking here....

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48938	Thu 07/19/12 10:27 PM
Many christians think that it's ok to kiss so longer as u don't do fornication.I think that's wrong, one way of getting intimate with some one is through kissin(apart from sex and touches).I believe ,as a christian, that any thing intimate is spared for the married.....Does any one think the same way. Please cite a Bible verse that forbids kissing before marriage.

Chuuma Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 32	Fri 07/20/12 01:29 AM
Many christians think that it's ok to kiss so longer as u don't do fornication.I think that's wrong, one way of getting intimate with some one is through kissin(apart from sex and touches).I believe ,as a christian, that any thing intimate is spared for the married.....Does any one think the same way. Please cite a Bible verse that forbids kissing before marriage. Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality-galatians5:19

CeriseRose Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 6220	Fri 07/20/12 08:41 AM Edited by CeriseRose on Fri 07/20/12 08:50 AM
From a Christian aspect, the act of kissing is not wrong, in and of itself. It depends on the intent. There are many reasons for kissing. The bible mentions the kiss of love, the kiss of reverence, the kiss of adoration and homage, the kiss of peace and reconciliation, the kiss of holy joy and delight; A woman had so much love and adoration for Christ, that she kissed his feet. Luk_7:45, Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet. Apostle Paul and Peter encouraged Christians to: Rom_16:16, Salute one another with an holy kiss. The churches of Christ salute you. 1Co_16:20, All the brethren greet you. Greet ye one another with an holy kiss. 2Co_13:12, Greet one another with an holy kiss. 1Th_5:26, Greet all the brethren with an holy kiss. 1Pe_5:14, Greet ye one another with a kiss of charity. Peace be with you all that are in Christ Jesus. Amen. and, on the other hand there are other types, we read of the kiss of idolatry, the kiss of hypocrisy, of deceit, of the traitor, and the like. Judas betrayed Jesus Christ with a kiss. Then, there is also kissing that incites sexual stimulation... outside of marriage will lead to physical sex...or mental. Of which Jesus said : " But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh [[[ equally if not more so kisseth ]]] on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."Matthew 5:28

Chuuma Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 32	Fri 07/20/12 08:50 AM
From a Christian aspect, the act of kissing is not wrong, in and of itself. It depends on the intent. There are many reasons for kissing. The bible mentions the kiss of love, the kiss of reverence, the kiss of adoration and homage, the kiss of peace and reconciliation, the kiss of holy joy and delight; A woman had so much love and adoration for Christ, that she kissed his feet. Luk_7:45, Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet. Apostle Paul and Peter encouraged Christians to: Rom_16:16, Salute one another with an holy kiss. The churches of Christ salute you. 1Co_16:20, All the brethren greet you. Greet ye one another with an holy kiss. 2Co_13:12, Greet one another with an holy kiss. 1Th_5:26, Greet all the brethren with an holy kiss. 1Pe_5:14, Greet ye one another with a kiss of charity. Peace be with you all that are in Christ Jesus. Amen. and, on the other hand there are other types, we read of the kiss of idolatry, the kiss of hypocrisy, of deceit, of the traitor, and the like. Judas betrayed Jesus Christ with a kiss. Then, there is also kissing that incites sexual stimulation... outside of marriage will lead to physical sex...or mental. Of which Jesus said : " But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh[[[much less kisseth]]] on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."Matthew 5:28

Mallinda40 Joined Fri 07/20/12 Posts: 7	Fri 07/20/12 03:22 PM
well i think if hes is not a great kisser u should find out first lol or u will be very disapointed lol as a christian i think we can hv a relationship with kisses but has God in control and dont let things get so fast and deeper lol

Mallinda40 Joined Fri 07/20/12 Posts: 7	Fri 07/20/12 03:24 PM
wow God that just make me laught alot, i want kiss my future husband before and afiter, can you imagine if u find out afiter married that he is not good enought? i mean in everyway lollol it will be very disappointed , dont u think so? its like play in a lottery lol

Mallinda40 Joined Fri 07/20/12 Posts: 7	Fri 07/20/12 03:29 PM
hahahaha wow OMGD I JUST CAN.T STOP LAUGHING, THAT QUESTION MAKE ME IMAGINE LOTS OF THINGS AND REALLY SO FUNNY, MARRY SOEONE U DONT KNOW HOW THEY KISS OR OTHER THINGS ITS IS SO FUNNY, CAN U IMAGINE YOURSELF IN THAT SITUATION? FORGIVE ME GOD I JUST CANT BECAUSE SO MANY BAD KISSER AROUND THE WORLD AND OTHER THINGS I JUST CAN;T DO THIS TO MMYSELF , ITS IS PLAY TO WIN A LOTTERY U NEVER KNOW IF U WILL GOING TO WIN OR NOT. OWO GOD, THAT IS REALLY BAD

Joelcool7 Joined Tue 06/12/12 Posts: 55	Sun 07/22/12 02:53 AM
There is absolutely nothing wrong with kissing what so ever. Kissing is a way of showing admiration, affection and love and while it is a form of intimacy their is nothing bad about it. In fact I would be very concerned if I dated a girl who did not kiss me. In a way it can be construed as disrespectful or uncaring. Since kissing is a sign that you care about someone. Your mom kisses you, your sister (not mouth sickos lol) and if your in the hospital or dying even your guy friends will likely kiss you on the forehead. Kissing is an essential way of showing you care about someone. Does this mean it has to be french kissing? No!! But kissing is essential! I've kissed a half dozen female friends foreheads, cheeks or hands simply as a gesture of friendship and that I care for the girl. On the lips is something reserved for GF's. But kissing is an essential way of expressing your emotions. My sister is one who believes in not kissing till marriage and I see that as fundamentally wrong. I could date a girl who was saving it till marriage but I don't share that sentiment.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sun 07/22/12 04:33 AM
Lol, I just pictured the wedding alter & him or her thinking 'Gross, that was horrible!' after the first kiss. I guess love being kind & patient would grin & bare it, with the intention of subtly teaching them :-) I believe you can kiss without lusting.

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Mon 07/23/12 04:24 PM Edited by Scotti71 on Mon 07/23/12 04:27 PM
Many christians think that it's ok to kiss so longer as u don't do fornication.I think that's wrong, one way of getting intimate with some one is through kissin(apart from sex and touches).I believe ,as a christian, that any thing intimate is spared for the married.....Does any one think the same way. Thats a hard one because I can see both sides of the discussion.Your right with the intimacy spared before marriage,but personally I think kissing is ok as long as thats all you do!It can be an expression of love and devotion between two people.More can be said with one kiss than any amount of words.That being said-maybe it is meant for after marriage-see what I mean-it is a hard one,for me anyway

LyricalCHILD Joined Sat 04/21/12 Posts: 20	Fri 08/17/12 10:44 AM
Please cite a Bible verse that forbids kissing before marriage. The bible does not forbid kissing but it also does not speak about dating which goes hand in hand with kissing. A man found a wife, not a girlfriend. For those who are in favor of kissing, where do the hands go whilst in the moment of tongue-wrestling? Come on, be honest =)