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Topic: No kissing b4 marriage
Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sun 08/19/12 11:39 PM
I wouldn't know? Where do they go lyricalCHILD? I would think nowhere myself.

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Mon 08/20/12 06:15 AM
To think that you are NOT going to kiss your future husband or wife is just ludicrous

howwy Joined Thu 08/04/11 Posts: 3	Mon 08/20/12 03:41 PM
there is nothing wrong with kissing before marriage,as long as there is an agreement between both partner before.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 08/20/12 04:20 PM
there is nothing wrong with kissing before marriage,as long as there is an agreement between both partner before. That is my opinion also. If you have no self control you shouldnt even be getting married, lust will destroy you eventually.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Mon 08/20/12 05:38 PM
I think it is natural to kiss and hug. It helps bring two people closer in my opinion.

Hikerjohn Joined Sun 08/19/12 Posts: 1028	Fri 08/24/12 08:43 PM
Well I for one wouldn't feel comfortable reading about Jesus snogging with a gal. (That is British for kissing) But I will never forget my first kiss in 7th grade with Lisa &&%. It was a wow moment. And we did it more than once. I don't look back at it with shame or guilt as doing something wrong like other things that I chose wrong about later in life. But I was not brought up in a culture that taught kissing as fornication. But now being newly single, I don't see that I would rush into kissing again. But that's because i am at a place in my faith where pleasing my Father and having him pleased with me is so much more important than any pleasure that can be found here. Even the good ones. When the good Lord chooses to bring a lady back into my life, soooo many other issues are going to be enjoyed and shared way before a kiss. But lets be real. The intimacy starts in the heart way before a touch of the hand. And even that first holding of hands can be magic. If your truly putting the Kingdom first and in doing so, seeking to please our Father in our relationships, than we need to start this conversation way before a kiss.

LyricalCHILD Joined Sat 04/21/12 Posts: 20	Sun 08/26/12 09:02 AM
Well I for one wouldn't feel comfortable reading about Jesus snogging with a gal. (That is British for kissing) But I will never forget my first kiss in 7th grade with Lisa &&%. It was a wow moment. And we did it more than once. I don't look back at it with shame or guilt as doing something wrong like other things that I chose wrong about later in life. But I was not brought up in a culture that taught kissing as fornication. But now being newly single, I don't see that I would rush into kissing again. But that's because i am at a place in my faith where pleasing my Father and having him pleased with me is so much more important than any pleasure that can be found here. Even the good ones. When the good Lord chooses to bring a lady back into my life, soooo many other issues are going to be enjoyed and shared way before a kiss. But lets be real. The intimacy starts in the heart way before a touch of the hand. And even that first holding of hands can be magic. If your truly putting the Kingdom first and in doing so, seeking to please our Father in our relationships, than we need to start this conversation way before a kiss. Wow, I want a man like that =)

Hikerjohn Joined Sun 08/19/12 Posts: 1028	Thu 08/30/12 07:25 PM
Well it would be great if I invented this guy and I could patent it but I cannot. Its what we are called to do. So if you want a man like that, find a man who seeks the kingdom more than he is seeking you. He cannot put you and the kingdom first at the same time. And if he starts to put you first, he is now worshiping you. I know that may feel good but its not really what you want. I think you know what I am saying.

LyricalCHILD Joined Sat 04/21/12 Posts: 20	Mon 09/24/12 12:21 AM
Well it would be great if I invented this guy and I could patent it but I cannot. Its what we are called to do. So if you want a man like that, find a man who seeks the kingdom more than he is seeking you. He cannot put you and the kingdom first at the same time. And if he starts to put you first, he is now worshiping you. I know that may feel good but its not really what you want. I think you know what I am saying. I do

Rexxiedavie Joined Sun 09/12/10 Posts: 2248	Fri 09/28/12 09:53 AM
Inasmuch as its a commandment from God to abstain from all sexual lusts wether wit a potential marriage partner or not,i dont think kissing is sinful as long as there...its limited to just that nd nothing more that would lead to disobeying Gods rule and open gates to contrary forces..but if the potential couple agree on abstaining from all forms of intimacy mutually then the better as well...

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Fri 09/28/12 06:16 PM
I reckon it would be a sin depending on where ya' was kissin' him/her?

malibu818 Joined Wed 10/17/12 Posts: 4	Wed 10/17/12 11:01 PM
Your on the right track by abstaining from kissing. As the other person mentioned " when you kiss where do your hands go." If two people are ment to be then this kissing deal will work itself out when you get married.