I'm going to be dating again really soon with a girl that my friend is hooking me up with, and she has two kid's and want's out of the book with the guy she's with now.

My question for you all is should i take this slow or alittle fast???...

well geeze you should know that question yourself. with any kind of relationship it should be slow.. Never!!! rush a relationship

I hope she has brains enough to not parade you around her kids!! Unless you wanna be her baby daddy!!!

Vegas man what do you mean by out of the book with the other guy??? you mean she's dating some one else currently?

Why would your friend hook you up with some one who's actively dating I don't understand????

She's with a guy that she dosen't want any more and is a major jerk, and dosn't do anything for her at all, they don't sleep in the same room at all, and she been back and forth with this guy, cause she isn't good at finding someone herself so her friend know's me for sometime, and her friend have know each other for many year's. That's what i ment out of the book with the other guy

Thank's for all your reply's

Vegas......I'm here to save you from yourself....

Why??? do you want to start dating a Woman who has drama going on in here life ?

She has a few strikes against Her already for one She has bad taste in Men if She couldn't see this jerk coming along.

don't put all your eggs in one basket going into this ya you gotta break a few to make an omelette but why not go drama free sounds like She has enough on her plate let alone meeting and dating some one new.????

I'm going to try the 1st date just to see how all is with this one, and if it's sucking, and sound's like a trap i'll run the other way.

why even try....

What about the kids? Have you thought about them?

Oh so you wanna be the rebound relationship then...Good Luck...Yep I can see drama coming a mile away...Those that have a relationship lined up even before the other has ended...HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

Good Luck with that one!!!!!!!!!

Everything has it's own pace.


Ya can't answer a question like this until the situation actually happens. And then you know for yourself.

I been thinking about this over and over again and again,i'm going to date her and i know if she like me she'll kick out the guy at some point and i'll move in if it's really ment to be.

slow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In Vagas Nothing last long Or Moves slow......Rock it while you got the Chance......in other words VROOOOM

All I have to say is .........I was in a situation just like that well sorta anyway.I hooked up with my ex that I was with for like 6 years .I was madly in love with her I mean madly!!!
Anyway she was with someone when I aproached her and told her I was still in love with her.The feeling was mutual but she was in a situation whr she couldnt leave or so she said and....I thought.We were going out and sleeping together n such.It was always "IM LEAVING HIM SOON" this went on for a year before I said man I love you with all my heart but leave him or Im gone.Anyway she stayd and I left.MY POINT IS THIS DO NOT GET IN A RELASIONSHIP UNTIL THAT PERSON IS FREE AND CLEAR OF PRESENT DANGER OF HURTING YOU.TRUST ME BRO STAY AWAY!!!!!!

oh dear - this does not bode well for you young grasshoppa

Don't you think you deserve to be with someone who is free to fully invest in a possible relationship...she is not and even if she leaves him she will have some emotional housekeeping to do.

I know this is just a first date but what if you really like this girl?

Things don't usually turn out in the favour of the rebound guy...

Thank's again for your thought's on this, i'm going to just date her for the moment

People out there is there a movie out there with the type of thing i'm getting into i'd llike to watch it.

How come no one is talking and just viewing?????