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Topic: just a question to the community..
Desi18's photo
Wed 06/20/12 09:51 AM
I'm 18 years old and i dont understand how men ages 50 and sometimes older often try and hit on me. It doesn't make sense, because i know that im not mature enough for an older guy. Therefore, im attracted to young guys hoping that one of them is going to be the one that i'm going to grow older with.

msharmony's photo
Wed 06/20/12 04:13 PM



You don't have to understand it. I don't understand homosexuality, but I don't assume those involved in it have some unresolved mental issues.

But, let's look at it from the other side. What does a mature woman have to offer that a young one doesn't?



experience, responsibility, stability,,,

usually, an older person will be more LIKELY Than a younger person to have developed those things,,,,


in the case of Angelina, she had all those things by 25 when she married a man 20 years her senior (Still didnt work for them apparently, but it lasted a minute in hollywood terms)

MOST 18 year olds, as the op asked about, have NONE of those things,,,


A mature man would have gained enough experience of his own and doesn't have a need for any a woman may bring to a relationship.

A young woman can be just as responsible and stable as anyone. These things have nothing to do with age and are more components of a personality. I know plenty of irresponsible and unstable people in their 40s and 50s.


its not about what what the man 'needs' the woman for,, thats the point and a good example of why a man, grown with children or halfway to retirement, would have anything to build upon with someone just exiting high school

she would be the only one needing to grow and he would have almost complete control over it because of his HEAD START in experience,,,it would be nearly impossible to grow 'together'

but, I dont think growing is much of what those relationships are about,,,,

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Wed 06/20/12 04:37 PM



What about this couple? Is Angelina also a prostitute?




They haven't been a couple since 2003.

krupa's photo
Wed 06/20/12 04:45 PM
It's like fishing....

Every guy knows that you don't just throw your bait out there once....reel it in...then go home cause you didn't get a bite.

You keep casting it out there...younger...older...who cares? A good looking fish is a good looking fish. It's up to you if you keep what you catch or if you toss it back.

But, most guys end up too drunk to fish..... with flies buzzing around trying to figure out if the stink bait is in the tackle box or in thier mouth.


Back on topic....


I know danged well I ain't gonna be tapping the young chicks like I did when I was young....don't mean that they ain't nice to look at and they actually make some really cool people that I call friends.

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Thu 06/21/12 07:21 AM

I'm 18 years old and i dont understand how men ages 50 and sometimes older often try and hit on me. It doesn't make sense, because i know that im not mature enough for an older guy. Therefore, im attracted to young guys hoping that one of them is going to be the one that i'm going to grow older with.


You get mail from mature men because there are some women your age that find men my age attractive and are not opposed to getting involved with one. Until we ask, we don't know.


its not about what what the man 'needs' the woman for,, thats the point and a good example of why a man, grown with children or halfway to retirement, would have anything to build upon with someone just exiting high school

she would be the only one needing to grow and he would have almost complete control over it because of his HEAD START in experience,,,it would be nearly impossible to grow 'together'

but, I dont think growing is much of what those relationships are about,,,,


Of course it about what the man wants the woman for, It's also about what the woman wants the man for. We all do things because we see a benefit in it for ourselves. Relationships last only as long as both parties are benefited by each other. Once the benefit ends for one of them, the relationship is likely soon to follow.

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