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Are we allowed, and I mean "allowed" as in: do we let ourselves to be sad? justmarian, This is for you:  I know of two discussion threads that specifically ask you to share how you feel. By the way, your IM filter settings prevent some of us from privately encouraging you. I could not send you my customary "Welcome" message when you first joined here. |
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   (HAPPY BIRTHDAY) Sorry you are having such a bad day. |
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Happy Birthday
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Of course you're allowed to be sad. I'd start worrying if there was a person that existed who NEVER got sad :) I may appear happy most of the time. I just don't like dwelling on the negative. I don't like telling others when I feel upset, as I always think it may dampen their day. I don't keep my emotions to myself. I just prefer to divert the negative feelings right back to where they came from. If that makes any sense. It actually took me quite a few year to get into a positive frame of mind. Positivity won't happen overnight. :flower: :)
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Thank you all for wishing me a happy b-day and for your replies. You were all very undersatanding and you made me feel .... well, welcome
thank you!! Today one of my groups of students celebrated my birthday in class, they made me a cake and we shared a short but very nice time! That really helped me feel better.... thank you all, I really mean it, thanks!!! hope you are all OK and see you soon! :-) |
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Missmarian, I am glad that you are feeling better. It is OK to be sad. Just to let people know, I would have smooshed Miss Muffet's spider!
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Edited by
Citizen_Joe
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Tue 06/12/12 08:38 PM
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That´s something I have asked myself lately. We´re used to hiding our emotions in our everyday life (at least in my country). If you are seen crying in the street, no matter if you´re crying because you´re happy or sad, most people will look at you as if you were crazy, some of them may even give you the "what is she thinking, crying in public??!!" look. Are we allowed, and I mean "allowed" as in: do we let ourselves to be sad? Last night I went to City Counsel and pretty much cited George Carlin's American Dream, reiterated my disgust in the federal government and its agencies playing both sides of the war on drugs, and mentioned the mother of my child as one of its casualties and how St Rita's would take her because her addiction was not heroin. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=acLW1vFO-2Q I don't just allow my feelings to be heard. In cases that matter, I demand it. |
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I'm always sad, you can join me anytime, I have hankies at the ready :'( [] []
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Edited by
msharmony
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Wed 06/13/12 07:01 PM
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Thank you for your simpathy Spidercmb And Totage, I do believe your words are wise but I didn´t mean it like that. My question was: Can we even say we are sad in this site without people thinking we are just a grumpy, biiter and sad person? its more than possible, in fact, the longer you post in the forums the more of a feel people get for your general character so as to tell if you are a grumpy person in general or a happy person who has had a bad day keep posting and enjoying and try not to focus on what others may 'think',,,,  LET ME ADD,,, some of the points of views you will read in these forums will definitely make you sad sometimes if you are at all human...... human is good,,,
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Can we even say we are sad in this site without people thinking we are just a grumpy, biiter and sad person? There's so many grumpy and bitter people on here already, people wouldn't even notice one more. |
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Thu 06/14/12 08:50 AM
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Can we even say we are sad in this site without people thinking we are just a grumpy, biiter and sad person? I have been here a LONG TIME, and all the people here have seen every single side of me, that there was, or is, to be seen.They have been to hell and back with me SEVERAL times, so let me tell you this, BECAUSE I KNOW THIS TO BE TRUE... Minglers do not judge you! Minglers are different then most sites. We have a silly, fun, family, site, full of GENUINE people, NOT FAKE PEOPLE. We all throw opinions around left and right, which is what forums are for...discussion, but WE DONT JUDGE YOU! If you say your sad in a post, me, or someone is gonna ask why, and offer you help. If its just to talk, or listen, or whatever, we are here for each other through the THICK AND THE THIN. So just be yourself, and ~Welcome to Mingle2~
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And im sorry that this is late, buttt......
  ITS MARIAN'S BIRTHDAY.......YAY!!!!!!!!! This song is for you Marian !!!  You say its your birthday happy birthday to you You say its your birthday we're gonna have a good time  You say its your birthday happy birthday to you    ((((((MARIAN)))))) OMG, this is so exciting!!  Welcome to Mingle Marian! We hope you have fun, feel the love, and stay awhile! Your a fresh breath of air, and we love you!  Hopefully I can post this next year, ON THE RIGHT DAY!         O.k. Wheres the cake? |
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OMG!!!!! hahaha LOL. LMAO!!!!!!!!!
Thank you Lov2rocknroll!!! I can´t breathe!! I´m laughing so hard!!!! I loved EVERYTHING you posted, do you think it was too much??? hahahha the rat´s so funny! but the frog gets first prize! hahaha thank you, I feel much better now, even though I can´t wait this week to end, have had some arguments and things I wish to forget by the end of the week.... I just want to relax and have a beer.... or two, or... whatever, I just want to chill out!!! THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR POSTING , YOU REALLY HELPED ME FORGET THAT AWFUL DAY... THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! :) Have a great week!!! and see you around!!! |
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It's fine to be sad from time to time.. though never dwell on it too long.. as the sun will always shine again in our lives..
Belated Birthday Wishes, and here's the cake.. with an extra to go round everyone..    And 'Brand New Day' from Eurythmics.. (though the video is not the best).. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qxu6wJe2ACY |
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thanks for the cake!!! that´s so sweet!
and i like it because I just truned 28 and the cake has number 27 on top, so thank you for making me look younger! lol thank you!! cake for everyone!!! |
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OMG!!!!! hahaha LOL. LMAO!!!!!!!!! Thank you Lov2rocknroll!!! I can´t breathe!! I´m laughing so hard!!!! I loved EVERYTHING you posted, do you think it was too much??? hahahha the rat´s so funny! but the frog gets first prize! hahaha Im glad you liked it!
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Hello and welcome to our nuthouse.
If you need your meds filled report to the pharmacy. To get you started report to housekeeping to pick up your linen for your bed. Housekeeping will also assist you to your dormitory and show you to your room & assign you to your bed. Breakfast is at 6:00 Am. Lunch is at 12:00 Pm. Dinner is at 4:00 Pm. Any other questions take to your shrink. Thank you, The staff. Boonedog Happy Birthday Marian!!!!!!! |
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And todays lunch will be, of course,
Mingles World Famous Dog Soup!  Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, yummy! |
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thank you boonedog!!!
mmm. I would eat those spaghettis for nothing.... well, maybe for a thousand dollars....ok, 500 ....hahahha |
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Happy Birthday and you can feel any way you want Mingle pal. Sometimes it will be sad someetimes glad but usually a mix if it is real life. I find the forums, especially the jokes and poetry Well WIshes are a good pick me up when my days seem to be bummed out. Personally I would like a person who is not a Polly Anna phoney or a constant grumpy gus but sometime s the ends of spectrum makes the middle where I usually live seem pretty good.
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