It seems as if most men are not willing to provide the traditional...prince on the white horse type fantasy for a women, but instead he is looking for a lady on a horse to come and save him. What is with the men in 2007????? I know this may sound bitter, but it is truly an observation. Has anyone experienced the same. I love being independent, and I believe that folks have the wrong impression of what a women means by being independent....well....you can add the rest.

i been hurt bye eve wonamn it seem they dont want a sweet guy with a good heart in life

sweets, you just dont understand, i have explain to you. and it seem as though you dont get it

itsuptomein2007
welcome to the family and join in the the and have a and enjoy

fidelity and honesty are a couple big ones on my list

so dont feel alone...we guys have the same issue to deal with

You are right 3freedom. I guess we have to all sort throught the pile and pick the right individual. The hard part is that everyone puts their best face forward. It may be years before you realize that the person that you have is not the person that you thought you were involved with.

Thanks for the invite Queene123!!! Back to ya.

its a different time today, some people are always looking something better, not realizing what they had until its gone. when your prince charming comes you will know, it just sucks that sometimes we have to grab a few bad apples before we find a good one.

welcome to my world! lol! 2yrs into my first and only marriage and i started seeing it...6 mnths later...well...you get the idea...that was 2 1/2mths ago! so now just pickup the pieces and move on!

First of all I have to say a prince on a horse is something out of a fairytale not real life.I'm just looking for a best friend of the opposite sex because a best friend will share the same values and interest.If I ever do find her I will treat her like a lady should be treated.I'm sick of the women I have been dating the one nighters,the drunks, the crazy ladies,the girls that haven't gotten over the ex and the net worth girls.Are there any normal ladies left?

alot of men want a women to take care of them or usually date multiple woman at a time.but when they come across an independant woman,they run the other way because that would mean he would have to treat her good

or they are looking for a booty call.

i was talking to a guy on nite he wanted all this affection but no girlfriend..i told him all you want is the milk without having to by the cow

i know all guys arent evil or sex whores..but the few ive dated had issues lol

Well Southern it would seem you have learned somethings since we first started posting.. Thank you for not balling us guys all together...

itsup, There are men that don't think that way. as a matter of fact I could have bought myself a nice two seated sports car, but I'm going for a bigger car so that when I do date a single Mom.. which most women are now... I can take her children as well...

What do you think about that???

lol your welcome dale,but i mean come on, im a good girl and im smart and yet i cant find a man to have an intelligent coversation with that doesnt lead back to sex.

i dont need a sugar daddy, i need a man who isnt scared of me because im independant and trying educate myself and smart!

Hey Southern.. any time you want to talk.. I'm a good listener..

well thank you dale

My thing is this..........Why are the independent women out of touch when it comes to how to take care of their man. I mean, do you but a man needs love and affection as well. A touch here , carressing there, a kiss, is that too much to ask for.

in my exp

and this is only mine.

Women wil ltake one look at the outside of a man and turn thier node up saying there not good enuf. or at least thinking that.
well I'm now 38 and was thinking all the women out there that thought that are now with rebounds. I'm not good enuf? look who you settled down with?

well what do guys want?
they want some one who apreciates them for who they are not who or what they can be or should be for that matter. I'm to old now to put on a good show for the ladies and now look where I am now? Alone.

right now as long as they look 1/2 good I'll take that :)

I dont want the prince on the white horse. That dam horse would be pooping on my lawn!!! Not looking for prince charming either. I want KENS BIG BROTHER.

i just want honesty