Topic: Agree or disagree?
SheNerd's photo
Sun 07/29/07 02:42 PM
Careful you don't get butter fingers.

SheNerd's photo
Sun 07/29/07 02:43 PM
Would those be of the honey or the bumble variety?

Tomokun's photo
Sun 07/29/07 02:45 PM
Bumble...I'm a diabetic:tongue:

SheNerd's photo
Sun 07/29/07 02:54 PM
Me too. Maybe that's why chocolate strudel makes me dizzy... :smile:

Tomokun's photo
Sun 07/29/07 03:01 PM
*Holding out box* Bees?

SheNerd's photo
Sun 07/29/07 03:44 PM
Thank you mein Fuhrer. May I say what a lovely dress you're wearing. It it scalps or foreskins or just made to look that way??? bigsmile

Tomokun's photo
Sun 07/29/07 03:54 PM
It is foreskins held together by bee honey...danke Fraulein.:wink:

Native_Grl39's photo
Sun 07/29/07 03:55 PM
I'm thinkin..UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!


People have many different preferences and attractions...They don't all fit into a mold!!!!!!!! Confidence is not all it takes to attract someone...They have to have a personality to go with that confidence...among other things according to different preferences!!!!!!!!!!


flowerforyou flowerforyou

YeaBigsexy's photo
Sun 07/29/07 04:06 PM
well i do believe anyone can have anyone
i find that when i really want some one
i get them )))))but(((((
it doesnt mean ill keep them or vice versa
its all in how bad you want it
and how bad you make them want you!!!
bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

HangedMan's photo
Sun 07/29/07 04:07 PM
Bas in B S as in S

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sun 07/29/07 04:08 PM
I disagree.............

Tomokun's photo
Sun 07/29/07 04:12 PM
Agreed, but you have to have confidence to let your personality shine.

I've got a friend, and he's a great guy. Sweet, funny, quirky, and according to a few ladies not bad looking either. Unfortunately, the poor bastard has absolutely no luck with women. The reason? He worries so much about whether or not they are going to like him that they never get to meet the real him. All they see is this nervous guy who is sweet and good looking, but EXTREMELY .... for lack of a more descriptive phrase, nervous. Whether it be that he comes across desperate, shy, or timid; the fact remains that it is because he lacks the confidence to be himself that ladies don't find him appealing.


YeaBigsexy's photo
Sun 07/29/07 04:18 PM
well i guess its up to the person when
im one of the most cocky people i know when it comes to women
mabey thats why!!
i never let a women shut me down as far as persueing them
it might take a few times but they seem to come around
once they see im not full of sh!t and im being honest
but its all in the presentation!!
all steak is good but would you eat it on the ground?

no photo
Sun 07/29/07 04:28 PM
SN -- I see it as using hyperbole to make a general point. But not as an absolute truth. I think it's probably true that a lot of people might be able to get together with someone they wouldn't normally expect to get with. That has a lot to do with confidence and self-worth, which lots of people have issues with.

But to say anybody can get anybody? Nah, ain't gonna happen. Some barriers are bigger than that.


dizzydean5's photo
Sun 07/29/07 04:32 PM
its not true a man can think that but its bull --------

YeaBigsexy's photo
Sun 07/29/07 04:34 PM
ok lex ill go with that!!!
dizzy you got a lot to learn!!
its ok late bloomers still have a chance to learn!!
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TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/29/07 07:59 PM
Hummm now normally I woud say yeah right Sexy , but now I watched this special tonight with Gene Simmons from Kiss sorry the guy does not appeal to me at all but he proved it more than one time there was not a woman he could not get in less than 5 wild but truelaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh bigsmile

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 07/29/07 08:04 PM
confidence is a major "turn on" for me, however other factors are important also!

lulu24's photo
Sun 07/29/07 08:06 PM
day-old biscuits is putting it nicely.

while personality is very important...it's not the ONLY thing. there HAS to be sexual attraction, otherwise...we're just friends.

no photo
Sun 07/29/07 08:09 PM
i agree to a point. you have to face the facts though, to some people it doesn't matter how much confidence you have or what you say if they think you're ugly.