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Topic: is it wrong
shandi69 Joined Sat 03/31/12 Posts: 137	Mon 05/21/12 06:57 AM
Is it wrong that i would like for once in my life to be taken out on dates that don't involve guys to want sex straight after.. I never been on dates or taken to dinner.. So am i wrong that i want to be treated different...

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Mon 05/21/12 07:59 AM
Not wrong at all. Just because some men have treated you less amazingly than you deserve does not mean you need to settle for that. good guys are out there, don't steele for less any longer.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Mon 05/21/12 08:10 AM
It is soooo wrong on so many levels. If, I pay, she should lay. Just kidding. Any man should feel honored to take you out on a date without expectations of any kind.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45353	Mon 05/21/12 09:41 AM
Is it wrong that i would like for once in my life to be taken out on dates that don't involve guys to want sex straight after.. I never been on dates or taken to dinner.. So am i wrong that i want to be treated different... This could all be my fault. I wouldn't go out with someone unless I already wanted to sleep with them :-) So sorry for the expectations.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Mon 05/21/12 09:48 AM
I'm hungry!

moe0 Joined Mon 05/21/12 Posts: 31	Tue 05/22/12 03:52 PM
the men not same ^

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Tue 05/22/12 07:16 PM
... Any man should feel honored to take you out on a date without expectations of any kind. Aside from insinuating the obligation of sex, WHY? Do I hear the Princess syndrome? A first date is to find out information: 1. Does she have relationship potential to me? 2. Do I have relationship potential to her? These are reasonable expectations on any date.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Tue 05/22/12 07:29 PM
If you've never been on a date without sex as a "payment" then you may need to have a better opinion of the worth of your company.

shandi69 Joined Sat 03/31/12 Posts: 137	Wed 05/23/12 02:00 AM
so this means old fashion dating has flown away with the times and welcome to the twenty first century hey.... Will be searching the back of the cupboard for the gentleman in the world... No wonder my kids tell me get with the times and wine, dine and 69... Lol

dblogs Joined Mon 08/29/11 Posts: 1	Wed 05/23/12 03:46 AM
Hi like so many things in life, things change but there are still a few people with morals who still know how to behave like humans and not act with a jungle instinct. A first date for me had always been to learn about another person to treat that person with respect and dignity and if you are a compatible couple then things in time may develop further. I an saying all this from my point of view things have certainly changed since I started dating many years ago...I had been happily married for almost 30 years but sadly I lost my wife to cancer in 2011 I know that if I ever start dating again those principles will still apply...Remember if you don’t respect yourself then no one will respect you.. David

shandi69 Joined Sat 03/31/12 Posts: 137	Wed 05/23/12 04:26 AM
that is so true david and thanks for all opinions and mg wat r u hungry for... You seem to be starving...lol

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Wed 05/23/12 04:51 AM
Is it wrong that i would like for once in my life to be taken out on dates that don't involve guys to want sex straight after.. I never been on dates or taken to dinner.. So am i wrong that i want to be treated different... Instead of the usual slice of toast, why don't you try a freshly baked chocolate croissant for breakfast? Be careful though...you may not ever go back to toast once you sink your teeth into the croissant

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Wed 05/23/12 04:55 AM


shandi69 Joined Sat 03/31/12 Posts: 137	Wed 05/23/12 05:01 AM
well that is something to think about, a chocolate crossiant, but i'm not one for the sweet chocolate, i more for cream and doughnuts. Lol

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Wed 05/23/12 05:03 AM
Whatever tickles your fancy

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Wed 05/23/12 05:04 AM
Scooby snack??

newg78 Joined Thu 03/01/07 Posts: 3672	Wed 05/23/12 07:24 AM
Pay for the date - that will make you feel treated differently and you will never date the same guy again but you will gain self esteem, trust me

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Wed 05/23/12 08:11 AM
Is it wrong that i would like for once in my life to be taken out on dates that don't involve guys to want sex straight after.. I never been on dates or taken to dinner.. So am i wrong that i want to be treated different... im sorry sounds like the losers i attract hmmmmmmmmm

txsweetheart87 Joined Wed 05/23/12 Posts: 5	Fri 05/25/12 07:36 PM
I know how you feel on that. No theres nothing wrong with it.